I have mentioned before that if a person is too enthusiastic and attached to old friendships and unwilling to let go of old friends, his career and life will not be able to progress and grow.
In fact, apathy is the essential weapon of successful people. In other words, successful people remain indifferent. Many people live an ordinary life at the bottom all day long, without accumulating money or happiness.
This is mainly because they always like to be good people and say good things, and they can't learn to treat relationships with an indifferent attitude and give silently all the time.
On the surface, it seems to be for the sake of others, but in fact it is a waste of time, not only to achieve nothing, but also to let others blame their own difficulties on well-meaning and enthusiastic people.
It's all because you're always good at words and don't know how to say no. If you are already an adult, you must understand that you can only take good care of yourself and your family if you remain indifferent.
If you don't learn to be indifferent, you will be embarrassed to compete, fight for your own rights, and negotiate generously about money. As a result, you miss out on opportunities, don't make money, and don't get the resources you deserve. Not only will you not be a good person, but you will also get yourself in trouble.
In China's interpersonal relationships, we have always laughed at poverty rather than prostitution.
Being poor, having no money and no strength, is the greatest sin.
This is especially true for children from poor families. You don't need emotions at all, you need real money, a lot of money.
Don't think I'm speaking vulgarly, the truth has long told you that this is a bloody reality.
Without money, just about affection, love and family harmony, will your parents be happy with you?
Does your partner give tenderness?
A family without an economic foundation is like a plate of loose sand, for a piece of bread, brothers will turn against each other, and husbands and wives will fight.
Can this kind of family affection still be called affection?
Can it still be called caring?
What's the use of such emotions?
Every time you struggle, your parents are just frantically asking you for news, wondering if you are doing well outside and whether they will be held back.
The human nature at the bottom is so naked.
So, when you don't have money, you have to learn to be indifferent, ignore all emotions, and maintain absolute sanity.
Whatever you do, the starting point must be to make money, or to accumulate influence and thus make money.
Things that have nothing to do with your life and aren't worth wasting a second of attention.
When ordinary people talk about gossip in the entertainment industry, they don't need to pay attention to it, let alone join the discussion;
* Push the latest hotspot either shut down or use it to create content and increase traffic;
Ordinary people learn all kinds of social skills, don't get involved, they are just a failure after learning for the rest of their lives.
We only have one thing to do, and that is to make money. All eyes are on money.
Of course, some people may say, does being a human being have to be so direct?Yes, it has to be direct.
Why should you care about something that doesn't bring any material rewards?
You think you're just having fun, looking at the junk information, and there's no loss in your body.
As everyone knows, people do not live in a vacuum. The thoughts and thinking in your head are influenced by information from the outside world.
A message that comes into your eyes can either help you move forward or drag you back.
In other words, the information you focus on will either increase your income or make your wallet empty and empty. There are no exceptions.
If you don't believe it, you can continue to indulge in spam and do things that have nothing to do with making money all day long.
But as you get older, you are surrounded by people who are reaching out to you for money, and you have no room to maneuver, and you have no regrets to take.
So, instead of repenting at the end, be a selfish, indifferent villain now.
Indifferent to others, indifferent to oneself.
While apathy is a cold word, it seems to me to be full of warmth, strength, and responsibility.
Imagine if your family wasn't cold and cold-blooded, they wouldn't put down their money to make money, let alone make money.
Without the foundation of a straight waist, you have no right to speak outside, and you can only be at the mercy of others and beaten by society.
Therefore, learning to be apathetic is not only the beginning of growth, but also the beginning of responsibility.