"I'm sorry, but I'm superficial. ”
There are tens of millions of fans every day, and they understand human nature in her words.
She is called the most "American flight attendant Jiang Chubby", and the label she gives herself is the first beauty of Wuchuan Airlines.
It takes about 5 days to change one**, but the likes are often 1 million +.
In just 3 minutes of **, it is a fireworks in the world, but it is about real human nature.
When the background ** sounded, she was wearing a close-fitting cheongsam, wearing a retro black mesh on her head, her hair was pulled casually, delicate and perfunctory, and with a thick lip and a pair of small eyes, she naturally had a sense of joy.
Some people commented on her, with a grainless appearance and a dilemma figure, but she has an interesting soul.
She plays love and never mentions love. It's about squeezing the seats and talking about the boundaries in love
It's obviously a seat for two people, but if you have to squeeze a third person, no one is comfortable. ”
She plays setbacks and never deliberately inspirational. It's about fish, and how people get along with themselves during the trough
The layout of the tank is so small, why do the fish in it keep swimming forward even if they keep hitting the wall?”
Because if it doesn't swim, it will suffocate due to lack of oxygen, and people are like fish trapped underwater in the trough. ”
She plays friendship, never says "friends", but talks about cigarettes, and says not to overestimate people's relationships:
Many friends saw through it, but it was just a friendship in exchange for cigarettes and alcohol. When the cigarette is finished, it fades. ”
Every sentence does not mention people, but every sentence does not leave people.
She hides her deep understanding of human nature in words, expressing everyone's sorrow about love and compromise with human nature.
The most heart-wrenching love is in her playLove is what Jiang Chupang likes to talk about the most.
About the so-called "I love you" in love, she said:
Feelings are like an "equation", and until now I didn't know that I had always been that "X". "It's a forever substitute for the right answer.
About liking in love, she said:
When you are truly loved, you will find that in fact, you don't have to be so beautiful, you just need to be yourself, the love that has been stepping on your feet is unstable, and the person who really loves you will bend over. ”
Regarding the commitment in love, she said:
The promise is that I really want to give you, and the pie is really just want to say it to you, when the talk is costly, then say what you can do, do what you can say, and the actual action is far more romantic than the pie. ”
Regarding the inappropriateness in love, she said:
Whether the shoes fit or not, you should know when you step on it for the first time, so why take a few more steps?”
Regarding the future in love, she said:
No matter how bad the shoes are, they are better to wear than barefoot, and some are better than nothing. ”
Regarding the giving in love, she said:
Falling in love is like eating a popsicle, and after licking it for a long time, it will inevitably tear off a layer of skin. ”
Regarding the quarrel in love, she said:
All cold wars are long-planned departures. ”
Regarding the joy in love, she said:
From your own bag, take out your own money, buy what you like, is real and controllable, don't expect too much from men, there are surprises, no, it is human nature. ”
The heartfelt copywriting made many people see themselves in Jiang Fatpang.
Those who were obsessed with love and crazy about love in the past.
It will sting you inadvertently.
She understands all the regrets and helplessness in love, but she also knows better what love really looks like.
Humor dissolves the bitterness of life"It's just playing me. ”
Many people will be pierced in the heart by Jiang Chubby's copywriting.
She said the most cruel words in the gentlest tone.
ridicules love, but also dissolves the spiciness of life.
She used the escape slip to talk about the maturity of people:
Some people go out halfway to pay, and some people go out halfway, just to teach you a lesson, it turns out that the sign of maturity is to no longer force people to tell the truth, and other people's behavior is already the answer. ”
She uses cars to talk about people's choices:
Why is the windshield bigger than the rearview mirror?Because the road ahead is more important than the road behind. Give time time, let the past pass, let the beginning begin, you can look back, but you can't go back, because retrograde, full responsibility. ”
She uses clothing to ironically talk about people's self-knowledge:
With so many leftovers, which piece do you think you are?”
She uses clothes to talk about human growth:
Life is like making clothes, and the so-called growth is nothing more than being cut into a suitable appearance by life. ”
She used to repair the toilet and talked about the pressure of people:
People are exposed to too many negative emotions to digest at once, let alone the toilet. ”
She uses eggs to talk about life:
You look at this egg, the outside is broken is food, and the inside is broken is life. It's the same in life, breaking from the outside is pressure, and breaking from the inside is growth. ”
She uses fish to talk about happiness:
Fish are the happiest animals in the world because they don't have necks and can't look back, but it's the thoughts of looking back that hinder happiness itself. ”
There is a philosophical in the joke, and she tells you in words:
Life not only has cruel reality, but also the warmth of people's hearts.
