The wedding night, to the brideWang QianIt should be a moment full of happiness and romance. However, she heard her husband as she was preparing to restYang XuThe requirements of the AA system were put forward. This sudden request let'sWang QianShocked and confused. She asked with a sneerYang XuWhy did such a decision be made, whileYang XuThe answer made her feel even more desperate and distressed. Yang Xupointed out the income gap between them and what he didn't want to beWang Qianof "ATM". Let'sWang Qianunderstands that she has been disliked in this relationship. She felt a grudge against this man in her heart. However, she made a ridiculous decision: to turn married life into a money transaction, as long as it wasYang XuYou have to pay to enter her room. Wang QianI thought I could control it that wayYang Xu, but in fact she is just a passive party in this relationship.
In our universally shared notion of equality, everyone should be thereLoveequal treatment and rights. However, some people have a wrong understanding and misunderstanding of this concept. They mistakenly believe that equality means that women can obtain it through some meansLove。This misconception has led many women to pursue men in a way that disregards their self-esteem and uses themselves as a dog. LikeWang QianIn this way, there is neither charm nor money attraction for her male god, and she chooses to be a licking dog. This relationship is not built on sincerityLovefoundational, but built out of interests and needs. Such relationships are volatile, and women are often in a vulnerable position in them, easily abandoned or betrayed. Don't consume yourself in an unreliable marriage and love relationship, obtaining feelings by unreliable means will inevitably establish an unreliable relationship.
Wang QianRightYang XuIt's unattractive, but she gets his attention and relationships through stalking. However, the affection between them did not grow gradually, but inMarriagecontinues to have meaningless feelings in the name of . Wang Qianmistakenly thought that she got the results she wanted, but in fact she lost her three views and self-esteem. She even felt happy because her mother-in-law had died, and this mentality was obviously abnormal. She bases her happiness on an unreal relationship and naturally can't enjoy the real thingLoveand happiness. In the end, she not only lostYang XuofLove, but also lost their dignity and equal status. The relationship was a lesson for her, an experience that cost her dearly.
This story brings us some reflections. InLoveWe should be truthful and egalitarian. Don't pursue someone else's through improper meansLoveAnd don't base your happiness on relationships that damage self-esteem and equality. Learn to let go, don't waste time and energy on feelings that don't belong to you, and find happiness that truly belongs to you. At the same time, we must maintain our own three views and dignity, not for the sake of the so-calledLoveand abandon their own values and principles. It is only in a relationship of true equality and respect that we can find true happiness.