When I first joined the work, I felt that the 40-year-old aunts in the unit were so old, and I thought they were so pitiful, so I rushed to buy a bunch of vegetables for a dollar before the stall in the vegetable market, and carried them back with a bicycle, talking about children every day, as if the children had no self at all except for the children.
I couldn't help but feel a little disdainful in my heart, thinking that I couldn't live like her. How pitiful, how aggrieved.
I was so young, naïve and ignorant.
Now that I have passed the age of forty, I feel embarrassed and speechless when I think of myself.
Honestly, I don't think 40 is really old. You are not old or eighty yet, and the World Health Organization still does not recognize you as an old person, so why do you say that you are old?
At the very least, every day is the youngest day of my life.
Although there are old and young, although our unit is called the backbone, the mainstay, and the pillar of the family.
But we ourselves understand that these are the hardest years.
The old man is old and needs to be taken care of, and the child has not yet started a family, so you still have to keep an eye on it.
I am already approaching the age of retirement, and I am slowly being eliminated by young people, but the work pressure has not decreased. There must be assessments and evaluations, and the work performance that should be produced is still obtained.
I was afraid that one day I would suddenly be eliminated, and the job postings everywhere said that those over 35 years old were not allowed to talk, so I had to stay young and energetic and work hard.
Can I be old?Allow me to be old?No way!
Even if the parts of the body have begun to slowly need to be repaired, even if we have already felt that we are not able to do it psychologically, we still have to be young.
First, your parents are here, and you can never say that you are old. A mother's child is a treasure, and in the eyes of your mother, you will always be a child.
Second, if the child is there, you have to support the family. How can you say that you are old?Life's task is not yet complete. When you send your children to start a family, you have to take on the task of helping the third generation.
Third, don't forget about yourself!How many times have you lived for yourself over the years?How much joy is pure happiness?
Wait, we still have to enjoy life!
Who says 40-year-old women are old?My 70-year-old aunt still calls me "girl"!