My mom is 56 years old this year, she lives alone, and I often worry about her life. She has a deposit of 400,000 yuan, and she can get a pension of 5,000 yuan per month, and her life is okay. However, the other day, I accidentally discovered that she has been a bit mysterious lately, and often giggles. I thought it was strange, so I asked her, "Mom, have you been in love lately?"Why do you keep giggling?”
When my mother heard this, she blushed and said, "How can there be!".What are you thinking!”
I look at her reaction, there must be something wrong. I secretly watched her every move. One day, I saw her messaging WeChat messages with a happy smile on her face. I pretended to be casual and walked over and glanced at her phone, and it was a boy profile picture and name that I had never heard of!
I couldn't help but ask my mother, "Mom, who are you talking to?"Why did I never know you had this friend?”
I stared into her eyes and said solemnly, "Mom, you're 56 years old, why are you still chatting with little boys?".With such a big age difference, what can you talk about?Don't be fooled!It's dangerous to hook up with people online!”
When my mother heard this, her face was a little ugly, and she said, "Oh, older people can't talk anymore?".You're too conservative, aren't you?”
I couldn't stand it anymore, so I asked my mother directly: "What are you talking about with this man named Zhang Li?"He's so much younger than you, he must be lying to you!”
My mom seemed to know that she was doing something she shouldn't have done, and she blushed and kept silent.
I told her solemnly, "Mom, I'm not against you having a boyfriend, but you have to be cautious!."I think he has bad intentions for this tension, you must be careful!”
My mother disagreed: "What is there to worry about, I'm not a little girl, I'll take care of myself." ”
I was very angry and said, "Mom, you look like a middle-aged person who is at high risk of being deceived!".I don't agree with you going!”
My mom was furious and said I was too lenient to let her have some fun. I was also very angry, so I stopped trying to persuade her. Finally, one weekend, my mom was going to visit Zhang Zhang in the next city with her suitcase. In the end, I couldn't hold back and said, "Mom, you must take care of yourself!".If there is anything abnormal, come back quickly!”
My mom went out with a smile. I spent the whole weekend worrying that something would happen to her. I managed to stay up until Monday night before my mom came back. I hurriedly asked her, "How is it, is that person **?"
My mother's face was ugly, and she said, "It's nothing, it's just that people don't look good, and they don't have a good temper." ”
I was a little relieved and said, "It's okay, I'll just say that the person is unreliable." Mom, don't be deceived by this kind of person in the future!”
Two days later, I suddenly noticed that my mother was crying with pear blossoms and rain. I was terrified and quickly asked her what was wrong. She sobbed and said, "Tension deleted my *** and never spoke to me again!”
I was completely furious: "I knew that person was not a good thing!".Mom, I'm here, don't be sad, I'll protect you in the future!”
My mother cried and said, "It's useless for me, I'm so old and still counting on finding a partner, I'm really stupid!".”
I was very distressed and comforted her softly: "Mom, you are such a good person, there are always better people who will like you." It's just that the tension of this ** is too bad!”
Since then, my mom has had no interest in anyone she met online. I also deleted all the strangers on her phone, leaving only friends and family. I started taking my grandchildren to see her often, talking to her, and no longer making her so lonely. Now that she is content and happy, I believe she will no longer trust those who hook up online. After a few months, I noticed that my mother was not in a good mood lately, and she was often in a daze. At first, I thought she was still sad because of the tension, so I often persuaded her to be happy. But slowly, I realized that things were not so simple.
One day, I was cooking in the kitchen, and my mom was sitting next to me, in a trance. I sensed that something was wrong with her, so I asked with concern, "Mom, what's wrong with you?"Is it not feeling well?”
My mom hesitated, shook her head, and said, "No, mom is just a little worried." ”
I immediately stopped what I was doing, hugged her and said, "Mom, if you have any troubles, just tell me, I'm here!."”
When I heard this, I became nervous: "Who?".Or did you meet online?”
No, it was introduced to me by Aunt Zhang. He's too, you know, Aunt Zhang is the property of our community. The man was two years older than me, and he was okay-looking, mainly because he had a very good temper. My mom explained.
I breathed a sigh of relief and said, "Since it was introduced by Aunt Zhang, it should be credible." Mom, if you really like people, let's be together, I don't have a problem. ”
I nodded, understanding her concerns. I shook her hand and said seriously, "Mom, I understand your concerns, but you shouldn't be so wary of all suitors because of the negative man of tension." I think you can get to know this person more first, and if you really get along, you can officially be together;If you find something wrong, you can leave at any time. ”
My mom looked at me trustingly, "Then you say, how long will it take to judge if we are a good fit?"”
My mom nodded, and her expression finally relaxed: "Okay, mom knows, thank you, girl!."”
I'm really happy for her. I believe that with me, my mother's emotional road will never be deceived and hurt again. Later, my mom started dating the man named Xiao Li. I've also met Xiao Li a few times, he's not tall, a little blessed, but he looks kind, and he knows he's a good guy at a glance. My mom and I went out to eat and go shopping more and more, and sometimes we would go on trips together. I looked at the happy smile on my mother's face and felt happy for her.
In this way, they have been trying to get married for three or four months. During this period, I often asked my mother with concern: "How are you and Xiao Li getting along?"Did you find any problems?"My mother said it was very good, Xiao Li was very considerate to her and did not have any dissatisfaction.
Until one day, I noticed that my mother has been sullen lately, and her face is not good-looking. I immediately knew something was wrong. So I came to see her with the fruit and asked with concern, "Mom, you don't look in a good mood these days." Is there something wrong with you and Xiao Li?”
My mom sighed and said, "It can't be said to be a problem." It's just that I found that Xiao Li was too stingy. Every time I wanted to buy something, he would question it endlessly. I also often complain about the improper use of the clothes, cosmetics, etc. I bought. I couldn't stand his startled personality. ”
I nodded, understanding, "That's really a problem for him. Mom, I don't think your personality is suitable, break up. I'll introduce you to the right people in the future!”
My mom pondered for a moment, but still shook her head: "No, I have to make a final confirmation this time." Maybe this is Xiao Li's personality. I'll observe and observe. ”
I knew that she still couldn't get out of the shadow of being deceived, so I stopped persuading her. A few days later, my mother took the initiative to tell me that she and Xiao Li had broken up. Xiao Li couldn't help but lose his temper with her in the end, saying that she was wasting money. My mom came to her senses and broke off her friendship with him.
I comforted her and said, "Mom, you've worked hard. It's just that the character is not suitable, and it is best to separate. I believe that I will meet more suitable people in the future!My mom nodded, looking much more relieved. I know she's learning how to protect herself Xi, and that's a good thing. I will stay with her until she finds true happiness. After my mom broke up, I found that her mood had hit rock bottom again. She was sullen and listless all day. I was so distressed that I made time to go shopping with her and buy her favorite snacks, hoping that she would be happier.