Some views that are completely opposite to what you were taught as a child, from people who have been killed from the bottom, have four values that are completely different from what you think.
The weak seek fairness, while the strong pursue profit. In the real society, the law of the jungle is the most important law of survival of the fittest, which exists in all levels of society. Only the weak blindly emphasize fairness, because only fairness can he get a piece of the pie in the hands of the strong. And of course, the strong are not willing to give up the benefits of their hard work to you. Therefore, if you are looking for fairness and justice, then you have to pay attention, because such a person will be alien to the whole harsh reality, and it will be difficult to make a difference even if you are prominent in other aspects.
The principle of letting Kong Rong let the pear will only make you live at the bottom for the rest of your life. In the social jungle, everyone who wants to achieve something is desperately grabbing resources and benefits. But if you are a humble gentleman, the cruelest thing about society is that you will not be rewarded for your humility and generosity. Instead, it will give you a small slap in the face. To put it to the extreme, people in society who have personalities like hooligans and bandits are more likely to succeed. The successful people you are familiar with, the big bosses are actually such people, and the gentle and polite people are not suitable for grabbing profits at all, they are only suitable for part-time work, and they get a salary that can only make ends meet in a fixed position. Those who you consider successful, mild-mannered, I tell you: they are just pretending.
What you need to understand is that rules and morals are used by those who have already climbed to the top of the pyramid to restrain and prevent those who come after them from sharing their interests. If you also talk about rules, then there are also moral concerns, and you will only be ignored. At the same time, you must not take yourself seriously, when you have not achieved something, the most important thing is how to strengthen yourself, it is not important to lose face, lose dignity, what matters is how you can climb up faster. Only those who have actually experienced it can understand what I am doing at the moment.
I know a lot of bigwigs with too small assets, they may not have a skill, and they don't do as well as their employees, but they must be very good at making quality choices in front of the wind. Ordinary people may be able to control the details and tactics, but they are always confused at key life nodes, such as the choice of life partners, the choice of entrepreneurial opportunities, and so on. At the same time, if your network is very high-quality, you will find that many powerful people are not necessarily smart, but there is a heart-piercing truth: more than 80% of smart people just live at the bottom of society. Think about it, why is this phenomenon?The person who can really achieve something, he is inferior to you in many aspects, he just makes the right decisions.
These are the four realistic values of those who have come out of the bottom. If you can understand, then congratulations, you are at least close to breaking through the bottom of society.