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I like a sentence in "Skin" very much:
"What really supports you is a wealth of knowledge, a sufficient economic foundation, and an invincible self. ”
In fact, what really widens the gap between people is a person's confidence from the inside out.
Of course, this kind of confidence is never achieved overnight, let alone out of thin air, but requires long-term rich knowledge reserves, as well as cognitive updates and iterations, plus a strong enough economic foundation.
In this way, his personality is independent and his wisdom is outstanding, and even in the face of all kinds of hardships and blows, he still has the charm of calmness.
When people reach middle age, they must rely on themselves and live a minimum of confidence.
Confidence is opened by cognition
When you reach middle age, you will find that it is better to rely on yourself than on anyone.
Relying on others is always only temporary, and only by relying on oneself can we always rely on it.
The reason why you are reliable on your own is because you can build your own survival skills and open up your own cognitive level.
Then, to create their own core competitiveness, the kung fu is in place, and it will definitely be able to stand out at a certain node and shine.
When people reach middle age, they must not lie flat, nor do they lie flat, because in this life, they will always need to toss, but not blind toss.
Work hard to live every day, even if you accumulate a little experience for yourself, you must believe that with these accumulations, one day, you will be able to take yourself to another step in life.
Then, no matter how difficult it is to face the future, you will have more confidence in your heart.
Kazuo Inamori once said:
"Regardless of the outcome of your efforts, you can learn something that ordinary people can't
Accumulate experience that ordinary people can't get, so that they can go further and travel higher than others. ”
Always believe, continue to accumulate, keep improving, maintain deep thinking, and avoid gains and losses, self-doubt.
When we have seen enough people, seen enough landscapes, and understood enough human nature.
Then, once the skills are practiced and the competitiveness is transformed, more opportunities can follow.
In this way, we can rely on our own experience accumulation, open our own horizons, support our own pattern, go farther than others, climb higher, and stand more stable.
The French writer André Gide said:
"Everyone has amazing potential, believe in your own strength and youth, and keep telling yourself: everything depends on me. ”
Everyone has their own unique talents and potentials, as long as we can take the initiative, be brave, be simple, and tap into our own potential.
Then, rely on yourself, constantly improve your own cognition, find your own advantages, and create your own value.
One day, when you find that the quantitative change has produced a qualitative change, everything will become beautiful and beautiful.
Confidence, supported by strength
In fact, any person's confidence is supported by strength.
Strength is not only composed of a person's cognitive ability and action ability, but also has the ability to resist pressure, delay gratification, and correct errors in time.
Because only in this way can we develop ourselves more objectively and more comprehensively.
Success of any nature cannot be single, let alone unilateral, and it can even be said that only by reaching a state of favorable time, place and people can we move towards success.
Of course, we may not be able to identify and seize the right time and place, but we can learn to prepare early and polish ourselves as soon as possible.
Then, with a goal and a direction, immediately take the first step, take action, move forward bravely, and move forward with an open-minded and cheerful attitude.
As it says in "The Fantastic Journey of the Shepherd Boy": When you really want to do something, the whole world will make way for you.
What people are most afraid of is to stay where they are, not daring to move forward, afraid of failure.
The most successful people are the bravest people, and these people can make themselves successful, become strong, and then keep going.
Even if the reality is full of ups and downs and thorns, the heart is still calm and open-minded.
In this way, relying on one's own real efforts, relying on one's own accumulation bit by bit, and relying on one's own calm and quiet persistence, you will eventually be able to rely on yourself, strong strength, and be reborn.
Wang Guozhen said:
"Chances, fight for them on your own;Destiny, grasp it yourself,
Life is your own drawing board, why rely on others for coloring. ”
At all times, we must stabilize ourselves, improve ourselves, and transform ourselves.
In this way, relying on ourselves to strive for opportunities, relying on ourselves to grasp the destiny, in the drawing board of life, we must rely on ourselves to fulfill our seemingly ordinary, but quite wonderful life.
Confidence is extended by spirit
When a person reaches middle age, when a person has enough confidence, he must be full of spirit.
It is precisely because these people can rely entirely on themselves, do not rely on others, can come up with their own Xi, give full play to their own abilities, and earn independent expenses for life.
Then, you can be free and live better on your own, and you can experience the subtleties of life without relying on anyone.
Hayao Miyazaki once said:
"Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your Xi and make you cowardly. Learn to walk independently whenever and wherever you are. ”
Create a full spirit, create an independent spirit, create the spirit of a strong person, take out your own confidence, and do not need to have too high and too many expectations for life.
Don't expect anything from anyone, it's enough to rely on yourself for everything, to be able to do everything on your own.
Just like the famous host Meng Fei said:
Never expect too much from someone else's help, even your parents, to do everything on your own. ”
In this way, when a person's ability is getting stronger and stronger, and his strength is getting stronger and stronger, he will definitely take every step of the moment calmly and steadily.
Even if you fall into a trough, you can get up calmly, and even if you stand at the peak, you will not be arrogant for the rest of your life.
In this way, do not be happy with things, do not be sad with yourself, can afford to take it, but also put it down, calmly, firmly, cautiously, and move forward.
When You Are Like a Bird Flying to Your Mountain, there is a saying that says, "Only by relying on yourself can you have a better chance of winning." ”
For the rest of your life, improve yourself, polish yourself, grow yourself, transform yourself, and strengthen yourself.
In the end, rely on yourself in everything, let yourself live more and more confidently, more and more radiant.