Although Yue Lao will weave a silkworm net for two people, if fate is not enough, they will also toss like a fish dying and the net is broken. And once fate comes, there will be a thread of marriage. Marriage is as magical as a monster.
If a person is called "Wu Sancai", it refers to his lack of talent, knowledge, and wealth, and it is not surprising that he is single. However, what if a person has both ability and political integrity, is rich in learning, and has a lot of money but is still single?
Take Dai Jun as an example, in terms of talent, he is a sunny and handsome Shanghai man with a height of 1.83 meters;In terms of wealth, he is an angel investor who owns several entities such as Lian Coffee.
In terms of talent, Dai Jun can be described as talented, he opened people's horizons with a song "Ah Lian", and then released five personal **, which is quite well-known in the Chinese music scene.
Dai Jun not only starred in the drama "Astringent Girl" and the web series "Crazy Office", but also participated in more than a dozen movies and TV series, such as "Protein Girl", "Give Me a Cigarette" and "Talented Girl".
Dai Jun is good at hosting, and after he and Li Jing hosted "Super Interview" and became popular, they have hosted nearly 30 programs one after another.
This diamond king Lao Wu has actually hosted emotional programs such as "Emotional Dragon Gate Array", "Emotional Equation", and "Marriage Defense Battle", which is really interesting.
When you ** "Guess the Heart of a Woman", "100% of Women" and other women-related programs, will you believe that Dai Jun, a man who talks about his feelings on stage, is still single?
In his spare time, Dai Jun not only works but also writes, including five best-selling works, including "Men and Women with Color" and "Men and Women with Temperament", which deal with emotional themes. Of course, "Duan Wangye" is one of everyone's favorite works.
The book shows Dai Jun's own life memories in a relaxed and playful tone, while vividly depicting the funny scenes of the stars of the year.
This man is now past the age of knowing his destiny, but he is still alone. Even though the mother used to be alone, the two urged each other to marry to no avail.
In his career, Dai Jun has experienced from an unknown worker to quickly becoming popular with "Ah Lian", then falling into a trough, and then cooperating with Li Jing to make a comeback, and finally gaining fame and fortune.
However, the emotional situation is even more thought-provoking, after breaking up with the long-haired girl who was in love for the first time, not only had scandals with women such as Li Jing and Huang Xiaolei, but also played ambiguous games with Mao Ning, He Jiong and others.
Dai Jun, who once tried to commit suicide with an overdose of sleeping pills, was later kidnapped by gangsters, today let's take a closer look at this fan-like Dai Jun.
Dai Jun's father was a steel factory worker. Some matchmakers thought that this young man who came to Shanghai to work was diligent and down-to-earth, and could endure hardships, so they introduced him to the job opportunity of a primary school physical education teacher.
Although the female teacher's ancestors were well-off, after the founding of New China, her only way out was to marry working people.
At that time, it was in the era of the arranged marriage of the parents, and under the arrangement of the parents, Dai's father successfully grafted to the female teacher's family.
The female teacher actually had some contempt for her husband, who worked in steelmaking, so she made a strong rule: the first child should take his mother's surname, and the second child should take his father's surname.
Soon after, Mother Dai became pregnant with their first child, but had a fall during her pregnancy. The child was born after only seven months in the mother's womb and was not in good health.
In 1970, Dai's mother welcomed her second child, that is, Dai Jun. However, when he was a child, Dai Jun always couldn't understand why the elder brother surnamed Zhong was always more favored by his mother than himself.
Even in families like Dai Jun, who had parents to earn money, Chinese families in that era were relatively poor.
The winter in Shanghai is very windy and very cold, but luckily, Dai's factory is ready to distribute a large number of labor protection gloves. The smart and capable Dai Ma took the gloves apart and used them to knit sweaters for the whole family.
As the daughter of a once wealthy family, she naturally complains about the current poor life, and she often mentions divorce in front of her children.
Dai's father knew that he could not bring a better future for the family, and while acquiescing to Dai's mother's complaints, he worked hard and did his best to make the family life better.
In 1987, both brothers were admitted to the school, which was originally a good thing for double happiness. However, there were unforeseen circumstances, and Dai's father, who had become ill from hard work, died of a sudden cerebral hemorrhage this year.
Dai Jun's grandfather also suffered misfortune, at this time the teacher only had a salary of twenty or thirty yuan a month, and Dai's mother's family was also the object of exclusion at that time.
Dai's mother looked at the admission letters of her two sons and knew that she could not support her two children at the same time, so she finally made a difficult choice.
In the difficult situation at that time, the eldest son continued to study because of his weak health, while the younger son went out to work to support the family because he was strong, which was actually a helpless choice.
