My name is Li Mei and I am 62 years old this year. After many years of marriage, my wife Zhang Wei and I have been living happily. We have a son and daughter, and the children are married and have children, and the family is harmonious and warm.
I joined the Community Dance Association and danced with the other aunts at a fixed time every week, and my body was lighter than I used to. I also organize performances from time to time, and I can be said to be well-known in the community.
But three years ago, I did something that was painful for both my wife and myself. That year, the community was going to hold a dance exchange party, and as the president of the dance association, I was responsible for contacting professional coaches and selecting students to organize performances together.
Through introduction, I met Wang Min, a senior professional dance coach. He was tall and handsome, and very attractive. I meant to let him guide us in training, but then something happened that shouldn't have happened.
When Wang Min came to the community to guide us, I found him to be a very enthusiastic person. He never hesitates to praise his students, and his teaching is very professional and meticulous. I could tell that the other aunts liked him very much, and they always looked at him with a smile on their faces.
When dancing with Wang Min, I couldn't help but feel a little heartbeat. Years of married life have made me know my wife's careful thoughts well, and suddenly a handsome and rich man pays attention to me, and I can't hide the joy in my heart.
Meizi, you dance so well!It is said that the elderly can't learn new tricks, and you have completely broken this myth. "Wang Min praised me after a training session. "* I didn't dance well enough, and if you hadn't taught me well, we wouldn't have learned these steps.
I'm a little embarrassed. "You're so modest!I see that you are extremely talented, and you can go to professional competitions. If you want, I can teach you some more difficult dances, and we can win prizes together!
Wang Min looked at me with burning eyes. "Haha, I still participate in any competitions at my age, as long as I can dance well and win glory for the community, I will be satisfied. I smiled and politely declined Wang Min's suggestion.
In this way, in training again and again, my relationship with Wang Min became closer and closer. Other aunties often joked that we were like real dance partners. At the end of each drill, Wang Min would always send me home, and I was very touched by his thoughtfulness.
Meizi, you're so beautiful in this dress, I see you're getting more and more queenly!"One day, Wang Min sent me to the door of my house, and when I saw that I was wearing a newly made dress, I couldn't help but praise me. "Come on, I'm still a queen at my age. I smiled and waved my hand.
Wang Min gave me a beautiful silver necklace, and he insisted that I take it, promising to be there for me if I needed help. I am very grateful, because my wife has never given me such a precious gift, and Wang Min's care and support for me exceeds that of Zhang Wei.
I began to wonder if older women shouldn't be cared for
At the end of the day's training, Wang Min accompanied me home again. She smiled and said: "Meizi, the party is coming, and our cooperation needs to be further improved, otherwise it will be too embarrassing not to get the jackpot."
I replied, "You're right, but I dance mainly for exercise, and awards don't matter to me." Wang Min encouraged me and said, "You are too modest!
With your talent, it's only a matter of time before you get the award. By the way, I'd like to invite you out to celebrate after the party, just the two of us, what do you think?"I was a little hesitant, and I had mixed feelings.
Wang Min continued to persuade: "Meizi, you should also do what you want to do." Life needs a little stimulation, and your wife won't be staring at you forever. I lowered my head and began to think.
Wang Min has a point, but I'm still afraid of taking risks and worrying that there will be bad consequences. "Meizi, think about it. In any case, the most important thing is to practice the dance well.
Wang Min saw that I didn't speak, and he didn't force it anymore. When I got home, my wife Zhang Wei was already reading the newspaper in the living room. "Why don't you look good, is it too tired to dance?
He asked me with concern. "No, it's just a little hot. I replied lightly. "Then you go take a shower, and I'll help you beat your legs. Zhang Wei looked very caring.
No, no, I'll just rub it myself. I replied casually, but my heart was not here. "I've seen that you've not been resting well at night lately, is there something on your mind?
Zhang Wei continued to care about me. "You're thinking too much, I'm resting well. I smiled and turned to head upstairs to my room. The dance party was held as scheduled, and Wang Min and I won warm applause and the greatest applause for our performances.
At the time of the awards, we won the best match award. I saw my wife Zhang Wei sitting in the audience applauding us, and I had mixed feelings in my heart. "Meizi, congratulations!Our efforts have not been in vain.
Why don't we go out and celebrate?Wang Min said excitedly holding my hand. "Come on Meizi, it's time for you to relax, just have a meal. Wang Min insisted on the invitation.
