Parents' "anti-routine" kindergarten investigates family background in disguise, and I have no way to do it
For parents, the preschool education stage is very important and is a critical period for children's initial education. At this time, parents are looking forward to choosing a quality kindergarten for their children to ensure that they can receive a good education from an early age and not lose out on the starting line of life.
At present, there are many kindergartens in China, including private and public, which look very formal on the outside. However, it is only when the child actually enters the kindergarten that parents will learn the inside story.
Some kindergartens may treat each student differently, and teachers may have lost some of their professional ethic, will try to investigate the child's family background, and sometimes even let the child bring the information home, and conduct a family survey in disguise, asking the parents to fill in the relevant information.
Faced with this situation, how should parents respond?Students are required to fill out a "registration form" when they first enter kindergarten, which includes personal information, parents*** and home address. Although teachers say that it is for the convenience of future contact, some kindergartens will also ask parents to fill in professional information to indicate better communication with parents in the future.
However, parents generally believe that filling out career information can become very complicated, and worry that kindergartens will treat their children differently because of their family background, and this concern does exist in practice.
Nevertheless, in order for the child to be able to enter the kindergarten Xi smoothly, parents usually fill it out according to the teacher's request. However, smart parents often adopt some "anti-routine operations", and some even directly fill in false information.
However, kindergartens also take some surprising steps to investigate students' family backgrounds in disguise. For example, when homework is left at the end of school, the teacher may ask the child to complete it with the parent when he or she comes home, and the questions in the homework are often related to the family background, such as how big the family car is, the size of the house, etc.
Many parents are confused when faced with these questions and do not understand how this has to do with their children's kindergarten. Despite this, parents were able to answer skillfully: some parents drew a globe on a piece of paper and wrote "The earth is a common home for mankind";Others drew a conspicuous logo on the child's car on paper. Modern parents are very smart, and everyone is a master of anti-routines.
When parents see the questionnaire, they can actually understand the true intention of the kindergarten, mainly to understand the student's family situation, to judge whether the child's family is wealthy, and how the teacher should treat the student. These are all factors that schools and teachers take into account.
The author believes that parents can resolutely refuse when faced with this situation. As a stage of enlightenment education, the main responsibility of kindergarten is to provide good education to students, and should not conduct a survey of family economic status, so as to avoid teachers treating students differently.
If this is the case in a private kindergarten, the relevant authorities should also manage it. Whether it is a public or private kindergarten, they should focus on their original intention and focus all their energy on improving the quality of education, so that parents can trust their children to the kindergarten with peace of mind.
Thousands of teachings teach people to seek truth, and thousands of learnings to be real people", this sentence best describes the role of teachers. The purpose of the teacher's teaching is to teach students how to pursue the truth, and the purpose of students' learning is to become virtuous individuals Xi learning.
In the enlightenment stage, teachers need to guide students better, only in this way can they cultivate more excellent students.
In early childhood education, although it may not seem difficult on the surface, in reality, the teacher's task is very onerous. They need to guide students to face life positively while ensuring a strong foundation for primary school.
Therefore, teachers at the kindergarten stage do not simply exist, they must convey the correct three views, which is more important than imparting book knowledge.
In general, as a parent, when choosing a kindergarten, you should investigate its educational philosophy and quality, rather than choosing blindly. Choosing a kindergarten with a good quality of education can go a long way in your child's future. Parents should not only pay attention to the environment of the kindergarten, but also need to examine the educational ability and moral character of the kindergarten teacher.
If parents find that the kindergarten is investigating the family background in disguise, they should speak out bravely and urge the relevant departments to punish them and put an end to this bad practice. Kindergarten should return to the essence of education, cultivate students' good moral character and three views, so that they become better in the process of growth.
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