What is the year of the reversal of women's word-of-mouth this year?
first found out that Xi Guifei, the mother of the eldest grandson, and He Youjun were actually engaged in pure love in a wealthy family.
The woman's EQ is high and sober, it turns out that the man is the love brain, and he also said, "It's hard for you to marry me, our family is so complicated", netizens: There is the taste of Minglan Gu Tingye.
Then Wu Qianyu brought her rich fiancé (richer than Lin Feng) to a variety show, and the man said that he loved her to the point of inferiority, and the inheritance was given to her.
Qianyu BB said lightly "Thank you", netizens: This high-level sense of worthiness, please publish the book immediately.
and Zhang Xiaohui, who took off at the beginning of the year with the east wind of e-commerce live broadcast, has changed from a wicked woman who squeezed her ex-husband to a self-reliant and self-reliant flower in the world.
Even the most miserable girl played by Sister Mi, Yang Zixi in "Beijing Love Story", has recently become popular on Douyin.
Transparent quotations are sung by everyone:Men are unreliable, and marriage is worthless.
It is said that Sister Mi herself loves this role very much, and it took 10 years to make Yang Zixi's ** avatar.
This wave of word-of-mouth reversal is a bit exaggerated, how hard she was scolded back then, do you remember?
Yang Zixi, the first of the four beauties in "Northern Love", the character is the best gold worshipper.
The director's intention to create this role is also very starry: don't bully your ex-boyfriend into being poor, and fishing for a girl will not end well.
Yang Zixi made an early appearance, integrating the stereotype of fishing women.
Dumped the poor ex-boyfriend and ran to the arms of the rich second generation, and the ex-boyfriend begged: Give me time. She didn't look back: "I'm 26 years old, and I can't live on my dreams all the time." ”
The ex-boyfriend said I love you, and she pushed it away with her hand wearing Bulgari and Cartier: I am old no matter how much you love and love.
The slap in the face came quickly, and the next plot began to humiliate Yang Zixi in all directions.
She let go of the rich second generation who was chasing with dignity and love, looked down on her at all, treated her as a plaything, and took other women home when she was tired of playing.
Anger will only lead to greater humiliation: trouble figuring out that you are a young lady.
In the worst scene of the whole play, the rich second generation was carnivaling in a nightclub, betting with everyone that a ** could call a beautiful woman, and then called Yang Zixi.
Yang Zixi is not feeling well, and the rich second generation doesn't care: "I'll give you 15 minutes to put on makeup, 15 minutes to get dressed, and 30 minutes to take a hit." ”
So there is the famous scene where she sheds tears while brushing mascara.
The back is even worse, the rich second generation exchanges girlfriends with his brother, Yang Zixi was taken to the car of a strange man, resisted and was scolded: "What are you pretending to be pure, aren't you just trying to make money with him?"”
The main reason is that she didn't get much money, and the house she rented, the rich second generation later took other women to live in and gave her a flower shop, she probably only had the right to manage, a cabinet of shoes, I don't know if I can take it away.
And the poor boyfriend who was abandoned by her has the love of a rich woman.
The rich woman is still very young, she is a strong woman at work, and she is a beautiful ** gentle sister in life. A sexual turn is the person Yang Zixi wants to marry the most.
Do you think this is the end of retribution?
Not enough, after Yang Zixi broke up**, she was sterile for life. Female screenwriter Li Yaling also specifically clarified that this was added by the male director, and she didn't want to have too much moral criticism of Yang Zixi (formerly known as Li Menglu).
Coincidentally, the seaweed that is a junior in "Snail House" also ends with miscarriage and infertility. However, the director said that he did not refer to "Snail House".
It's not so much a coincidence as a cultural conspiracy, and the play also uses Yang Zixi's mouth to say: "I can't have children, am I still a woman?."”
Procreation is considered by society to be the most precious value of women, and the loss of the womb deprives the gender identity and realizes the punishment of women who do not meet the moral standards.
"Northern Love" also set up a control group for fishing girls, and the other two heroines are saints of male fantasy:
The male protagonist is paired with Shen Bing, from a small town, beautiful and innocent, and never gives up, the "little dragon girl" in the bustling city, the prodigal son has to turn back at a glance.
There is also a love brain Lin Xia, who has been sticking to the male protagonist for many years, and the famous saying is "I love you and it has nothing to do with you". It looks like the most free and open, bars and nightclubs come to everything, but in fact, they are guarding like jade and want to dedicate the ** film to the male protagonist.
Shen Bing harvested the love and marriage of the male protagonist, Lin Xia rejected the rich man with a family, and the last link of the humiliation of the woman was completed through the happiness of the saint's marriage and love and noble character.
It is estimated that the director did not expect that Yang Zixi, who was once scolded for worshipping money, not loving herself, and not worthy of her ex-boyfriend, became a sober woman worshiped by netizens after many years:
"I used to scoff at it, but now I learn Xi frame by frame. ”
Beijing houses, hukou, cars, Cartier, Bulgari, rich people give too much.
And the affectionate ex-boyfriend's character design can't stand scrutiny: "He will even cry, be sad, and jump off the building, but he doesn't want to make money." ”
Laughing to death, this section of jumping off the building for love was regarded as a proof of romance back then, for example, Lin Xia was super envious, saying that if a man could jump off the building for her, Jin Shan would not change it, and immediately marry him.
Now that everyone is sober, it's just a performance of distorted paranoia and extreme men's moral kidnapping, I don't know if I love it or not, but it's time for a psychiatrist to watch it.
And Yang Zixi, played by Sister Mi, is cute, hateful and pitiful. The stereotyped evil girl has grown complex flesh and blood.
