Now there are fewer and fewer people getting married, mainly because there are fewer girls, and there are more monks and less porridge, some people say that it is the sequelae of family planning in the past.
The reasons that prevent boys from marrying now are varied, howeverIn the final analysis, the bride price is high, which has become a stepping stone on the road to marital happiness today.
How high the bride price is in China is said in different provinces and citiesAt present, the relatively high provinces and cities in the country include Hubei, Fujian, Jiangxi, Anhui, Shanghai and other provinces and cities.
The lowest are in Guangdong, Guangxi, Hainan, Chongqing and other provinces and municipalities.
The bride price in some places has reached more than 600,000 yuan, or even higher, and the bride price in Guangdong is relatively low, usually about 38,888 yuan, but in recent years, it has also risen, to 88,888 yuan.
Parents receive bride price, different places, there are different practices.
Some people give all their daughters private money to start a business or improve their small family life.
In some places, people do not use it for their parents to support their parents, except for their daughters' wedding banquets, and their parents almost have no money left over to buy dowries for their daughters, which are the practices of people in Guangdong and Guangxi.
Some netizens said that the bride price should be received, but it can't be too particular, the requirements are too high, and the children's marriage will be sour.
The problem is that the bride price should be given to the parents for the elderly, such a statement is more practical, the woman's parents ask for the bride price is no problem, but the requirements are too high, and the bride price is given to their daughter, made private money, and forced the man's parents to dry, which is also embarrassing.
The man's parents have to take out hundreds of thousands of yuan as a bride price, buy a wedding house, buy a car, hold a wedding, and even borrow money to hold a marriage for their son, which is really too burdensome.
After their son got married, many parents went out to work to pay off their debts and move stones at the construction site
These are the parents who have come over, and they understand.
squeezed out his in-laws and took out the bride price, not for the woman's parents to support the elderly, but for her daughter to use for private money after she got married, which is really a bit unreasonable.
The biggest controversy is that the bride price should be collected, and the key is who the bride price is received.
Where the bride price is high, the bride price is given to the parents, and then it is given to their daughters, and people in some places receive 100,000 bride price from the man's parents, and the woman's parents have to take out 100,000 yuan to their daughters, some people say that this practice is not worth promoting.
Young people's happiness should be created by themselves, rather than relying on their parents to make a fortune, only self-made people, husband and wife to create wealth together, will cherish their own happy life.
How to solve such a problem?I know that netizens said:
The bride price is for the woman's parents, and this concept should be understood!
It is a kind of respect and gratitude from the man to the woman's parents, thanks for the grace of nurturing, but in modern society, most of the woman's parents give their daughters as their daughter's private property!
The bride price is indeed a traditional Xi, usually given by the man to the woman's family as a sign of respect and gratitude to the woman's parents.
In some traditional marriage cultures, the bride price is seen as a form of compensation for the woman's family to compensate for the financial burden caused by the dowry.
In modern society, the concept of bride price has changed.
Many of the woman's parents, after receiving the bride price, will keep it as their daughter's private property, or use it for their daughter's wedding or for the newlyweds' family building.
This change may be due to changes in the economic and family structure of modern society.
However, regardless of the purpose of the bride price, the bride price given by the man is a way of showing respect and gratitude, as well as a form of respect and recognition for the woman's family.
What do you think?Everyone is welcome to comment!