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Today's parents all want their sons to become dragons and their daughters to become phoenixes, and they also want their children to win at the starting line with all their abilities.
So now children's lives are filled, and various early education classes, interest classes, and extracurricular development classes emerge in endlessly.
However, the cultivation of children should not only look at IQ, but also pay more attention to the cultivation of emotional intelligence and character.
Instead of spending so much money to let your child go to various classes, it is better to accompany your child to these 3 places often, so that the child has higher emotional intelligence, more confidence, and stronger ability to resist frustration.
01: Accompany the child to climb the mountain
Children need to learn and Xi in the process of growing up, and they need to get in touch with nature.
Children who are confined indoors for a long time are prone to develop an introverted and shy personality, and their physical fitness will not be able to keep up. Children need sunlight and air, and they need to step on dirt.
Among the many outdoor activities, mountain climbing is a very good choice.
Climbing a mountain is more intense than other outdoor activities and can be difficult for children. But it's also an activity that is more engaging and fulfilling.
The process of climbing a mountain is to let the child set a goal for himself and then climb towards that goal.
In the process, you will encounter steps, fatigue, and even bumps and injuries. But if he can make it to the top of the mountain, he will see a different view.
In the process of children climbing the mountain, their will can be exercised, so that they can be more purposeful and learn to persevere.
02: Accompany your child to socialize
Communication is the fastest way for children to grow, and it is also a good way to exercise children's emotional intelligence.
Some parents don't like to take their children out to socialize, and they are afraid that their children will make bad friends. So it's better to keep your children at home and limit their circle of friends.
In fact, children also need to have their own social circles. No matter how well parents protect their children, children will still have to face this complex society in the future.
Don't worry about the child being taken badly, as long as the child's nature is good, he will not be easily influenced.
At this time, the child's social circle is controllable, and once some bad factors are found, the parents can correct it in time, which is equivalent to giving the child a "vaccine".
If the child is protected too well, the child will lack the most basic judgment ability. He has never seen "fake, evil and ugly", so naturally he doesn't know how to prevent it.
Instead of letting children be beaten by society when they become adults, it is better to let children see the state of life from an early age.
03: Accompany the child to behave
In the adult world, the manifestation of love is not a virtue. But in the process of growing up, accompanying the child to behave is an essential activity.
Family members can accompany their children to express themselves, such as participating in various competitions, encouraging children to speak in crowded situations and express their opinions.
These are all very common scenes in daily life, but if parents have such a sense of performance and let their children behave at any time, then your child will unconsciously take a big step ahead of other children.
There are always parents who blame their children for being timid and afraid of life, but they do not reflect on whether they have not exercised their children in this regard.
Courage is not innate, and generosity is not innate. When you envy other people's children's self-confidence, you also need to see what other people's parents have done.
Children are a blank slate, and the way they appear is the best mirror of their parents.
Don't just focus on your own career, and don't just focus on your child's grades. Accompany your children to try more, so that they can have you in the process of growing up.
In the process of children's growth, some things are missed, and it will be the child's life that will be delayed.
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