Text|Mi Kogi.
It's interesting to see a question: What problems have you seriously discussed with your children in 2023?
What comes to mind are two things that the boss of junior high school recently took the initiative to talk about (about whether these two things can be written here, the child said yes, so there is the following sharing).
One word can be seen in both of the two things shared by the child: fairness.
Not everything is fair
In the election of school class cadres, although the teacher did not say it directly, he still preferred to let the boys run for election. The reason is relatively simple, the girls in the school are too good, and it is difficult to choose. The number of boys participating in the election is relatively small, which can increase the probability of being elected.
The boss had doubts about this. In the end, who can participate in the school election should not be decided according to the proportion of gender, and a fairer approach should not be based on strength and popular support?
The "fairness" that the boss wants is defeated in the face of the facts.
What will be the final result of the election?The boys who participated in the election were really elected. The ratio of men and women in the entire campaign is indeed unbalanced. Male students are in the single digits, and the number of female students far exceeds that of male students. What makes the boss find it ironic is that even among the unsuccessful candidates, the number of girls is several times that of boys.
Although it turned out that the teacher's opinion was right, the boss always had doubts about the ratio of men and women in the results. She didn't understand that even if the girls at this stage were much better than the boys, who could be selected and who couldn't, from the perspective of fairness, shouldn't they be based on their strengthHow can you talk about gender?
Further back, in the second half of the junior high school stage, when the boys' grades and abilities are revealed, then, in the election at that stage, will the ratio of men and women also be considered?Is it also possible to ensure that girls benefit from a gender perspective?
Another thing is the slots for school debate tournaments.
The number of places in the class was quite dramatic, and among the few children who were willing to participate, rock-paper-scissors decided. The list was all reported, but it was brushed down again.
Another student said he didn't understand and ran to the teacher to ask the reason for it. The reason given by the teacher was roughly that the students selected this time represented the school, students who needed to have experience in debating, and judging from their daily performance, the students on the list did not show strong self-confidence.
For this matter, the boss did not understand and at the same time had a trace of sadness. Because, she is the one who was brushed off in the newspaper again.
What she didn't understand was why she didn't even have a chance to trySadly, it's a little farther away from the fairness you want.
When the old mother listened to these two things that the child talked about, her heart was mixed, and she did not give a specific answer, but gave a direction for thinking.
Regarding the selection of class cadres, I remember talking to the boss about two things at that time.
One was something she could observe herself. She once asked why most middle-aged men become pot-bellied and most middle-aged women remain delicate
Following her train of thought, she gave two examples of variety shows, one is a middle-aged man and the other is a middle-aged woman, and the visual effects of the characters in the two shows are the same as what she herself observed.
Since we are talking about celebrities, I mentioned a news I saw in the Korean entertainment industry before, and the news content is roughly that the income of top female stars in South Korea is far lower than that of male stars of the same level.
After listening to these two things, Lao Dalian asked a few "why?".”
Before answering her "why", I asked her what she would do if she wanted to be elected as a girl in the matter of the election
To be very, very, very, very, very good", so good that no one considers other factors such as "gender, experience" in you.
To be very, very, very, very, very good" is the same for the quota in the debate tournament. When the opportunity comes, if you want to seize it, you must have a strong confidence to seize that opportunity.
Recently, almost all the ** news that has been reported has also chatted with the boss. Coincidentally, in this news, we can see the fairness that all parties want.
Fairness, in front of people who are good enough, is basically there
The two events happened in sequence, but for fairness, the child has been confused and has been deepening her understanding in different events, and by now, she probably has her own understanding.
This time it's about fairness, and next time, it's about other topics.
Every time the problem that plagues the child is different, the same thing is that in these problems, the growth of the child's thinking can be seen.
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