There are so many people in the world, there is no shortage of lovers, but there must be no shortage of lovers.
Everyone has a different understanding of love. It has been said that love is when two people are attracted to each other and love each other. Some people say: love is to be loyal to each other and not to do anything to be sorry for each other.
But for lovers, love is a gamble. In this gamble, everyone wants to win. But the truth is often not satisfactory, because the weakness of human nature is easy to be exploited, especially in front of **.
Maybe you're just on the spur of the moment, but once you get what you want, you become very greedy. Eventually, you may lose everything and even your own life.
The relationship between lovers is like a gamble.
Once you start, there's no turning back!The three most common endings between lovers:
broke up unhappily and parted ways.
Between lovers, it is often easy to have feelings.
However, when one person is carried away by love, or the other person is carried away by desire, all kinds of contradictions arise between each other.
Once there is a problem, it is difficult for two people to deal with the problem calmly, and in the end they can only part ways.
If this is the case for both parties, then the lover relationship is bound to make the relationship between the two people very awkward.
For example: there are many examples of this in life:
originally had a stable and happy marriage, but because the other party cheated, the two finally embarked on the road to divorce.
originally had a stable and happy family, but because of the cheating of the other half, the relationship between the husband and wife finally broke down.
When there is a problem between lovers, neither is willing to forgive the other. Then the next result is to break up unhappily and part ways!
Everyone should understand that a lover relationship is a deformed relationship. Not only will it hurt the other person, but it will also hurt itself!
If you continue like this, sooner or later you will drive yourself crazy and drive yourself to death!
Left with both people and money.
I know a woman named Xiaohong, who is a more introverted person. She is not very beautiful, but she is a very temperamental woman. She has a son and her husband is the head of a company. It can be said that her life is not bad.
However, since Xiaohong met a man named Zhang Ming, her life has changed dramatically.
Zhang Ming is 12 years older than Xiaohong, but the two get along very well. He always buys things for Xiaohong, and also takes Xiaohong to the company to meet some friends. Under Zhang Ming's fierce pursuit, Xiaohong soon became with him.
After being with Zhang Ming, Xiaohong felt that she was really happy. Because Zhang Ming was a tasteful, rich, and attractive man, he often gave her gifts and gave her expensive clothes and jewelry.
However, as time passed, Xiaohong gradually discovered that Zhang Ming was not like that. He didn't give her the security and security she deserved.
In such a relationship, Xiaohong is increasingly dissatisfied with the status quo. She felt that she was the most important person. When she wanted more, Zhang Ming would leave him.
In the end, Xiaohong ended up with both people and money.
Both loses, both loses.
No matter what kind of identity you enter the other person's life, you will eventually be abandoned by the other person. In an unhealthy relationship, either party will eventually get hurt.
Everyone has their own bottom line, especially when it comes to feelings. As long as you don't touch each other's bottom line and don't touch his principles, you can be friends with each other.
But if you violate his principles, he will surely treat you as an enemy.
As soon as a disagreement arises between you, your relationship will break down.
If you continue to be together, not only will you not be happy, but you will also lose everything because of your relationship. In this case, both people will be hurt.
For lovers, none of these three ends are good endings. Either way, it's a lose-lose situation. After all, life for two people is like a gamble. No matter how much you love each other, you have to think about it carefully.
Don't waste your feelings on the wrong people. In the end, you will only get yourself hurt!