In the last three episodes of "Deep Love and Rain", my tears never stopped.
Even though I used to complain a lot about certain plots and character settings, I really couldn't help but cry when I saw the plot behind it.
The sincere emotion tempered in the midst of waiting and pain has a strong attraction. That's one of the reasons I love Armageddon. I have a lot to share about the finale of this work, so let's start with the story of Du Fei and Ruping.
After Ruping disappeared for 4 years, Du Fei met her by chance in the field hospital.
At this moment, Du Fei's deep affection for Ruping is no longer so strong. He knew that she was a good man and that she was the type he liked. However, Ruping unexpectedly turned around and confessed, and the two naturally came together, and then entered the palace of marriage.
Even though this ending seems very good, will they really be able to feel happy together?
That's not the way I see it. Do you really think that Ruping has forgotten about Shuhuan and is in love with Du Fei?
Keep in mind that after meeting Du Fei, she was still most concerned about Shuhuan's condition.
No matter where he is, Shuhuan always occupies a certain place in Ruping's heart, because what he can't get always causes uneasiness.
As for the reason for choosing Du Fei, it is actually very straightforward.
After a series of things such as falling out of love, losing my mother, and being blamed by my father, I found that there was still someone waiting for me in the same place, whether it was because of emotion or reason, I would choose to be with him.
Do you really think that Ruping's feelings for Du Fei can be as deep as her feelings for Shuhuan?
This is completely impossible, Shuhuan is like a bright moonlight in her heart, and Du Fei is a decision she made after weighing various factors.
Ruping's forgetfulness of Shuhuan is only due to the limitations of time and space, and if the two meet again, who can be sure whether it will ignite the passionate emotions in her heart.
It is foreseeable that even if Shuhuan and Yiping finally come to the palace of marriage, the relationship between Ruping and Shuhuan is still ambiguous. Shuhuan felt guilty about Ruping, and Ruping was obsessed with Shuhuan. Maybe one day when they have an argument with their partner, they will be honest again.
The core problem is that there is an obvious emotional imbalance between Du Fei and Ruping, and this imbalance obviously has a negative impact on their relationship.
Du Fei and Ruping remind me of the relationship between Li Xiaolu and Jia Nailiang.
Du Fei's humble attitude towards Ruping is the same as Jia Nailiang's attitude towards Li Xiaolu. She's an ordinary girl. Du Fei invested a lot of time and effort in pursuing Ruping, not only giving gifts, but also throwing them in the trash, and even willing to be her backup choice.
When Jia Nailiang initially pursued Li Xiaolu, he only had 30,000 yuan in his pocket, but he was still willing to buy 2 worth of 2 for Li Xiaolu90,000 yuan of clothing. In order to win Li Xiaolu's love, Jia Nailiang even underwent a series of ear piercing surgeries.
After more than a year of unremitting pursuit, Li Xiaolu finally reluctantly agreed.
Although it seems to be happy for several years, the final outcome is not so tragic.
In fact, this ending has long been predetermined.
In love, when one person loves another person with humility, although this love may seem great, it can be a bondage to the other person.
Also, the deeper your love for someone, the more attractive your ego will be, which will not only weaken your charisma, but may also cause the other person to lose their value for you.
Ruping and Li Xiaolu are similar in many ways, they both grew up in a privileged family environment and experienced ups and downs, which also shaped their proud and arrogant personalities.
A girl with such a personality trait is like a flower blooming in a greenhouse in real life, and it is difficult for her to achieve true self-reliance.
Dependence on their parents at home and their husbands in marriage has become their daily routine.
For Ruping, initially she longed to rely on Shuhuan, but when she realized Shuhuan's hesitation, she was very frustrated. She knew that she couldn't beat Yiping, and at this critical moment, there didn't seem to be a more suitable partner by her side.
Looking back, Du Fei is still by his side, his deep affection for himself has never changed, and he will not choose him to decide who he is.
I really don't think Ruping has much affection for Du Fei, but due to the death of Lu Zhenhua and the death of Aunt Xue, she has lost the strongest support in this world, and at this moment, her emotions can only turn to men.
Frankly speaking, Ruping has always been a selfish person, she is good at hiding her true colors, giving people a sense of pity and pity, and always making people feel that she deserves to be protected.
I have strong opposition to Du Fei's view of love.
One of the main reasons why Ruping didn't have feelings for him was that he loved himself so much that he lost himself. He fell in love with her, so persistently, so purely. I'm willing to pay any price, even my whole life, for you.
I don't think it's great about this kind of love. What is shocking is that after Shuhuan broke up with Yiping, he actually assisted Ruping in pursuing Shuhuan.
Although he knew that Shuhuan had a deeper affection for Yiping, he was still able to bring Ruping to his side.
Shuhuan and Yiping originally had a chance to start over, but Du Fei, in order not to disappoint Ruping, actually prevented Shuhuan from reading Yiping's diary, didn't this encourage evil deeds?
It is no exaggeration to say that Du Fei's love for Ruping has reached the point of being completely out of control. Although some people think that Du Fei's values in the play are the most upright, but this alone makes me deeply feel Du Fei's horror.
Isn't the reason why he helped Ruping to please her?
However, in order to win the favor of the other party, he sometimes betrays his friends. Obviously, in the future, if Ruping made any request to Du Fei, he would not easily refuse.
In addition, Ruping has lived in a luxurious environment since she was a child, and Du Fei works in a newspaper, and even she herself is difficult to make ends meet, so is Ruping really willing to face the hardships of life with him?
Although love seems beautiful on the surface, when it is truly integrated into our daily life, only the daily trivialities and trivial details are left.
In the finale of "Deep Love and Rain", there is a subtlety, that is, in the final shot, all the characters are swept by the camera, but Du Fei and Ruping do not appear.
Carefully calculated, Du Fei and Ruping should have been married for four years at that time.
It would be a perfect happy ending. If Du Fei and Ruping had really lived happily, they should have such an ending, but unfortunately, this did not materialize, but inspired us to endless reverie.
In Qiong Yao's classic "Misty and Rainy", Ruping and Du Fei did not really come together, Ruping fell into a predicament, Du Fei was deeply saddened and decided to adopt her beloved pet dog.
Although this ending seems too bleak, it also seems more appropriate. In fact, there is not much change and progress in this world, and it is completely understandable that Ruping chose a dead end.
Back at that time, Shuhuan decided to cancel the engagement, and she was ridiculed at school, so she had to choose to drop out.
At the same time, she discovers that Aunt Xue has betrayed Lu Zhenhua, and the younger brother she has loved for many years is not her biological son. When her father imprisoned her mother, Ruping broke into the house with a wolf in order to rescue Aunt Xue, and instructed the forcible theft to take all the property of the Lu family.
Subsequently, her father, who had always loved her deeply, gradually lost his trust in her. In one "blow" after another, her mind began to crumble. For Ruping, these events undoubtedly constituted the collapse of the whole world.
Still, TV series add color to life. Ruping joined the medical team on the front line and was redeemed and grown in the process. Later, she met Du Fei again, and their relationship was developing in a good direction.
Ruping and Du Fei's wedding, in that sad environment, showed a warm and romantic atmosphere.
It's a pity that the beauty of the TV series can't hide the ruthlessness of reality.
A humble person who has lost his sense of self, a person who is too selfish, cannot weave a fairy tale of love.