Dear friends, hello everyone, I am your old friend, and today I want to talk to you about some things about relationships.
First of all, I would like to ask you if you have ever experienced such a feeling: it makes you happy, it makes you sad, it makes you toss and turn in the middle of the night, it makes you smile in the morning sun. These feelings, whether happy or sad, are an integral part of our lives.
Some people may say that we should learn to forget those bad feelings and only keep those good memories. But I would say that memories, whether happy or sad, are part of our lives, and they have shaped us today. We can't refuse to accept it because we're afraid of grief, and we can't forget the pain we once had because we're nostalgic for happiness.
I remember one time, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend. It was a very painful experience for me, and I asked myself every day why I loved him so much and why he left me. But I later found that that painful memories made me stronger, taught me how to protect myself in relationships, and made me know how to love and be loved.
At the same time, I also remember the memories that made me happy. For example, the moment my current husband and I met, the understanding and respect between us, and our common interests and hobbies, made me feel very happy. These happy memories make me cherish my current feelings more and make me look forward to my future life even more.
So I would say that we should accept all memories, whether happy or sad. Because these memories are ours, they help us understand ourselves better, understand others better, and make our lives more colorful.
Of course, accepting memories does not mean that we should blindly immerse ourselves in the past, but that we should look for lessons in our memories, find inspirations, and make ourselves better in the future. We can elevate ourselves by reminiscing about the joys of the past, and we can also make ourselves stronger by facing the sorrows of the past.
Finally, I would like to say to every friend who is struggling with a relationship, no matter what your mood is right now, believe in yourself, believe in your ability and worth. Because everyone has the ability to love, to be loved, and to make their love life better.