Four months after I quit my job, I answered a lot of these questions. Let's share with you a few situations after your naked resignation.
See what kind of situation you are?
First, single. Don't dare to tell your family after the naked resignation, you are alone and don't have much savings, so if you resign naked for a month, you will start to be anxious. Because you're not sure if you'll be able to pay your rent tomorrow or if you'll be able to eat. How long can this kind of rotten life last? I can't find a satisfactory job yet.,Dumbfounded.,Regret it.。。。
The second is to go back to your hometown alone. Don't worry about whether you won't be able to eat, go home and gnaw the old. Premise, parents have a pension. In fact, it is also home to work as a kind of elderly care worker. Then, the salary is ** for the parents, and the work content: doing housework and cooking, making travel arrangements for the parents, managing the health of the parents, that is, the parents are sick, accompanying the doctor, and there is a fixed salary provided by the parents every month. Realized the work of eating without having to look at other people's faces. You can manage your finances reasonably and work freely, you can plan and balance your study and working hours, and at the same time, you can practice filial piety in time.
The third is the naked resignation of a wife with a family. This part of the population had better think clearly. Because, without a job, you need to manage your children's studies at home, you need to cook, and you need to do housework. There may also be times when you bow your head with your lover and reach out for money. Completely reduced to a housewife.
If you quit naked, you don't have to worry about your children's studies or cooking, and your husband will pay you a fixed salary every month. You just need to plan your time and study hard, or you may study if you want to, play if you want, and your lover loves you very much, of course, you can quit naked in this kind of life.
First, you have your own time to plan your studies, to take exams, to grow your abilities, and to prepare for the next better job.
Second, your lover supports you physically and physically, both in terms of money and time. You'll feel at ease. There is very little psychological burden.
Third, you need to scale back your high spending levels. I prepare what I need for 1 to 2 years before I quit naked. No more new clothes or new high-cost personal items. It is difficult to go from luxury to frugality.
Fourth, I plan my study priorities for each month in advance, and I usually prepare for one exam at the same time as the next one, the knowledge and skills that I may use. Keep trying to achieve small goals. Attention is very focused. Therefore, there is no anxiety and psychological gap after naked resignation. Occasionally, my lover will organize an event for a family of three to relax. Encourage and support each other.
Fifth, before resigning, arrange in advance which one you want to do, because many people who want to resign naked want to be a kind of freelancer. For example, which platform do you want to do mainly?Douyin, Kuaishou, Zhihu, or Baijiahao, etc.?In what form?Live streaming, or copywritingIf you want to do it, it may be the same as work, it can't be short-term, because you may work hard for half a year, and you will not be distempered, with no income and no attention. But it is also possible, like Dong Yuhui, who has accumulated to a certain amount, and suddenly became popular.
Sixth, after resigning, your work spirit will be more than that of work. You get enough sleep, your mind is clear enough, and you have enough time. The worst, the most fearful, is that you don't have the perseverance. It is also the most afraid to take the first step.
Because, everything is difficult at the beginning, and once you have worked as a freelancer, it is difficult to adapt to life in the system.
You will say goodbye to the high salary in the past, you will say goodbye to stable income, and you will say goodbye to the fixed social security and medical insurance provident fund. You can't enjoy the welfare benefits of the system, all your future can only be illusory, for a long time, you can't see the benefits, you can't restrain your regretful choices and anxiety.
So, do you still dare to resign naked?
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