Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
Author: Drunk Hongchen
I've read a passage: People with similar souls naturally gather together, and people with different magnetic fields are talking over mountains and mountains. Look at the clothes from afar, look at the appearance up close, look at the character for a long time, and the people who can walk together are more important than the scenery. In this era of love and mutual temptation, I hope everyone's last hole card is sincerity.
Man may not know man, but the soul knows the soul. Therefore, attraction and mutual choice between people is very important. Similar souls will naturally attract each other, while different magnetic fields can make communication difficult. External clothing and appearance can attract attention, but in the long run, character is the key to building a real relationship.
In these uncertain and uncertain times, people tend to test and reserve each other, but sincerity is the foundation of a strong relationship. Although we may not be able to fully understand the hearts of others, souls can perceive and recognize each other.
This passage reminds us that when choosing a partner, friend, or partner, focus on inner qualities and similar values, rather than being attracted to external factors alone. At the same time, be sincere and candid so that you can build a truly deep and meaningful relationship.
People generally believe that "the three views do not coincide, do not conspire with each other", and the author also thinks so. If two people don't have the same values, worldview, and outlook on life, then it's hard for them to be friends or partners.
It's also a reminder to focus on the other person's inner qualities and similar values when choosing a friend, partner, or partner so that a truly deep and meaningful relationship can be built. If there is a big difference between two people's three views, then they may have great differences in thinking, behavior, and lifestyle, and it is difficult for them to understand and support each other.
Therefore, in interpersonal communication, we should respect the three views and choices of others, and at the same time maintain our own independent thinking and values. If we find that we don't agree with someone's three views, we can choose to keep our distance and avoid unnecessary contradictions and conflicts.
Appreciating a person often begins with appearance, respect for talent, character, kindness, and finally character. That is to say, the interaction between people and people is "starting from appearance and being loyal to character", which also shows the importance of external image and internal quality in interpersonal relationships.
"Beginning with good looks" means that the initial attraction often comes from a person's appearance or appearance. People are usually attracted to appearances, which is an innate aesthetic tendency of human beings. A person's appearance, demeanor, dress, etc., can be attractive to others.
However, "Finally Character" emphasizes the importance of inner qualities. Although physical appearance can arouse initial interest, it is a person's character that ultimately determines whether a relationship will be able to sustain and develop deeply. This includes values and moral qualities such as honesty, kindness, tolerance, responsibility, compassion, etc. Inner qualities are the key to building a long-term stable relationship because they reflect a person's true character and way of behaving in the world.
Therefore, it is also a reminder that physical appearance, while important, should not be the only criterion for judging a person. As we relate to others, we should gradually learn about their inner qualities and build on those qualities to build truly meaningful relationships.
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