At his urging, I finally agreed. That night, Wang Min drove me to a high-end restaurant and ordered many exquisite dishes and wines. "Wang Min, this is too extravagant, please don't move so many things!
I'm a little uneasy. "Today is a day to celebrate, just enjoy it. Wang Min raised his glass. After a hearty dinner, Wang Min offered to take me somewhere.
As the car drove out of town, I felt that something was not quite right. "Where are we going?Outside the city is all farmland, so there are no attractions, right?I asked.
Meizi, did you know that there is a place where you can forget your troubles and be relaxed?Wang Min smiled mysteriously and didn't answer me directly. The car gradually drove towards the exquisite small buildings, and I realized that my face instantly turned pale: "What do you want to do when you brought me here?"
Plum, we used to have a good time, and this place allows us to continue to have fun. Wang Min began to approach me, and I pushed him away in a panic: "No, I'm an old lady, how can I come to such a place!."
Send me home, please. "Afterwards, I was full of remorse and disgusted with both myself and Wang Min's actions. I cried and said to Wang Min, "Wang Min, I really regret it.
You shouldn't have brought me here, it's a shame on my wife for so many years. Please keep it confidential and don't tell anyone. Wang Min helped me tidy up my appearance and said indifferently: "Meizi, you think too much."
We just want to have fun here, so why bother?"I knew I was in a difficult situation and I had to remain silent. When Wang Min sent me home, I vowed to hide it from my wife no matter what, and never let him know the fact that I was bewitched by another man.
What's the matter, my dear, are you still haunting what happened that night?Wang Min's eyes were full of tenderness, "Actually, it's nothing, I'm very happy that you chose to be with me."
Wang Min's voice was like a gust of wind, gently blowing through Meizi's heart. However, Wang Min's expression suddenly became serious: "Meizi, are you also cheap and behaved?"
You took the initiative that night, but now you want to shirk your responsibility?Umeko's heart was full of contradictions and pain, and she didn't know how to respond. "I admit I did something wrong, but you also took advantage of my weakness.
Meizi's tears rolled in her eyes, "I beg you not to tell anyone, especially my wife." A hint of mockery flashed in Wang Min's eyes, and then he changed back to a flirtatious tone: "Ha, it's as if I'm going to be bored enough to go and tell the truth."
Rest assured, I will only remember our sweet times. Meizi's heart was full of helplessness and despair. When I got home, my wife Zhang Wei was watering flowers at the door. "Meizi, you're back?
Why don't you look good today?Zhang Wei looked at Meizi with concern. "It's okay, maybe it's a little tiring to practice. I'm going to take a break. Plum ducked into the house with her head down.
Okay, you rest. You didn't have a good appetite for the first few days, should you go to the hospital for a check-up?Zhang Wei's voice was full of worry. Meizi replied dryly: "No, no, I'm fine."
However, Meizi's heart is full of guilt and pain, and she knows that her actions have hurt her husband. Alone in the house, plum tears rained down. She knew that she couldn't escape this guilt, and sooner or later she would break down and confess.
Behind closed doors, Meizi knelt in front of the bed and prayed that God would be gracious so that her wife would never know about the episode. Next, Meizi lied that she was ill and withdrew from the dance performance of the commercial performance.
My wife reluctantly agreed, and let someone else work with the other dance partners instead of Meizi. Meizi finally got rid of Wang Min, but the wounds in her heart could not be healed, and it was common for her to be unable to sleep at night.
Meizi, you've been really not quite right lately. What the hell is going on, should I see a psychiatrist?"One day at dinner, my wife couldn't help but ask.
I'm fine, just a little insomnia, don't worry. "I tried my best to hide my inner uneasiness and replied. "I feel as if there's something bothering you, is there something at home or in your community that makes you unhappy?
As long as you are willing to say, we can face it together. "I tried to guide him to share his troubles. "Honey, look me in the eye, are you hiding something from me that makes me feel uneasy?
I looked at him with honest eyes, hoping that he would tell me the truth. He was silent for a while, then told me that he had found out about my cheating. I thought he was going to be angry, but he just listened to me quietly and left the room.
In the next few days, he became very cold towards me and no longer cared about me as much as he used to. I tried to apologize to him, but he always didn't respond to me. I asked him how long it would take to calm down, but he just said it would take time and asked me to give him some space. I'm sad, but I understand that he needs time to deal with this.
