The original family is a pain that most people can't escape for the rest of their lives, such as Ren Zhen in "Chasing the Light".
Ren Yongqing is Ren Zhen's father. Before, Ren Yongqing also had a very good and stable job, and the family was very happy together, but he was so ambitious and unwilling to accept the status quo, so he chose to resign and start a business. It was a turning point in his life.
Ren Yongqing believes that with his ingenuity, he will definitely be able to make a lot of money in business, and he can make his wife and children live a better life.
But the reality is often cruel, Ren Yongqing didn't have long been in business, and he lost all his savings for many years.
Since then, Ren Yongqing has been like a different person, no longer living a down-to-earth life, always thinking about getting rich overnight, and soaking in mahjong parlors every day.
Ren Yongqing's unbelievable way of doing things often causes chaos for his family. Even on the eve of his daughter Ren Zhen's college entrance examination, he still had to make a fuss at home in the middle of the night.
Ren Zhen was so anxious that she couldn't sleep because of the college entrance examination, and her father's trouble made her not rest well all night.
On the day of the college entrance examination, Ren Yongqing borrowed a red car in order to let his daughter "win", and insisted on sending your daughter to the exam.
But it was his "kindness" that made Ren Zhen run into the examination room in a panic a few minutes before the exam started, and almost missed the college entrance examination.
Ren Yongqing's "love for his daughter" twice seriously affected Ren Zhen's performance in the college entrance examination.
This is not over, when filling in the volunteer, Ren Zhen knew that it was difficult for him to be admitted to the university of his choice after evaluating the score, and when she hesitated, Ren Yongqing jumped out to be a demon, causing Ren Zhen to fail in the college entrance examination.
The college entrance examination is too important for an ordinary family, although it is difficult to achieve class leapfrogging, but for people living at the bottom of the society, it is one of the most important ways to rise.
Ren Yongqing is too unreliable, he wants to go through the back door to let his daughter enter the university of his choice, but the so-called "doorway" in his mouth turned out to be the news he heard in the mahjong hall.
Through this incident, you can see why Ren Yongqing failed to start a business, he is too clever, too easy to trust people, he is too unstable, too scheming.
With his way of thinking, how can he not fail in a deceitful shopping mall?
Ren Yongqing not only lost 40,000 yuan because of his ignorance, but also miserably cheated his daughter.
Ren Yongqing is not only unreliable, blind tossing, but more hateful, he not only ruined his daughter's good future, but also because of the 400,000 foreign debt, his family was seriously harassed by creditors, restaurants were smashed, his wife and daughter were beaten, and he suffered both physical and psychological injuries.
Ren Yongqing's wife, Zhang Ping, is much better than her husband, Ren Yongqing fools around outside every day, making the house a miasma.
And Zhang Ping opened a small restaurant, she got up early and stayed up late to support a family by selling dumplings, she not only had to take care of her daughter's diet and daily life, for her daughter to go to school, but also forced to pay for her husband to eat, drink and have fun outside.
Zhang Ping has exhausted her body because of her long-term hard work.
Zhang Ping's love for his daughter is much more down-to-earth than Ren Yongqing's, Ren Yongqing's love for his daughter is exaggerated, he doesn't care about his daughter's feelings, he only knows how to love his daughter in his own way, no matter whether this way is inappropriate or not, whether it will hurt his daughter.
And Zhang Ping's love for her daughter is to love with her heart, she knows what her daughter needs and knows how to love.
The reason why she wants to study medicine is because she sees that her mother is not in good health, so she is determined to be admitted to medical school, and her main purpose of studying medicine is to treat her mother.
After Ren Zhen fell off the list, she lived as a hedgehog, her collapse was not only because of her future, but more importantly, she felt ashamed of her mother's dedication, and did not become the pride in her mother's eyes, but also because her college dream was in front of her, but she was ruined by her biological father.
Although Ren Yongqing is unreliable, his love for his daughter is real.
He resigned and went to the sea to do business, in order to let his daughter live a better life, when he was most depressed, he did not forget his daughter's birthday, bought a cake for his daughter, he borrowed a car to send his daughter to the exam, found a "way" for his daughter, and let his daughter enter the university of his choice, although these things are counterproductive, but at least the starting point is good.
Ren Yongqing also often gives his daughter living expenses, and he has never been stingy in front of his daughter.
The role of Ren Zhen is very representative, Ren Zhen himself is smart and studious, and he also knows that he feels sorry for his parents and is very sensible. Her life was supposed to be smooth sailing, but she had an unusually rough life because she had a "bad dad".
Ren Zhen in "Chasing the Light" was lucky, she met Hao Nan when she was repeating, Hao Nan not only helped Ren Zhen improve her grades, taught her how to deal with the exam, but also let her come out of the shadow of her original family and helped her untie the knot.
Even the most unreliable Ren Yongqing later realized his mistake and knew that he had brought great harm to his wife and daughter. Ren Yongqing was determined to reform himself, found a stable job, and worked hard to earn money to pay off his debts.
Her father's change allowed Ren Zhen to completely come out of the shadows, and Ren Zhen put all her thoughts into her studies, and her grades improved by leaps and bounds.
In the end, Ren Zhen was admitted to the university of his choice, his mother reopened the restaurant, his father changed his mind, and paid off his debts by running a taxi, and Ren Zhen had a happy ending.
The family of origin will affect our whole life, but we have never been able to choose.
I hope that every parent can give their children a warm original family full of positive energy, and I also hope that every child can meet a good teacher like Hao Nan, who can help them find their own path and complete their self-redemption and growth when they are confused.