Of course, when you step through the doors of a school, you expect a safe and harmonious environment, a place where children can grow up healthily. However, a recent tragic incident in a certain school makes people wonder, what happened to the current students?
The incident was the case of a 12-year-old girl who was beaten by eight of her classmates. It is understood that the violence, which lasted up to three hours, took place in three places: the school playground, the grove and the corner, and the cruelty was that the people took the girl's ears as a "target" and took turns to compete to see who could fan "loudly". Eventually, the girl's eardrum was punctured, resulting in serious injuries.
Imagine a child who has just entered puberty, with a swollen face, eyes that can't be opened, a crooked mouth, and a few blood spots, and her mother can't stop crying when she sees this. It is undoubtedly a nightmare scenario, a mother who would rather accept the urge to kill than want her child to be treated so cruelly.
When the girl's mother learned of the child's injuries, she immediately took her to the hospital for a procedure**. After the doctor's diagnosis, the girl's left eardrum was perforated and required surgery**. The girl's mother, who could not imagine that her beloved child had become like this, decided to call the police to seek justice.
* After the intervention, the parents of the eight students rushed to the hospital and apologized to the girl's mother and the girl herself. However, it is unacceptable that these parents' apologies are insincere, and even say: "Whoever has a child who does not fight, should be compensated." This indifferent attitude made the girl's mother sad and angry, and she could not accept such an apology. These parents don't even have the courage to empathize, how would they feel if their children were beaten like this?
After joint verification and processing with the school, the final mediation result came out. Although the results of the mediation were not made public, the girl's mother accepted the negotiated outcome of the compensation. At the moment, the girl has gone back to school, and her ears are being conservative**.
The incident has provoked several questions to ponder. First of all, why did no one find out about the group beating that lasted three hours and changed places?Why didn't anyone inform the teacher about this?Secondly, the girl's face was beaten beyond recognition, didn't the teacher notice it when she was in class that day?Why didn't a teacher give the girl's mother a **?It wasn't until the girl couldn't stand it that she called her mother for help. Finally, when the girl was beaten, why did the parents of the eight beating students ask to settle it privately, thinking that their children would not leave a criminal record?What a selfish act!If it is not resolved privately, will school leaders and class teachers be dealt with?
Through this incident, we must deeply reflect on why such a serious bullying incident occurs in schools, which should be a place for learning and educationWhy do students become so arrogant and no one stops them?Why is school bullying more common in urban boarding schools and less common in rural schools?This may have something to do with parents and school management. In rural schools, since children are day schools, once a child is bullied or bullied by others, parents will be informed in time and educate the child to correct this behavior. Of course, the strict management of schools, the phenomenon of students forming gangs is restricted, and even some teachers support students.
Schools must attach great importance to the occurrence of bullying and violence in schools, and take active measures to prevent and deal with them. First of all, schools should strengthen education, educate students about relevant laws and regulations and the consequences of bad behavior, and improve students' awareness of laws and regulations. Second, schools should set up special institutions or committees to monitor and deal with school violence incidents, detect and stop bad behaviors in a timely manner, and protect students' safety. At the same time, schools should strengthen communication with parents, hold regular parent meetings, communicate the school's safety policies and measures to parents, and listen to parents' opinions and suggestions. Finally, schools and parents need to work together to develop the right values, morals and norms of behaviour in students, so that they can understand the wrongness and harmfulness of violence. Only through the efforts of the whole society can we effectively protect the rights and interests of students and create a safe and harmonious school environment.