As the weeks passed, I noticed that my wife was becoming more and more cold to me. After the initial reaction, he became reticent and rarely spoke to me. I tried all sorts of ways to please him, but to no avail.
One day, I plucked up the courage to say to my wife, "Honey, I know I was wrong and I regret what I did at that time. We're all old, so let's stop dwelling on it.
I promise there won't be a next time. Just forgive me one last time. My wife said lightly: "I can't completely let go of it now." You have failed my affection for many years, and it hurts too badly.
I understand his feelings, but he can't treat me like this for the rest of my life. Let's start over, shall we?I pleaded. My wife didn't respond immediately, just listened quietly.
A few days later, it was my wife's birthday, and I carefully prepared a cake in the hope that it would make a difference. "Happy birthday, wife!I made this cake with my own hands, you can taste it.
I brought the cake to him. My wife didn't answer immediately, as if she was considering whether she should accept my kindness. It was a few seconds before he said, "Thank you, I've already eaten."
Eat it yourself. Then he turned and left. I shed tears again, my wife refused to even accept the cake, and our relationship seemed to really reach the point of deep trouble.
After that, I tried all kinds of ways to please him, but he remained indifferent. I felt hopeless and even thought about divorcing him. I have been married for many years, and I can't bear the change in feelings.
When my wife's friend came to visit, I overheard him talking about my cheating. He said, "Meizi, in fact, I have long suspected that there is something wrong with her. She is too outgoing and loves to gossip, this kind of woman has secrets in her heart.
I was so angry that I rushed out and said to him, "Please don't talk nonsense!"Although I am at fault first, you can't slander me like that. The man walked away in amusement.
I said to my wife, "You can't say that to outsiders!".I know I'm wrong, but you can't just talk about it and ruin my reputation. My wife realized her mistake and apologized to me: "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have slandered you casually. I was just so sad and angry at the time. ”
I replied, "I know it's hitting you hard, but we're partners for years." This incident does not end our relationship.
My wife was silent for a while, and finally said, "Indeed, I am also responsible. I'm only concerned about my own sadness, but I ignore your feelings. We've lived together for so long, and I can't dismiss you just because of a mistake. ”
I was ecstatic: "Great, you finally forgive me!".I promise to be a new person from now on and never let you down. My wife said, "I can't be stubborn. But I still need time to come to terms with this, and I hope you understand. ”
I promise you, I will wait for you, and I will do my best to make amends. I said excitedly. From that day on, my wife's attitude began to change. While he still couldn't immediately accept the fact that I was cheating, we reopened the door to communication, which was already a huge relief to me.
I vowed to cherish my wife even more and never make the same mistake again. This turmoil has made our relationship stronger. This turmoil has made me cherish my wife even more.
I started to take the initiative to take care of his daily life, often preparing his favorite home-cooked dishes for him. Although he is still reticent, he will also politely taste the meals I cook.
One day, he suddenly said, "I'm going to go to the mountains to rest for a while, can you take care of yourself?".Although I was surprised, I also understood his desire to be alone, so I said, "It's good for you to go to the mountains to adjust your mood, and I will take care of myself, so don't worry." ”
He nodded and quickly left. He lived in the mountains for about two weeks, and every day I would call him, and he would hang up after a few short words. This period of solitude was very helpful to him, and I waited for him to calm down.
After more than two weeks, he finally returned from the mountains. I cleaned the house carefully and prepared a sumptuous dinner to welcome him. "You have worked hard, and the environment in the mountains is definitely not as comfortable as at home.
Eat it, it's your favorite home-cooked dish. I laughed. "Well, your cooking is still the best for my taste. He also had a rare smile. I was very happy that he spoke like he would have said before entering the mountain.
It seems that being alone does ease his emotions. After dinner, he went to take a shower himself. I wanted to help him clean up, but I didn't bother when I thought he needed some personal space.
My wife, who had just finished taking a shower, looked refreshed. He told me: "Just now, my friend called ** and said that he would come to see me tonight. I'll wait for him in the living room, you can rest early. "I'm both apprehensive and happy because my wife has finally started socializing normally.
In the middle of the night, my wife gently returned to the room. Listening to his breathing, I knew he was asleep. I quietly wiped away my tears, and my wife finally slept next to me again, which made me feel extremely relieved.
I was overwhelmed with emotion because my wife finally cared for me again. I asked him, "I'm doing well alone, don't worry." It's you, it's hard work alone in the mountains, right?
