How to maintain a good relationship as a couple
1. Call each other by their nicknames.
Nicknames are emotional, with a sense of humor, ridicule, intimacy, and invisibility.
Husband and wife are the most intimate relationship in the world, so no matter how intimate the nickname is, it will not be out of line.
Some people, especially men, will feel embarrassed, but if they don't accept the nickname, we can change it until he accepts it, but they must use the nickname.
The more embarrassed people are, the more they must use nicknames to create an intimate atmosphere.
2. Pay attention to emotional accounts.
The relationship between husband and wife is like an account, as long as the balance in the account is sufficient, the relationship between you can withstand the toss, and there will be no major problems in quarrels and cold wars.
But in the case of insufficient emotional account balance, a little argument and a look can cause a big problem.
Therefore, the husband and wife should save more money and withdraw less money in the emotional account, so that the husband and wife can last for a long time.
3. How to deposit money into an emotional account?
In fact, it is very simple, it is to do more things that are happy and comfortable for both people, to create common good memories, and to do more things that move and make each other happy.
Even if it is a small thing, as long as you do more, it will have an effect, that is, you are saving money.
For example, control our mouths, say more nice things, don't say derogatory things about the other person, and don't say things that are derogatory to the other person's family. Although they are husband and wife, there should be a degree of joking.
Another example is to care more about the other person's feelings, take the initiative to do some housework, reduce the burden of the other person, and so on.
4. Complain less about each other and feel sorry for each other more.
Always remember that people are more important than things.
For example, when you go shopping, the ink is good, why do you have to go out so quickly?The daughter-in-law wants ink, so she accompanies her to ink. At the very least, it will not affect the relationship between husband and wife.
If you are nagging next to you, you are not happy, your daughter-in-law is not happy, in the end, the street is not good, the two are not in a good mood, and their relationship is not affected a lot, so why bother?
And if you feel more sorry for each other, your relationship will be better.
5. Don't hold back if you feel uncomfortable.
Between husband and wife, if there is anything unhappy to say, don't hold it in your heart and become a big grievance.
However, it is important to note one thing here, that is, when speaking, pour out your grievances, rather than accusing the other party of not being right.
For example, you can say, "What I went through, how I was wronged," instead of "How bad you were, what did it lead to?"
No one is born to understand your heart, the more you speak, the more the other party will understand you, and will be able to take care of your feelings better.
Editor: rob