However, the young Dai Jun did not realize this. He was already a little shorter than his brother at home. He couldn't help but feel sad when he recalled the "unfair" treatment he had received.
Dai Jun felt very aggrieved, and for a while, he was uneasy, and made an extreme move, frantically swallowing sleeping pills, he wanted to end everything in this way.
Fortunately, Dai's mother discovered the situation in time and sent Dai Jun to the hospital for rescue. When Dai Jun was out of the brink of life and death, Dai's mother, who was guarding his bed, was already in tears.
Dai Jun seemed to understand something at this time, and when he saw his mother's rapidly emaciated and swollen eyes, he realized that his mother had to make such a choice out of love for him.
Every mother longs for a bright future for her child, but the reality is often cruel and unforgiving, and the pressure to survive forces people to make difficult choices. After all, the palms and backs of the hands are meat.
For the sake of his family's livelihood, Dai Jun chose to join a folk art troupe to earn income, and at the same time, he was also deeply hiding his past grievances and sorrows.
Dai Jun originally hoped to sing in the troupe to make money, but since he had no performance experience, the boss did not allow him to sing, and instead arranged for him to do some tiring work as a porter.
The limited amount of hard work made Dai Jun decide to give up his job and go to Shenzhen in search of a new outlet. At this time, Shenzhen had already become China's first special economic zone seven years ago, providing more opportunities.
After arriving in China's Silicon Valley, Dai Jun realized that it would not be easy to gain a foothold without a skill. Fortunately, he has the strength to be favored by the owner of Dolphin Land.
The boss assigned him to be in charge of the two dolphins, Ding Ding and Dang Dong, and asked him not only to train and perform, but also to change the water in the dolphin pond every day.
Performing and training dolphins is a great job, but the need to change the water in the dolphin pond every day can be a bit frustrating. Six tons of salt are dumped into the dolphin pond every day, and one bag of salt weighs 200 pounds
Despite the hard work, Dai Jun still likes and cherishes the job because it pays well and makes him very happy to be with dolphins.
In 1989, when Dai Jun took these two little babies to perform in Beijing, fate was like a madman who played tricks on people, and he would not fulfill you because you cherished and liked it, but the two things actually died.
The owner of the park was devastated by the death of two dolphins, and Dai Jun lost his job as a result, so he returned to Shenzhen and found work in a printing factory.
Although the work on this assembly line is like a robot, he needs to work nervously for more than ten hours a day, but in order to survive, he still has to send money home, and Dai Jun can only deal with it.
In his spare time, Dai Jun is constantly looking for part-time jobs, and at the same time, he is constantly exploring how to get rich. As the saying goes, "hard work pays off", he finally seized an opportunity.
In 1990, the factory held a lyric contest with the aim of enriching the entertainment life of employees. Dai Jun almost forgot to sing due to his heavy daily work, so he participated in this competition.
Dai Jun relied on his great talent, and as soon as he appeared on the stage, he attracted the whole factory with his beautiful singing voice, and finally won the championship.
When a group of brothers and sisters were celebrating with Dai Jun, someone suddenly noticed something and said to him, "You want to make money, right?"You can make a lot of money singing in ***. ”
Isn't this song my specialty?How did you forget it?Dai Jun immediately took action, and the next day he found a *** part-time singing opportunity. Sure enough, a word woke up the person in the dream!
For Dai Jun, although Shenzhen is not a city with a strong entertainment atmosphere, and the business of ** is not very prosperous, as long as he can increase his income, he feels very satisfied.
Dai Jun, who sings in this *** station, is actually not to be underestimated, and many future big stars have emerged here.
Dai Rao made her debut in 1993 after winning the Emperor Financial Cup Award, and she defeated other contestants with the song "Understand You" and won the crown of CCTV Young Singer's Popular Singing, and Man Wenjun is no exception.
At weddings, Liu Jie, the singer of the cheerful "Happy Bride", and Zhou Xun, who later became the actress, are often heard.
Zhou Xun experienced the ups and downs of life here, especially because she refused to accompany the wine and knocked out her front teeth, but she still sang strong the next day, showing her strength.
However, Zhou Xun also experienced a turning point in his life here, was taken away by Chen Kaige, and then starred in "Dancing Girl" and became famous in one fell swoop.
Zhou Xun was discovered by Chen Kaige, while Man Wenjun and Liu Jie returned to Beijing ahead of schedule due to their dismal business. Dai Jun, who had little hope, later went to Beijing as well.
In 1993, after Dai Jun came to Beijing, he still worked during the day and sang part-time at night. In that year, he also won the championship of the popular group of the National Song Rookie Invitational Competition, which can be said to have achieved some achievements.
