The uncovered rules of the new type of pension are being staged in many families, and the children

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-31

RetirementThe problem has always beenSocialOne of the focal points of attention. Many families want their parents to be kind to them as they reach old age, while parents expect to be cared for and loved by their children. However, in reality,RetirementIt's not as simple as it seems. NewRetirementThe "uncovered" rules are quietly staged, and many children in the family do not say it clearly, while the parents silently bear this suffering. In this article, I will introduce you to several typical onesRetirementThe case for "unspoken" rules.

ConfinementYesMaternityIt is a kind of maintenance that is unique to women's physical recovery period. During the confinement period, you need the care and affection of your family. However, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, it can easily affect the mood and physical recovery. One case is a daughter-in-lawConfinementDuring this period, her mother-in-law cooked instant noodles for her every day, thinking that instant noodles were very nutritious. This behavior feels unbelievable, but it also highlights the mother-in-law's indifference to her daughter-in-law. On the contrary, when a wise mother-in-law is in the arms of a daughter-in-lawPregnancyWhen I discussed with my daughter-in-law and proposed arrangements to take care of the confinement child, everyone felt very happy. This kind of reasonable communication and care will make the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law more harmonious, and it can also be for the futureRetirementRelationships build a solid foundation.

As the pressure on the younger generation to marry and have children increases, many couples have to leave the task of caring for their children to the elderly. One mother once complained that her in-laws were reluctant to help, even though they were in the citylifeIt's very comfortable, but he doesn't want to pick up and drop off his children from school, and even more so frequentlylifeFee. In this case, the couple can only take time off work or rely on the help of others to take care of the child on a long-term basis. This kind of "you help me take care of the baby, I will provide for you for the elderly".RetirementUnspoken rules have become a phenomenon in reality. However, there are also parents who are willing to take the initiative to let go of their ownlifeto help children take care of their grandchildren. This spirit of mutual help is an important foundation for harmonious family coexistence.

In the eyes of some smart and wise old people, they understand that getting along with young people requires respect for each other and getting along with each other. They will not be coquettish, but respect the decision-making of young people, and take harmony as the premise. Even when they are in need of help, they can be understanding and tolerant. This kind of has a sense of boundariesRetirement, can reduce family conflicts, and is respected and treated well by young people.

In summary,RetirementThe question is a complex and sensitive topic. Every family has its ownRetirementrules, there are also different expectations and ways of dealing with them. Either wayConfinement, with a baby or daily get along, you need toFamily memberscommunication and understanding. Family membersThe care and affection between is thatRetirementThe foundation of the relationship, but also focus on mutual respect and tolerance. Only in an atmosphere of harmony and harmony can the true meaning be realizedRetirement。I hope that every family will be able to find something that suits themRetirementmodel to create a happy and harmonious family atmosphere. Let's work together forSocialofRetirementproblem to find a better solution.

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