Humanity at the trough is cold:
Those who fall into the well are their own people, and those who watch your jokes are the people around you. ”
She said the warmth**:
There will only be fewer and fewer true friends, and those who can go to the end are fellow travelers at the beginning, so never care who you lose, but cherish who is left around you. ”
Humility when looking for a job:
During the day, adults do not belong to themselves, but to the company. ”
This is a pair of bodies that have been specially modified for work, livers that can stay up all night, lungs that can be affected by pouch qi, and a pair of kidneys that can hold urine during meetings. ”
She said what she knows best:
Everyone can only see the scenery in front of me, but no one knows that every truth I have learned is with tears, and every penny I earn is with suffering. ”
About insecurity, she spoke about the inner strength:
The more I grow up, the more I understand that the person who can support me is actually the invincible self in my heart. No matter how good the co-pilot is, it is not as good as holding the steering wheel tightly. ”
She uses words to express the warmth and coldness of people.
Perhaps, this sentence is the most appropriate way to sum up the power of her words:
If life gives you a lemon, turn it into lemonade. ”
Apocalypse of human natureBut whether it is love or life, Jiang Chupang is actually talking about human nature.
Human nature naturally has weaknesses: liking the new and hating the old, loving vanity, seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, selfishness and ......
When faced with interests, how should everyone grasp the scale of human nature?
Jiang Chubby's ** gave the answer with a game of human nature in love.
The story is very mundane, but very realistic.
On the day she and her boyfriend had just moved into their new home, a group of her boyfriend's colleagues came to congratulate her. One of the female colleagues kept courting her boyfriend.
First, he gave a gift, and asked innocently: "I don't know if you can send me back by the way after you moved......”
Jiang Chubby's boyfriend didn't answer positively, but just took the gift and said thank you.
There is no rejection on the surface, it is just considerate in the eyes of boys, but it is actually a choice that leaves room for choice.
Later, during the small talk, the female colleague asked, "I heard that you can read palmistry, can you help me take a look?"”
Looking at the outstretched hand, her boyfriend made an excuse to divert the topic, and still did not explicitly refuse.
The third time, the female colleague asked her boyfriend to help fetch water: "You know what flavor I like." ”
Vaguely told Jiang Fatpang that they were very familiar with each other.
Her boyfriend took the cup, stood up and was about to go to fetch water, and when he passed by Jiang Chubby, he left a sentence: They are all colleagues, and it is not good to refuse directly.
Many people have encountered ** in love, and they have also had momentary wavering.
Do you choose to obey your desires, or do you want to balance human nature?
The answer is self-explanatory.
Love has always had boundaries, and zero-distance thoughtfulness can only be used on the right object and the right occasion.
Just like being a human being, you can't be too tactful, but you know the principles and know what to touch and what not to touch.
People are born with desires, but they should not be dominated by desires.
Once you succumb to the weakness of human nature, you will eventually be eaten by your own desires.
Jiang Fatpang once met a security guard, and that's it.
She is a proprietress who sells fried rice in the play, and a security guard comes to her stall every day after work to ask for a plate of fried rice.
One day, Jiang Fatpang heard him coughing and gave him a cup of pear paste for free.
Over time, this became a Xi.
As long as the security guard comes, Jiang Fatpang will give him a cup of pear paste for free.
After a while, when the security guard came back, he didn't order fried rice, but sat at the table with a box of takeaway, and only asked for a free cup of pear cream.
When asked why, he felt that it was too tiresome to eat only fried rice.
In other words, no matter how good Jiang Chupang is to him, it is a little boring to remain the same, and that extra preference has become a matter of course.
After Jiang Fatpang heard this, he disappeared for a while, and when he came back, he opened again, and the store was overcrowded.
It turned out that she went to learn how to stir-fry and no longer only sold fried rice as before.
The security guard came to the store again and wanted to buy a fried rice, but he didn't expect to have to wait in line for a long time.
Again, as usual, he asked for a cup of pear cream.
After Jiang Fatpang brought it up, he charged for the first time: "5 yuan." ”
In the end, the security guard was driven by greed, and lost the pure kindness of the original boss lady to him.
Many times, we have also been like security guards, indulging our desires and compromising with humanity.
But Jiang Fatpang's copywriting is like a sober injection that has entered everyone's hearts.
All our lives, we have to play with human nature so that we will not be swallowed up by the black hole of desire.
As the famous saying goes:
Life desires are like the branches of a tree, you can't completely eliminate them, but they need to be pruned regularly. ”
This may be what Jiang Fatpang wants to express the most.