My wife said, "It's pretty clean, I'm thinking a lot, including our relationship. I nervously waited for him to continue. My wife took a deep breath and said, "After thinking about it, I have decided to completely forgive you for your mistakes.
People are not saints and sages, they will always make mistakes, and I can't deny your life because of a momentary mistake. We should cherish the present and start anew. When I heard the news, tears rained down my eyes and I was speechless with emotion.
My wife's generosity made me feel so relieved that I vowed to spend the rest of my life making up for him. Since then, I have been more filial to my wife and do my best to do what my wife should do.
I will never do anything wrong again, and my wife will never talk about my faults again. Our feelings were rekindled in the ordeal, with more tacit understanding and depth than before.
It is inevitable that there will be ups and downs on the road of life, but as long as we tolerate and understand each other, the reality of husband and wife can surpass a mistake. My wife and I are a living example of this.
Every time I think back on that experience, I cherish the happy life I have now.
Years later, I will tell my children about the past and let them know that tolerance is the best quality in life. No matter how strong the wind and rain are, as long as there is true love, you can overcome all difficulties.
My wife and I have gone through ups and downs now, and our love has transcended the limitations of time and space.
On a peaceful afternoon, my wife and I enjoyed a picnic by the lake, enjoying each other's company and the beauty of nature. We are dependent on each other, and our hearts are filled with happiness and contentment.
Looking at the beautiful scenery in front of me, I said to my wife, "Being able to enjoy nature with you here is the happiest thing in my life." My wife also said from the bottom of my heart: "Me too, I feel satisfied with you." ”
It was such a beautiful day that I will never forget. However, when we got home, our children had an even bigger surprise for us. The eldest son smiled and said, "Mom, you and Dad have such a good relationship, let's have a good time!."
Our grandchildren threw themselves into our arms and chattered about school life. "We're ready to give you a simple engagement anniversary to commemorate your renewed love.
The daughter-in-law said. This engagement anniversary made us feel the warmth and happiness of the family more deeply, and also made us cherish each other's feelings more.
My wife and I were deeply touched by the family's support, and our kindness warmed our hearts. That night, the children prepared a candlelit dinner for us, and my wife and I held hands and renewed our vows of love as we did when we were younger.
While life's difficulties and challenges make us feel tired, the power of love can overcome everything. The story of my wife and I is a vivid example of the longevity and tenacity of love.
We are grateful to God for giving us the opportunity to meet again, and we will cherish this hard-won relationship. On the day of the engagement anniversary, the children and grandchildren prepared a warm and memorable family reunion for us.
After dinner, we enjoyed our wedding photos and videos together in the living room. The eldest son smiled and said, "Mom, you look so beautiful in a wedding dress!".Dad must have been very happy to see you back then, right?”
The granddaughter pointed to the screen and said, "Grandma is so beautiful when she is young!."You see, she has two dimples when she laughs, which is so cute. The wife smiled and touched her granddaughter's head and said, "That's right, your grandmother is the treasure of our family." ”
I said with emotion: "Your grandfather was very kind to me back then, careful and considerate, and made me feel the warmth of being cared for. He has been my strong supporter all these years. ”
And your grandmother's lively and cheerful personality also brings me a lot of joy, and I need her company very much. My wife said.
It feels like the main characters in the movie, a match made in heaven!The daughter-in-law said with a smile. "Yes, happy as the main character!I said with a smile.
Looking at the joy of the wedding scene, my wife and I couldn't help but burst into tears. The vows at that moment are still in our ears, and after all these years, our love is still the same. "Thank you all for making the day more meaningful.
I said to the child's family. "Mom, it's good if you're happy. We will come back to see you often in the future. "My eldest son hugged me tightly. We spent the evening laughing and laughing.
Before leaving, our grandchildren let us hug us. "Grandma, I like you the most!"Grandpa, I'll come to play with you next time!.""The innocence of the child makes my wife and me feel infinite warmth in our hearts.
We watched them get in the car and leave, and the house was quiet again. "Did you have a good day?I asked my wife with a smile. "I am very happy to have you and my family by my side, and I am extremely satisfied. My wife looked at me warmly.
Your smile reminds me of those wonderful old days. Although life is long, as long as you are there, it is enough. I am grateful to God for giving us this precious time.
In the last moments of our lives, we will reluctantly gaze at this beautiful world, filled with deep gratitude for love and life.