In a complex society, there are many ways for people to get along with each other. However, no matter how we interact with others, we must keep in mind one thing: to be a human being, we must have these three kinds of "anti-others"!Don't let being too innocent and honest hurt you
The first type of "anti-others" is to beware of the malice of others. In this world, some people may become hostile to you because of jealousy, malice, or other bad motives. They may deliberately spread rumors, slander you, or even take more extreme actions. Therefore, it is very important to stay vigilant and identify and beware of these malicious intentions.
The second type of "anti-others" is to guard against the use of others. In real life, some people may take advantage of your simplicity and honesty to their own advantage. They may cheat on your feelings, defraud you of your belongings, or use your reputation for their own ends. Therefore, you must always be sober and not trust others easily to avoid being taken advantage of.
The third type of "anti-others" is to beware of the perfunctory behavior of others. In interpersonal interactions, some people may be perfunctory to you, outwardly enthusiastic about you, but in fact they don't care about your feelings and needs. They may say sweet things to confuse you, but they don't actually really help you. Therefore, you need to stay sane and not be fooled by superficial enthusiasm, but focus on the actual actions of others.
To be a man, we must have these three kinds of "anti-people"!Don't let yourself be hurt by trusting others easily because you are too simple and honest. At the same time, we must also maintain a kind heart and use our sincerity to make friends who are trustworthy. In this complex society, it is very important to protect yourself.
If you want to learn Xi and master more, the following two books are recommended to you, namely "Being a Man Can't Be Too Honest" and "Being a Man Must Be Scheming, and Doing Things Must Be Skillful".
You Can't Be Too Honest" can help us recognize that being too honest and honest can make us seem too innocent and naïve in certain situations. This book shows us how to better protect ourselves from being too honest in a simple way. At the same time, the book also emphasizes that we should maintain the qualities of sincerity and kindness, but at the same time learn to adopt some flexible strategies to deal with life when necessary.
Be a man with scheming, do things with skill" This book is more in-depth on how to navigate complex interpersonal relationships. This book teaches us how to use our scheming and skill to deal with complex situations so that we can better control our own destiny. By reading this book, we can better understand the weaknesses of human nature and master more interpersonal skills, so that we can be more comfortable in the workplace and in life.
Both of these books are excellent reads that not only help us better cope with various challenges in life but also improve our emotional intelligence and intelligence. If you haven't read these two books yet, I highly recommend buying them and reading them. You will benefit from it.