An audience recalled: "She said the most affectionate words on her lips, and after she turned to leave, she would also show a lonely and vulnerable look." ”
She is not a top-level fishing girl who kills decisively, and she has not yet developed a strong inner order.
It's more like a little girl who is broken in the trauma of her original family, holding the only young beauty chips she thinks she has, and exchanging toys that she can't get before in the ** world.
The money Yang Zixi got was used to buy brand-name shoes. Because her family was poor when she was a child, everyone else had little white shoes, and she didn't have them, so her mother promised her to buy them first in the exam. She took the test, but her mother didn't fulfill it, and her efforts were useless.
Later, the parents' marriage broke down and quarreled, and the mother's resentment against the man for the marriage was inherited by the daughter.
So she didn't believe it: no one in this world could be counted on. She spoke to no one, including herself.
The reason why everyone began to understand Yang Zixi is that there is always a pity, women's life channels are often narrow, and she always makes choice questions between men.
I also scolded after pity, but I used to scold her for material, but now I mainly scold her for being a fishing girl and wanting feelings, not knowing how to borrow resources to soar, and smashing the flower shop sent by the rich second generation.
Let's just say that it's good to turn back to the shore, but you don't have to throw all the money you have caught in the water before
And even more illusory,Yang Zixi's awakening in the later period was only to reflect on the fact that she missed the man who really loved her.
In fact, it is the awakening of male fantasies: repentance and bullying the poor youth.
And the ending of arranging for her ex-boyfriend to take over in the play and giving her a chance to be a wife is what they think is the greatest tolerance for fishing women.
ran away for half his life, and his return was still saved by men. It's not so much about growth, but from one trap to another, Yang Zixi's sin is not so much.
The reversal of the reputation of the fishing girls is also an improvement to a certain extent.
Because everyone found several traps in the trial of fishing women.
The particularly popular "Apocalypse" a while ago tells a story about which, compared with humiliating the fishing girl in the previous play, the heroine used Haruki Murakami's "burning the barn" story to aim the gun at the rich man who played with the fishing girl for the first time.
"You just like to torture the will of these young girls, because this is the barn you think is the most worth burning. ”
And the girls also found that the trial of "fishing girls" was downgraded and the scope was ridiculously expanded:It is the fishing girl who points to the Angus thick cow castle, and it is the sugar daddy to drink Luckin.
It's a bit humorous, this trial didn't identify more fishing women, but tore the fig leaf of some chicken thieves men:
venting his anger on the jealousy of the rich and the shame of losing the male competition to women, as well as the calculation of women, actually reflects their own calculations, and they only want to benefit from marriage and love and refuse to pay a little.
Some netizens asked their souls, if according to this standard, the man who fishes the womb and social welfare and the family supports the inheritance of the crown and surname right, why does he never have to prove that he is an independent man?
At this point, everyone found out,The so-called fishing girl is actually starting to be self-interested.
A few days ago, there was a hot topic: why is it offensive to say that it is suitable to be a wife?
The girls replied: Because of the context in which this sentence appears, it is our altruistic attributes that are praised. It's like boasting that a fish has no spines, and it's easy to eat.
Of course, everyone doesn't agree with the fishing girl, but just wake up:How many of the standards of a good woman are calculated by men, and the voice and fairness that women get in marriage and love may not be as high as in transactions, and they must have the courage to talk about interests.
And the fishing girl is still on the wrong path after waking up, and the biggest problem is,After self-objectification, they will gradually give up loving themselves, giving up their ambitions for themselves, and giving up the feelings of respecting themselves.
Looking at Yang Zixi again, the most terrible thing is that after the breakup, her ego is rotten.
She went to work as a waitress, and netizens said that she had graduated from college and how she had fallen to this, but this job was nothing, the main problem was:
She has completely disdained herself, she feels that she is no longer worthy of a good man and a good life, she internalizes those humiliations, and then completely loses the hope and ability to save herself from fire and water.
This is the price of falling into the trap of female competition, it is not easy to be a fishing girl, and she enters the game with beauty, but it is not just beauty that you have to pay.
And from the perspective of returns, there are only a limited number of people who can make a lot of money at the top, and the risk of being abandoned is high.
There are many Fan Shengmei like this, thinking that she was sober and pinched a man, and was finally sent away by 1,000 yuan.
Actually, I understand,She grew up being suppressed in a patriarchal family, so she naturally overestimated the benefits of marriage and love and underestimated her self-worth.
Fortunately, Sister Fan is sober, and accepting not being loved and cutting blood-sucking parents is only one aspect.
She took another step forward. She used to want to find a man with good conditions to marry, but at this moment, Wang Baichuan sent it to the door, her career was on the rise, she bought a house in Shanghai, and she liked her for many years, and she took the initiative to break up.
Women's awakening is often like dominoes, starting from the confrontation with the original family, constantly aware of the injustices hidden under the habit of Xi, and constantly aware of their own needs and energy.
So she began to take risks for her ambitions, jumped from HR to work as a financial consultant, and worked in the new company.
also generously said sorry to Wang Baichuan, she wanted to see her feelings clearly first, and she was not in a hurry to get married.
Many people say that this breakup scene is Fan Shengmei's most glorious moment, no longer twisting her jaws, no longer engaging in a game between hunters and prey, and no longer having to think about which words to say to be noble and easy to marry.
In fact, it is based on oneself, the theme song for Fan Shengmei in the play is "Cinderella", the pumpkin cart and the crystal slipper are **, and returning to the original form at 12 o'clock is the price of becoming an object.
Being robbed by the prince may not be precious, but the moment she jumps off the pumpkin cart, she must be relaxed and confident enough.