Recently, a woman in Jiangsu returned to her hometown. In an inconspicuous room on the third floor of the home, the little girl saw that her grandparents were worried that their juniors would not have time in the future, so they folded the "gold ingots" ...... on the ground in advanceSuddenly, my heart was mixed, my throat choked, and I said that I understood "homesickness" in an instant!
The grandparents are afraid of bothering the family even a hundred years later, which makes people teary-eyed. In fact, in the last century, many elderly people would do this, and prepare a lot of things for themselves early, including various ingots, shrouds, coffins, etc. Many old people have nothing to do in their old age, and they like to do these things for recreation, and they feel that they are doing it for themselves, and they can be rich and wealthy in a hundred years.
When I was a child, I heard my grandfather say that when they were young, the elderly would choose a good coffin for themselves, but now it is cremated, and it is not good to use it anymore. This is the last major event in a person's life.
With the change of time and the change of lifestyle, this behavior gradually disappeared. Nowadays, people pay more attention to living in the moment and pursuing a better life. However, such a simple and simple act can still awaken our deep emotions and thoughts.
From another point of view, the behavior of grandparents stacking gold ingots is also the inheritance and promotion of traditional culture. Ingot symbolizes wealth and good fortune in traditional Chinese culture. In this way, they wish themselves good luck and prosperity in the future, and also pass on the good wishes of future generations for the happiness and prosperity of their families.
The behavior of grandparents may seem too traditional and conservative in today's society, but it stimulates us to think about family and nostalgia. In the fast-paced modern life, we often neglect our inner concerns for family, traditions, and emotions. The actions of our grandparents remind us to cherish our time, pay attention to our families, and make good memories for ourselves and others.
Perhaps in each of our lives, grandparents will be a special existence. They have given us love and care in their unique ways and have taught us a lot. Whether it is the gold ingots left by grandparents or the love and expectations in their hearts, they will become our precious wealth and memories.
Let us cherish the time we spend with our grandparents, understand their efforts with our hearts, and inherit and inherit this deep family affection. At the same time, it also makes us reflect and think about whether our attention to family and emotions in modern society also needs more time and love.
May we all maintain our care and companionship for our families, and let love and warmth continue to bloom in our lives.