The streets and alleys are singing Han Lei's "Walking in All Directions", Li Chunbo's "Xiaofang" and Chen Lin's "I Will Never Understand Your Tenderness", which has become a popular ** of the year.
Jiang Hanrong smelled the business opportunities that were about to explode in the mainland music scene, so in 1994, he gathered several songwriters and curators to piece together a large collection of art.
Although the company has a large number of talents, it is difficult to hire high-paid talents due to lack of funds, and can only look for potential stocks in various entertainment venues.
Dai Jun was an often pivotal person and made many friends, including He Jiong, who was only a college student at the time, when scandals broke out.
Dai Jun's friend told him that Tibetan Art was recruiting singers. So, he went to the interview, and the people in the company thought he was okay, and the price was not high.
In 1995, after a year of polishing, Dazang launched Dai Jun** "Ah Lian Bride", which unexpectedly achieved huge sales, and Dai Jun became famous in one fell swoop.
Dai Jun attracted the attention of several thugs because of his popularity, and they eventually kidnapped him. However, this does not count as kidnapping, because the men did not have the intention of robbing money or physically assaulting others, but had bad motives.
In order not to be beaten, Dai Jun had to be forced to repeat "Ah Lian" 50 times. However, when he sings the same song repeatedly, the people upstairs get bored of listening to it and end up dropping an axe.
The speaker was split in half with a loud bang, whether they were frightened or tired of it, these little gangsters told Dai Jun to get out.
In 1997, after the great success of "Into Qinghai-Tibet", Tibetan Art continued to release Dai Jun's second album "Confidant, Concern", which was also warmly acclaimed.
What is surprising is that this ** did not cause any repercussions, which made Dazang Art feel a little caught off guard, but I didn't expect Dai Jun's influence to be so short.
In 1998, Tibetan Art focused on the development of training young marshal Jiang Xiaohan and female singer Li Na, and terminated the contract with Dai Jun.
After Dai Jun left Tibetan Art, he joined Xiyangyang Records. Surprisingly, however, Dai Jun was not happy with the company, and he did not write any songs, which led to his departure.
In 1999, Dai Jun terminated his contract with Xiyangyang Records, and at the same time, Li Jing also left CCTV. Unlike Dai Jun, who became a jobless vagrant, Li Jing chose to start a business and had plenty of money, so she started her own company.
This talented woman from Hebei founded a company called Oriental Fengxing Media Culture***, and immediately launched talent recruitment and resource integration after the first launch of the "Chicken Catches Eagle" program.
Li Jing examined the people she knew and found that Dai Jun was not only suitable to co-host the show with her, but also that his interpersonal relationships were quite extensive, which was very beneficial to this celebrity talk show.
Dai Jun began his hosting career in this way, crossing over from a singer. The two are full of tacit understanding in the show, golden sentences come out frequently, and the laughter is overwhelming.
Super Interview" later became very high-end, and after it was broadcast, it was widely acclaimed, and it has always maintained the leading position in the ratings of talk shows.
The casual generosity of the two is shown in public, and their intimate behavior with each other has sparked an affair about them, which has spread widely.
What Dai Jun said in an interview with reporters has a clear context for this scandal, which makes people believe it even more true.
When the reporter asked Dai Jun whether he would choose a woman like Li Jing as his wife, he actually replied: "Li Jing is the type I love, and it's not bad to be a husband and wife." ”
Dai Jun may be joking, or deliberately creating a hot topic, in short, the good deeds seized his topic, so they spread one after another: "Even Dai Jun himself admitted it, what else can be doubted." ”
It is not surprising that fans speculate, after all, Dai Jun is also about to turn forty, and of course they feel anxious when they see that their idol is still single!
As far as Dai Jun's romance is concerned, there has been controversy, with most people believing that he is interested in both men and women. We can take a closer look at this issue and see if this is the case.
During Dai Jun's youthful frivolity, he experienced a first love. According to his recollection, at that time he befriended a female fan, whom he nicknamed Rapunzel.
The girl went to Dai Jun's performance venue every day to support him until he got off work. The two of them resonated with the two migrant workers, and eventually fell in love.
After Dai Jun's situation in Shenzhen became difficult, he considered moving to Beijing to develop, but he was hesitant. However, the girl gave him peace of mind and promised to wait for him in Shenzhen.
After arriving in Beijing, Dai Jun encountered a series of difficulties and was unable to even pay for a round-trip ticket to Shenzhen.
Dai Jun didn't want to delay his sweetheart's youth, so he proposed to the girl to break up, and he couldn't see the future. Perhaps, if Dai Jun endures a little, this love story will have a happy ending.
After breaking up with his first love, Dai Jun has always been single. Until they partnered with Li Jing, their intimate behavior was quite reminiscent, which may be called another plausible relationship of Dai Jun.
