A baby has a good Xi that will be of great use to him throughout his life. Many Xi habits are formed in childhood, so we parents understand the importance of cultivating good Xi habits. However, as new parents, we also have no experience in educating babies, and often do not know the essentials in actual implementation, and do not know how to help babies develop good Xi. Let's take a look at it together.
Many of our generation are only children, and when they have a baby, they are often faced with the situation of four elders above and a baby below. There will be miscellaneous chores in life, plus you will be busy with your career at work, so you may not invest too much energy in your baby's education.
But even if we are busy, we must pay attention to cultivating good Xi habits for our babies. Japanese educator Yukichi Fukuzawa once said:
The family is the school of Xi, and parents are the teachers of Xi.90% of the baby's Xi habits are formed in the family, and the early stage of Xi development is inseparable from the reminder, supervision and guidance of our parents. If we don't pay enough attention to ourselves, we can't just count on ta's self-consciousness and Xi cultivation.
If we create a good environment for them, it will have a great impact on the development of their Xi habits. For example, babies don't like to tidy up and litter at home, we can clean the house very clean, so that they feel embarrassed to destroy such a clean and tidy environment when throwing things. For example, my son likes to watch TV, so I will distract him by accompanying him in various outdoor and indoor games to take him away from the TV and change his environment.
If we want to break our baby's bad Xi habits, create an environment for them to increase the friction of the Xi habits;If we want to develop good Xi habits, we can make it easier to implement them by Xi creating them in the environment.
Xi cultivation is a very abstract and very general concept, and we need to translate this concept into concrete, clear and actionable content, so that it is easier for the baby to better understand and put it into practice.
For example, to develop good Xi, we can ask ta:；Put the used items back in their place;Eat three meals a day on time;Bedtime is mandatory before 10 p.m. every night；Put the used items back in their place;Eat three meals a day on time;Bedtime is mandatory before 10 p.m. every nightWait a minute.
To develop good XiXi learning habits, we can ask for ta:When you get home from school, do your homework before playingBefore writing homework, Xi what you have learned that day, and when you are done, Xi what you will learn tomorrowWait.
These requirements need to be adjusted according to the baby's age and the actual situation of the family, such as in the exercise Xi, the time of exercise can be morning and evening, and the project can be any sport that the child likes.
When we help babies develop good Xi habits, the ultimate goal is to develop good Xi habits on their own, so the baby's cooperation is very important. If we communicate with your baby in a language that is more acceptable to him/her, it will make him more cooperative with you.
Usually we can teach our babies to learn more small limerick poems (nursery rhymes) that cultivate good Xi habits, so that they can receive good Xi education in a subtle way. Then ask him what to do when he executes the corresponding action, and he will casually read out the content of the limerick poem, and then press it and do it.
For example, if we want them to brush their own teeth, we can teach them:Hold the toothbrush in your hand, brush it up and down, left and right, and time it for two minutes, and the moth will be defeated!
For example, if we want them to wear their own socks, we can teach them:The socks open their mouths, their thumbs go in, and their little feet rush in
We need to be patient when children are doing things on their own. We can't just because the child is not good enough at the beginning, we can't talk to him or directly help him do well, which will not only hit the baby's confidence, but also will not be good for cultivating good Xi.
My son has been learning how to wear ** recently, and he has learned how to unbutton his shirt in the past two days. Whenever I see him unbuttoning with both hands, I want to help him undo it. Today, when I was washing up with him and preparing for him to sleep, I had to change out of my shirt and put on pajamas as usual. Seeing him unbutton slowly, I couldn't help but help him. As soon as my hand touched his clothes, he slapped it away.
I immediately realized that I couldn't help him directly, which would cause him to lose the opportunity to exercise, but withdrawing my hand would confirm the fact that I wanted to help him this time, so I had an idea, and I said, "I'll help you take out the part that is tucked in, so that you can unbutton." He helped him pull out his shirt tucked into his pants.
Write at the endThere is no crash course in the cultivation of good Xi, and we can only have an effect if we let the baby stick to it for a long time. I hope our babies can develop excellent Xi and live up to every day!
I am an accountant who can plan and do **, and I am also a father who accompanies my children to grow up. If you also like to grow up with your children and achieve each other. Then let me accompany your children through spring, summer, autumn and winter, and taste the ups and downs.Finally, thank you for your affirmation of the three links, I will create better works to accompany you.