If you are too economical, you may not be able to open source. Wu QinThe mother-in-law's house is a typical example. Their family saved to the extreme, and almost all of their consumption had to be thought over. My mother-in-law is Xi used to being reluctant to waste, and even half of the fruit that can be eaten is reluctant to throw away. WhileWu Qin's husband was also influenced by this way of thinking, and he was Xi used to saving money, and was never willing to spend it on studying Xi or improving his abilities. This way of thinking that only knows how to throttle and does not know how to open source dooms their family to be unable to create wealth and have been living in povertylife
Wu QinAfter observing the behavior of my mother-in-law and husband, I became aware of this problem. She understands that it is impossible to become rich by relying on throttling alone, and if she wants to change her fate, she needs to pay more attention to open source. The era of "paying for knowledge" has arrived, and her husband is indifferent to investing in Xi learning. Wu QinRealize that only by constantly enriching yourself can you accumulate more knowledge and skills, so as to have more opportunities and competitiveness in the workplace. Therefore, she decided to change her husband's mindset and make him understand that only open source can lead to more opportunities for success and wealth.
Wu Qin's mother-in-law is not only demanding of herself because of excessive saving, rightWu Qinand the children's food, clothing, housing and transportation are also meticulous. She often gets because ofWu QinBuying new clothes for the child and accusing her of not knowing how to be thrifty, thinking that the child grows up fast and wearing other people's clothes is enough. Even during the confinement period, she didn't give any meat at allWu Qin, just for herPotatoesCabbage。This excessive saving is not only because of her poverty, but also because of her petty mentality.
The mother-in-law's stinginess not only affected herself, but also infectedWu Qinof husbands. The degree of stinginess of the husband was well known in the unit, and even in their conversationIn lovetime,Wu QinAlmost gave up the relationship because of his stinginess. But in the end,Wu QinSeeing some of the sparkles in him, I decided to give him a chance. Available on a daily basislifeMedium,Wu QinI often feel that my husband's stinginess is a drag, and his stinginess dooms him to only achieve small things, but not big things.
Through this example,Wu QinI deeply realize that a person's stinginess will become a stumbling block to his development. Only by being generous to yourself and others can you establish good interpersonal relationships with others and gain more opportunities and resources. Therefore,Wu QinDecided to try to change her husband's stingy mentality and make him understand that only generosity is possiblelifein order to have a broader space for development.
Not being satisfied with the status quo is a mindset that everyone should have. If a person does not have a dream, then he loses the motivation to pursue progress and growth. Wu QinRealizing the importance of not being satisfied with the status quo, she hopes that she and her family can grow and improve.
Wu QinUnderstand that being content with the status quo will only make people gradually lose their yearning and pursuit for the future. Only by having a dream and working hard for it can we achieve personal growth and progress. In this process, even if you can't get what you want, you will gain more experience and experience, and make yourself more capable and valuable.
Therefore,Wu QinI hope everyone understands the importance of throttling and open source. Although saving is an important onelifeattitude, but saving alone is not enough to create wealth and pursue dreams. Only by knowing how to open source can we continue to create opportunities and wealth and realize our dreams.
May we all understand these two points, not be satisfied with the status quo, and at the same time pursue our dreams, we know how to throttle and open source, arm ourselves with knowledge and ability, and realize ourselvesLife purpose。Both financially and spiritually, to be able to live a more prosperous and meaningful lifelife