In this noisy social era, a warrior decided to challenge himself and test the "unspoken rules" in his girlfriend's circle of friends. But no matter how he thought about it, he didn't expect that this temptation was not someone else's praise and comment, but a "two-pronged approach" that attracted his girlfriend's father. We may say, "What's the big deal, isn't it just a like comment?".But if you look at what happened to this brother, you will find that this is not a simple test, but a difficult test of human nature.
At first, the brave young man decided to play a little trick, took his girlfriend's mobile phone and sent a circle of friends, and jokingly said that he "wants to change his boyfriend". He looked at the screen of his phone slyly, ready to brush off those who expressed dissenting opinions in this "melon-eating" circle of friends one by one. Of course, he may have thought about what he could learn from his circle of friends.
However, what he didn't expect was that this time his temptation actually triggered a response from "Dad". Yes, it's my girlfriend's father, my future father-in-law. The general process is like this: Dad likes it, and then publishes a "heartbroken" message, saying "I should have changed it a long time ago, such an ugly boyfriend!"."Isn't that a slap in the face?
Of course, this young man couldn't stand it, he quickly clicked on the comments, and after a look, he found that not everyone who left the message could be deleted by him casually - it was actually the old man!At this point, he froze, and suddenly felt like he had jumped into a deeper pit.
The word "ugly" in the message was like a sharp sword piercing his heart. He was stunned for a while, and silently put a question mark on his image in his heart: Am I ugly?This was something he did not expect, and it was also a failure to test human nature. It's not a netizen's discussion, but a "ugly" sentence from my father-in-law, which is exciting enough.
However, the young man did not choose to go crazy, he took a deep breath and forcibly endured it. He may have a thousand words in his heart, but in the face of his father-in-law, he knows that he has to be careful. After watching it, netizens laughed and said: "It's so heart-wrenching!."Didn't expect that, right?The first person to leave a message agreed was the old man. How ugly do you say?Unexpectedly, my father-in-law dislikes you for being ugly, but he is someone you dare not provoke, think about what to do. ”
Some people advised him not to test human nature, which may have been a joke. What if someone in his girlfriend's circle of friends wants to chase him, and he doesn't pay attention to it after seeing this circle of friends, and secretly pokes and pokes him?You won't even have a chance to regret it!The message is the old man, so you can steal the fun!This is a thoughtful person.
The author thinks that it is really necessary to be cautious in testing human nature. Even if you believe in your girlfriend, you have to think twice when facing this matter. People secretly pursue your girlfriend, not only blocking you, but also causing unnecessary trouble to your girlfriend, which is more than worth the loss.
And the father's words may not be sincere, he may just want to comfort his daughter. Even if he really thinks that you are not good enough, as long as his girlfriend insists, he will most likely respect his daughter's choice. Therefore, compared to the words of the father-in-law, it is more important for couples to trust each other.
Of course, the conclusion can also be that in this episode that reveals human nature, the couple deepens their understanding of each other. Perhaps, after learning of her father's message, her girlfriend will defend her boyfriend, and her boyfriend will cherish this relationship more in the subsequent relationship. Temptation is fun, but trust and understanding are the cornerstones of an emotional relationship. After all, this society is complex enough, there is no need to make trouble for yourself, let alone test the bottom line of others easily.