A relationship will never fade away for no reason, and what fades away is not time, but people's hearts.
Two people, who don't know how to deal with feelings, don't know how to operate, hurt each other, and their feelings naturally come to an end easily.
If the distance between the hearts is far away, even if they live under the same roof, they will feel strange and distant, but if the two people are heart-to-heart, even if they are in a different place, the feelings will not fade.
There are no feelings that fade away for no reason, only two people who hurt each other.
Basically, all relationships between men and women are so weak.
How many relationships end in WeChat chats.
One is always reincarnated in seconds, and the other is always reincarnated, people who return in seconds are always eager to find topics, and people who are reincarnated always use being too busy as an excuse.
People who return in seconds are always wasting time waiting, and even spend a day just waiting for a reply, but people who can be reincarnated are always indifferent and always have various excuses.
I don't want to reply to the message, you can not reply, you can even delete the block, the most afraid is to delay time, a reincarnation for a while, delay time, and make people wait for a long time.
People who reply to messages in seconds are unbalanced in their hearts, their hearts are too tired and sad, but people who are reincarnated are unwilling to explain and make changes, then this relationship will definitely end in the end.
Between people, either don't chat, or just have a good chat, if one of them always likes to hang people's appetites, deliberately does not reply to messages, and makes the person in front of the screen wait for a long time, then the injured person is destined to be the other party.
All reincarnation is deliberate, either busy or unseen, or invisible deliberate harm.
Such a tiring relationship, such a far-fetched relationship, will always be separated.
People in the Cold War are really embarrassed, they don't say anything, and whenever there is a small contradiction, they like the Cold War instead of using communication to solve problems.
I like to keep a distance, keep a straight face, ignore each other, and look high.
However, the person who takes the initiative becomes the most humble one, and he must take the initiative to reconcile, take the initiative to bow his head, and take the initiative to curry favor to resolve the conflict.
In the face of the other party's cold war, we have to look at the other party's face, and we have to reflect on our own right and wrong, I have to say that the party that takes the initiative is too tired and humble.
Such a relationship will end sooner or later.
People who like the Cold War are used to using the Cold War to deal with problems instead of communication, and the person who takes the initiative will be tired one day, and the two people will end up ignoring each other.
We often say that if there is a problem in a relationship, solve it, and if there is an unhappy one, say it, what does it mean for two people to have a cold war, look at each other's faces and live a life, and distance themselves, and in the end the contradiction cannot be resolved, it will only hurt the feelings.
If you have to have a cold war to test each other's patience, the relationship will only get weaker and weaker.
The one who doesn't ask, thinks the other person will say;People who don't say it think the other party will ask.
Two people who do not communicate are destined to have a lot of misunderstandings, and it is not impossible for the relationship to fade away in the end.
All relationships are basically based on communication, you take the initiative, there will be an answer, if you have to wait for the other party to take the initiative, it is destined to not wait.
Between two people, honesty is the best, say whatever you have, ask whatever you have, don't ask or say, and cause all kinds of misunderstandings for no reason.
Neither of them knows what each other thinks, and as time goes by, the contradictions accumulate deeper and deeper, and the emotional cracks will get bigger and bigger.
Communicate a lot to know what each other thinks, if you don't say it, I won't say it, guess each other, cooperate with each other and understand each other, and in the end this relationship will come to an end.
Because silence is an invisible lethality.
Even if it's a quarrel, you can know each other's needs, and what you're afraid of is that you don't even have a quarrel, you use silence to cover up your embarrassment, and you don't like to take the initiative, and then it's over.