Have you ever had such an experience?In a relationship, you give all your sincerity, but in the end you find that the other person doesn't take you seriously. Your heart is like being left out of the door of happiness, lonely and cold. Or, you always start to worry about losing and worrying that the other person will disappear when the relationship has not stabilized. I understand all these feelings.
In the world of feelings, we are always full of worries and insecurities. We are afraid of being hurt, of being abandoned, of not being rewarded for our sincere efforts. However, have you ever thought that these worries and insecurities are actually shackles that you have put on yourself?
We are always looking for security in our relationships, trying to keep each other's hearts through control and protection. However, such an approach often only leads to further and further estrangement between the two sides. The real sense of security actually comes from the strength of one's own heart. When we learn to be independent, learn to trust, and learn to let go, we can have true happiness.
In relationships, we also need to have deep communication and understanding. Many times, we have conflicts and misunderstandings because we don't communicate our thoughts and feelings to each other truthfully. We are afraid of hurting each other and ruining existing relationships, so we choose to hide and compromise. However, this approach will only lead to more and more problems, which will eventually lead to the breakdown of the relationship.
Therefore, we should learn to be honest with each other and express our thoughts and feelings in our hearts and feelings. Only in this way can both sides understand each other better and support each other better. Of course, this process can be a little painful, there may be some friction, but only after going through such a process can you truly achieve the sublimation of feelings.
In closing, I would like to say that no matter what problems you face in your relationship, don't give up easily. Because every relationship is a growth and learning in our lives. We need to learn from the experience and lessons to become more mature and perfect. As long as we face it bravely and persist in working hard, we will definitely be able to find our own happiness.
So, dear friends, don't leave me at the door of happiness, and don't always disappear before I can see what it looks like. I still have my friendship, will you always be?Let's go down bravely together and find the happiness that belongs to us!