This semester is coming to an end, and the winter vacation mode is on, how to let students spend a safe, enjoyable, and relaxing holiday time?As a rural teacher, I have a few thoughts and thoughts to share with parents and students.
Holiday safety awareness cannot be relaxed. Whether children are in school or at home during the holidays, safety is the most important thing, and you must not be careless. There are many safety issues that need to be paid special attention to during weekends and holidays, especially pay attention to travel safety, do not play on the road when going out, do not take people illegally when riding bicycles, and do not leave alone when traveling. Girls should not go out alone, rural girls should not go up the mountain and down the dam alone when doing farm work and housework, even if they go to the street and the road, they must be accompanied by relatives, they must have a sense of distress and learn to protect themselves. Both boys and girls should be vigilant, do not casually contact strangers or even believe strangers' fraudulent lies, and establish an awareness of anti-abduction and anti-fraud.
Weekends and holidays, is a good time for children to eat and drink, for the healthy growth of children, parents in the child's diet is also all their own, do their best, but do not know that this slightly indulgent "good intentions" is simply one-sided and unscientific, pay attention to food hygiene and safety, do not eat three no food, healthy diet, eat and drink in moderation, do not overeat, is a reasonable and healthy choice for teenagers in the growth period. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to fire safety, parents should carefully monitor, strictly supervise, avoid children playing with fire, fireworks, firecrackers, etc. alone, and do not bring fire into the mountain.
The holiday is too long, most parents are busy with farming and work, and their children just meet in a hurry in the morning and evening, and they are separated in a hurry, and they have very little time to contact and communicate with their children. Many children began to indulge in play and decadent academics and self-growth, sleeping lazy, playing games, being lazy and greedy, overeating, not fond of sports, unwilling to help parents do some housework, clothes to reach out for food to open their mouths, and do their own ......In view of these existing problems, parents must not turn a blind eye to them, ignore them, and let them go. It is necessary to take advantage of the time of contact with children day and night during the holidays, carefully understand their children's temperament, correct their children's bad habits in a timely manner, and communicate with teachers in a timely manner, build a bridge between home and school, and jointly educate children well, so that parents can actively participate in the process of children's growth and education, and increase their understanding and support for teachers who work hard to educate students in school.
Parents should establish a sense of "rules" and cultivate good behavior habits. During the holiday, parents should prescribe the right medicine to correct the "bad problems" exposed by their children. "The state has national laws, the school has school rules, and the family has family rules" and "rules". The first is to let the child get up on time, exercise and morning reading can not be forgotten, cooperate with parents to clean, take care of younger siblings or grandparents, do housework within their ability, and cultivate good behavior and living habits such as diligence and thrift, diligence and simplicity, diligence and quick hands, hardship and hard work, respect for the old and love for the young.
Parents should urge their children to develop consistent study habits. Although it is a weekend holiday, students must not forget their duties, and the daily learning tasks must be completed, and they cannot be completely released, otherwise they will experience a long vacation, their studies will be wasted, and everything will return to zero after the holiday. For "holiday homework", parents should cooperate with their children to make plans, and supervise their children to complete them regularly and quantitatively, and avoid fishing for three days and drying nets for two days. Secondly, it is necessary to improve children's interest in learning. For key subjects, or subjects that children are not good at, parents who can afford to use the holidays to study with their children and improve their interests.
Children should watch TV in moderation, stay away from mobile phones, read more books, and exercise more. Parents should encourage their children to read more useful extracurricular books, provide them with some reading books, read a wide range of books, broaden their horizons, cultivate reading habits, improve reading ability, and continuously improve their writing skills. You can also take your children to take the first red classic movies, such as "Long March", "Dadu River", "Shining Red Star", "Shangganling", "Liu Hulan", "Garland under the Mountain", etc., to cultivate children's patriotism, establish lofty ambitions, and read for the rise of China.
Parent-child communication is a big problem. During the winter and summer vacations for nearly a month, children are at home during the holidays, which is a good time for parents and children to get along, but parents and children are very prone to "conflicts", most of which are due to the lack of parent-child communication and interaction. Parents should take advantage of the winter vacation to consciously improve, educate and infect their children with positive energy, be parents, teach by example, be upright in words and deeds, be a glorious example for children, and avoid negative infection. It is necessary to carry out comprehensive education on quality and morality, food and traffic safety, anti-fraud and anti-trafficking, disease prevention, exercise, outlook on life, morality, values, social outlook, and conduct in the world, etc., and mothers should take time to educate their daughters on sexual health and prevention, and fathers should give their sons health education and correct guidance on physiological growthFamilies with conditions can take advantage of the holidays to do volunteer activities with their children, such as visiting the elderly in nursing homes, visiting the lonely elderly in the village, cleaning the streets and inter-village roads, public activity places, or taking their children on foot, mountaineering, visiting tourist attractions, red scenic spots, traveling, etc.;You can also take the opportunity of holidays to buy New Year's goods with your children, practice calligraphy, learn to paint, write Spring Festival couplets, guess lantern riddles, manage New Year's money, cultivate a variety of hobbies, and improve children's comprehensive talents, etc., which are all very meaningful. (Author: Zheng Weishu).