An unhappy childhood takes a lifetime of healing

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-28

A happy childhood can be a lifetime, and an unhappy childhood takes a lifetime.

Today we will tell the story of Mr. Wang: he is a person who does not like to laugh, some people say he is pessimistic, some people say he is introverted, and everyone will remember the past, good or bad...As I grew older, my face had a little more vicissitudes, and I had to Xi in front of the mirror several times even laughing. Careers and marriages are blocked, while those who hurt and deceive us live with relish.

He likes the Tachibana Youjing martial arts drama Aikido, classmate Wang still has the root of his inferiority, he suppressed his sexual needs at the beginning of his love, and he was broken by his senses and classmates, and that classmate drew some ** official pictures to show him, and when he got home, he beat it with his hands, and he stole the cause of eating the fruit, and his marital character was not very confident. He was born introverted and never went well, his career failed, his marriage failed, his image became ugly, he couldn't speak, and he told me that it seemed that all the bad things had happened to him.

He is not tall, fat and not very handsome, his health is not good and accompanied by insomnia, his brain is not very smart, and he wastes a lot of time. He thought about suicide and revenge several times, he said that it was not easy for his parents to raise him so big, he lived in a daze every day, there was no joy in life at all, and there was no joy at all. If he has nothing to do, he will write some thoughts and put them in a memo, and when he is tired all day and feels like he has done nothing, his energy and energy are all consumed by him, saying that he doesn't know why he wants to live, saying that maybe it's because of his parents. brought me into this world, didn't tell me the truth of the world, and I didn't fight for it.

If he wants to live his life by writing, he knows that he is still too far from the author's goal. On the one hand, he needs to live, and is surrounded by the hustle and bustle of the world, and the hardships of life, his heart is hurt, and he says that he can't make up for it, and he can't bear to be lonely and always likes to look at his mobile phone, and then he spent the day in a blur. He said that his inner world is very pure, the dream he yearns for is like a bubble, and it will be shattered when he wakes up, and his state of mind is very poor every day. Yesterday he told me that he cracked it again, and it would be the happiest thing to do it, and then he got up late and cracked it, and he was not in a state all day. Sometimes I want to change myself through hunger, I see that his palm is like a numb, his face is full of embarrassment, plus his thick lips, heavy desire and his embarrassed eyebrows, all written on his face.

I usually do some general work, but I am often criticized for being in a low position, and the people in the class are either angry or deceived. If you don't contact your friends for many years, you will call him **, ask him what he is doing, in addition to showing off is belittling, his friend told him that he can mix with him if he is not good, and he told me that he is really angry. Everyone will lose his temper with him, he seems to have long lost the ability and temper to reply, and he is a lazy and miserable person.

But he is very kind, and he also knows why he is unhappy, which is related to his ability and mentality, living in this world, there is no distance and no poetry, only the melancholy and helplessness of three or five thousand, looking at his own sadness and the wrinkles of the years, he himself is not clear about what is left.

He said that honest people don't deserve a future! Should it be hurt? In the society of the jungle, he wants to seal himself away from the world without fighting and isolating from the world, but the dream will eventually be broken, he also wants to read a book written by Yang Jiang, Xi practice calligraphy and painting, he said that he has not been able to create this good artistic conception. I usually like Jin Yong's ancient dragon martial arts**, but in fact, I also want to use self-** to illuminate my life and give myself a bright smile. His ability to survive is very weak, and I told him to find something suitable for him to do. He said that his writing is average, it is difficult to become a writer, and he usually pays attention to the number of the writer, and it is easy to immerse himself in it, and he is really interested in this.

He thinks more and does less, he seems to be unrealistic and far away from his goal, and he has not traveled much since he was a child, so he has been very autistic, including how to take the subway and high-speed rail to the present is in a state of confusion, in addition to the fact that the world has been too chaotic in the past two years, and he dare not go far, he said that he is the kind of person who sells and counts money to others, and his IQ and EQ are not **. He ideally becomes a fairy wind and a personable person, a dignified five-foot man can't set off his temperament, in the mirror, he is indeed a man with a little melancholy involved in the world, he has experienced setbacks, and it is easy to answer in case of trouble, and he is not decisive when he asks what to answer, and he feels that the shortcomings of the whole person are not the same as any advantages, and the whole person is particularly decadent, and he does not dare to break through and challenge himself, and the inferiority complex seems to be engraved into the bones. The state of the whole person seems to be particularly empty, and the man has no true colors, only melancholy. Many people look down on him without confidence in speaking, he said that he lacks such ability, and it is also an ability to brag, and it is a kind of wisdom to participate in the dinner to get things done. He said that the world is not friendly to us, and only those who know how to be flexible and sophisticated can become the world, and the bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the poor set up a stage for each other, and the rich set up a stage for each other, and he can also understand some of it.

He also told me about the reason why he didn't quit color loss for so many years, and he said why it is difficult to quit color addiction, because the brain secretes a lot of dopamine, and smoking and drug addiction are the same, even ten times happier, so celebrities and rich people take drugs. Make yourself happy, so it will be difficult to quit, you will break your vow when you encounter setbacks and difficulties, and you will think of that kind of happiness, and with the growth of time, you will form muscle memory, and you will look for a large number of ** to seek stimulation, but you don't know that this overdraws the body, but it is an addiction that is difficult to quit. He himself is a person who has been hurt by this addiction word, next to the word disease plus the inner hidden self, if it is not out of line, it is difficult to find out what addiction the other party has, but as time goes by, the tongue and eyes will be presented.

He said that he was looking for a substance called endorphins, which secreted a substance when he persevered to a certain amount after pain, and it was because of the difficulty of quitting bardoamine desire that it was because seconds of comfort and pleasure were calculated in seconds, so there were many people chasing them. The poor chase dopamine, the rich chase endorphins, and those who are self-disciplined and adhere to fitness Xi will surpass their peers by a large margin. He said that it is with such a gap that everyone's fate will be different, which is also related to the congenital, after all, everyone's starting line is different, he thinks that it is difficult to become rich from poor, because cognitive ability is limited, and it is difficult for the rich to become poor, because they have high cognitive thinking execution and know how to grasp the future.

Finally, can you change your opinion about Mr. Wang, how do you think Mr. Wang is a person, and if you have any views or past experiences, you can leave a message in the comment area.

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