However, in 2001, Liu Jie successfully matched Li Jing and Huang Xiaomao. At that time, Huang Xiaomao had been divorced from Shi Ke for a year, but he agreed to Liu Jie's proposal.
Although Huang Xiaomao was already famous at that time, he didn't care too much because he was ten years older than Li Jing.
Li Jing took the initiative to find him, and the two confirmed their relationship, and then married in 2002. In 2003, they welcomed their lovely daughter Huang Muer, and Dai Jun was completely in a situation where there was no way out.
In 2007, there were rumors that He Jiong and Fast Man Jijie might be gay partners, and this rumor also led Dai Jun to stand up and publicly state, claiming that Dai Jun and He Jiong had been in love for ten years.
Dai Jun must sign in when He Jiong goes to Hunan Satellite TV, and Dai Jun will definitely check in when He Jiong engages in activities, which is one of the evidences.
Dai Jun wrote an article in which he used meaty words to describe He Jiong, calling him elf and cute, which is the second piece of evidence.
When asked about Dai Jun's relationship with He Jiong, Dai Jun either chose to remain silent or avoid the left and right. This is the third piece of evidence.
He Jiong and Xin Comrade almost didn't have a relationship after that, and they also pinched each other ambiguously on Weibo, which is considered to be the fourth evidence of the breakup.
In 2005, it was rumored that Dai Jun and Wang Jing had been in love for ten years, and Wang Jing was the CEO of "Showbiz" magazine and published several books for Dai Jun.
Later, it was rumored that Wang Jing was He Jiong's wife, which is a bit puzzling, but there is no conclusive evidence, and it may just be a rumor spread by entertainment reporters to attract attention.
Another scandal involving Dai Jun's girlfriend Wang Haizhen, but he told the outside world that he thinks Wang Haizhen is like a big sister who cares about him.
They once co-starred in "Astringent Girl", and then Wang Haizhen also filmed MTV for Dai Jun in the cold snow, and the intimate behavior between the two is remarkable.
In 2007, Huang Xiaolei and Dai Jun partnered to host "Variety Show Eighteen Street", and the relationship between the two went hand in hand with the popularity of the show, and then they took wedding photos and entered the stage of talking about marriage.
Li Jing is not like this in "Super Interview", she is actually spoofing the two dead friends, claiming that Dai Jun has finally taken off the single, and released their wedding photos.
Dai Jun took the opportunity to say that he wanted to meet his future mother-in-law, and then Huang Xiaolei and her mother appeared with the new book "Tears of the Girl's Heart Sutra", hahaha, the book seller came.
Mao Ning was arrested on suspicion of drug use, but was released due to insufficient evidence. In 2015, Dai Jun posted a Weibo post to celebrate the news.
Dai Jun said on Weibo that he gave Mao Ning an affectionate hug and vowed to love him forever. As a result, some speculate that the relationship between the two is extraordinary.
However, then netizens found that there was no conclusive evidence that these two people were really Brokeback Mountain, so ** turned cold in an instant, and the audience no longer paid attention to this matter.
Dai Jun's marriage problems have made fans and Dai's mother very concerned. As early as 1996, Dai's mother reminded him that because Dai Jun's brother was married at that time, he urged him to find a girl to marry quickly.
Dai Jun, 26 years old, took the initiative to urge his mother, Dai's mother, to find a partner again. The two agreed to work together, encourage each other, and move forward side by side on the road to find their other half.
Dai's mother soon found another partner, and the two tied the knot, but they did not get along very harmoniously after marriage, often causing quarrels over small things, and even breaking out into big quarrels from time to time, and finally they chose their own things.
In 2010, when Dai Jun entered the age of no doubt, his mother began to get anxious. She collected a large number of beauties outside, asked Dai Jun to choose, and asked him to add a grandson to herself within two years.
The women had never met the officers, and they had no affection for them, not even feelings. Therefore, there is no way to talk about love between them, and naturally there is no follow-up.
Dai Jun is very concerned about Dai's mother's marriage every day, and as soon as they met, he said: "You have worked hard for most of your life, and now you need someone to accompany you when you are old, hurry up and find someone." ”
Dai Jun also openly looked for a partner for Dai's mother, but even so, no one could care about Dai's mother as considerately as Dai's father back then, so Dai's mother's marriage was still unsettled.
Dai's mother is over the age of old, and Dai Jun has also reached the age of knowing fate. Dai's mother decided not to force her son to find a partner anymore and let him decide for himself.
Dai Jun finally had an epiphany and decided to let his mother go with the flow, because fate is such a thing, maybe one day it will come.
If the mother and son are no longer favored by fate, they are also determined to make every day more colorful. Maybe this way of life is enviable to others!
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