After a breakup, how to return items can be a tricky one. Here are some suggestions:
1.Face-to-face return: If possible, the best way is to return face-to-face. This ensures that the other person understands your intentions and can avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary embarrassment.
2.Return by mail: If the person is not local or can't pick up the item in person, you can return it by mail. However, please make sure that you protect your items during the packing and mailing process, and that you keep your shipping information and mailing documents in case you may be able to access them in the future.
3.Mutual Friend Return: If you and your ex have a mutual friend, consider having that friend return the item. This avoids direct contact and embarrassment, while also ensuring that items are in the right hands.
4.Keep it as a memento: If the item has a special meaning or represents memories of the past, you can consider saving it as a keepsake. This preserves the value and memories of the item while also avoiding the hassle of returning it.
Whichever method you choose to return your belongings, make sure to respect the other person's feelings and privacy. If the other person has special requests or concerns, try to communicate and find the best way to solve the problem. The most important thing is to maintain a sane and mature attitude to deal with the problems after the breakup.