I have a friend who seems to be depressed.
She hasn't been to work for half a year, but she usually has some part-time jobs to support her daily expenses. But after all, it is difficult to support it for a long time, watching the numbers in the bank card subtract day by day, and it is false to say that you are not anxious.
We have a WeChat group of 5 people, but I found that she almost stopped chatting with us recently, whether it was sending messages or **, she didn't communicate with us anymore.
Later, I asked her privately, and she said that she didn't know when she couldn't be interested in anything, she just felt very sad, couldn't lift her energy, and didn't want to talk, she just wanted to stay alone quietly, her appetite was not very good, and she was so anxious that she couldn't sleep in the middle of the night.
In fact, she is not the only one, I was also like this for a while, I was very sad when I didn't have an interview, and I was very skeptical of life. When there is an interview, I dare not go out, for fear of rejection, and doubt my ability.
I don't want to talk to my friends, let alone tell my family, I always feel like a failure, I can't even find a job, and I feel that my parents' training of me is in vain.
The adult world seems to comfort ourselves in a silent way, because here in our ordinary people at the bottom, we have no excellent background, no strong backers, and no financial support, the only thing we can rely on is to fight desperately.
When everything is stagnant, we will be very anxious, the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea of life, none of them do not need to pay for money, and it is difficult to move an inch without money in the world of the poor, let alone talk about poetry and distance, dreams, and travel.
There are always times when people have a low period, but please believe that there is no way out, and there is no way out, and I will not comfort others, because I can't even comfort myself, as long as I can still live strongly, I believe that there will always be a moment to see the light.