Introduction.
Alan Tam, a legend in the Hong Kong music scene, had countless brilliant lives, but in his later years, he was spurned by everyone and his reputation plummeted.
Let's take a look, what the hell is going on?
1. Alan Tam's life experience.
Alan Tam's family background is very advantageous, because his father is a nationally renowned football player Tan Jiangbai.
Although he was born in a sports family, he did not choose the sports industry that his father expected, but developed a strong interest in ** since childhood.
In order to let Alan Tam have a broader space for development and richer knowledge, their parents sent him to Singapore when he was in college, considering that the family conditions were good.
However, Alan Tam encountered an accident while studying abroad, and his body suddenly fell ill, and his condition deteriorated. His parents had to take him back to Hong Kong to recuperate, and his studies had to be temporarily suspended, and he could only return to Singapore to continue his studies after he was in good health.
However, the prolonged illness made him lose interest in his otherwise boring schoolwork even more, and slowly, he became more and more reluctant to return to school.
After much deliberation, he finally made up his mind to express to his parents that he did not want to study abroad again. After thinking about it for a while, his parents also respected his choice and agreed to let him stay in Hong Kong and helped him go through the withdrawal procedures.
After returning to Hong Kong, Alan Tam no longer bears the pressure of study, nor does he have the loneliness of a foreign country, so his health gradually began to improve.
As his body grew up, he began to realize that staying at home all day wasn't a long-term solution. Although his family conditions did not make him worry about making a living, he did not want to waste his time, but had to plan for his future.
So, he set out to find a career that would suit him for a living.
Out of his deep love and dedication to **, coupled with his unique talent in the field, he chose to go to the bar to do a resident singing, which became his favorite thing at the time.
During this experience, he made many friends who also loved **. After experiencing the setbacks of dropping out of school and illness, Alan Tam gradually recognized his inner world.
He knows that he still can't give up his beloved **, and he is almost not interested in anything other than things related to **, which further strengthens his determination to open up a new world through **.
He reconvened the members of the previous band and eventually formed the Winner Band, officially starting his ** career.
In the six years of development of the band, they have achieved many things, amassed a large number of fans, and gained the recognition of many people.
There was also a slight boom in his career.
During the performance of the Wenner Band, he met Yang Jiewei, a beauty consultant.
Yang Jiewei, who works in the fashion and image management industry, fell in love with Alan Tam, the lead singer of the band Winner, at first sight and is a big fan of the band. In the process of acquaintance, they quickly developed a relationship and confirmed the relationship of lovers.
During the relationship, Alan Tam considered that he was a singer and was worried that making his relationship public would hinder his career, so he decided not to make the relationship public.
Yang Jiewei and Tan started a secret romance that lasted for 7 years.
In order to support her boyfriend's career development, Yang Jiewei resolutely gave up her original job and became Alan Tam's personal assistant in the process of falling in love, and turned to support him behind the scenes.
In order to meet the needs of work, Yang Jiewei later specialized in the study of lighting, stage art and other professional knowledge.
Yang Jiewei personally handles every performance, from Tan's costume styling to dance and choreography, she does everything in detail.
She even personally designed her boyfriend's hairstyle for each appearance, making sure that every detail was arranged in an orderly manner.
She provided a lot of advice and assistance to her boyfriend from a professional perspective.
Alan Tam has such a virtuous partner, and his ** career is also thriving, receiving an endless stream of performance notices, and the fan team is getting bigger and bigger.
On this basis, the relationship between the two sides has also been further deepened.
After 7 years of long-distance love, Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei got married in Las Vegas in 1979, and at this moment, Yang Jiewei finally got her name.
Because the husband repeatedly insisted that he would not disclose the news that he was married, the wedding at that time seemed very simple. Only parents and relatives of both parties were invited to participate, and the confidentiality work was very well done.
After marriage, Alan Tam still asked Yang Jiewei to keep her identity as his wife hidden from the outside world, and at the same time, they reached an agreement and decided not to have children and choose to live in Dink after marriage.
Despite such harsh demands, Yang Jiewei still did not complain and willingly supported her husband.
2. Marriage breakdown.
However, what is the reason why such a woman who pays behind her husband's back in obscurity and is willing to suffer from the person she loves the most ends up being hurt by the person she loves the most?
During the ten years of their secret marriage, Yang Jiewei experienced 5 abortions in order to fulfill their original promise not to have children, and this series of painful experiences made her heart like a knife.
As a married woman and a wife, she longs to have a happy family of three, and she longs to have the crystallization of love that belongs to the two of them.
In order to support her husband's career and chase the dream of her other half, Yang Jiewei resolutely decided not to have children.
She underwent multiple abortions, which even caused her to lose the ability to conceive, leaving her an incomplete woman.
There is a quote in "The Great Bill Gates": "When you fall in love with someone, you have to consider whether you are willing to give up your true self for him and willingly do so for the rest of your life." ”
Maybe Yang Jiewei is so willing, she loves her husband deeply, and would rather sacrifice everything to satisfy him, she once said that it doesn't matter Dink, as long as the two love each other deeply, it is enough.
However, when Yang Jiewei later learned that her husband, who had insisted on lifelong infertileness, had given birth to a child with another woman, she almost fainted.
She never imagined that her desperate and sincere dedication would be trampled on by her husband like this.
She tried her best to protect the promise, but in the eyes of the other party, it was inconspicuous.
Ms. Yang's father died in 1993.
Yang's mother insisted that her son-in-law, Alan Tam, be included in the obituary.
Alan Tam and Yang Jiewei's secret marriage relationship was reported in major newspapers before it became public.
However, Alan Tam met Alan Chu, who was about 20 years younger than him, as early as 1991, and she was called a "confidante" by him, but she always expressed affectionately in the face of Yang Jiewei.
At a personal fan meeting held by Alan Tam, he saw the young and beautiful Alice Chu, who was only 21 years old at the time, and Alice Chu was his avid fan. As a result, the two quickly became warm.
As a result, Alice Chu began her crazy pursuit of Alan Tam, although the latter has been claiming that he is single.
Facing this youthful girl, Alan Tam no longer cares about the fact that she is married.
Not only did he fall in love with Alice Chu, but he even gave up the Dink concept he had always insisted on, and as a result, he gave birth to a child with Alice Chu.
The paparazzi photographed Alan Tam and Alan Chu often going in and out together many times around 2004, and there was always a little boy by their side, which caused a sensation.
In just a few years, he has been cheated on in marriage and has a son, which undoubtedly made Alan Tam fall into the whirlpool of **.
Despite the public criticism, he insisted that he was not motivated by selfish desires, but by obeying the wishes of his parents, and that he had to fight between the two women in order to continue the family bloodline.
However, the public did not believe his claims at all.
He was condemned by everyone, and many loyal fans also said that they wanted to unfollow, saying that they would never support this scumbag again.
Yang Jiewei, as the wife of her husband's cheating and giving birth to an illegitimate child, felt very sad at first, but then chose to remain silent.
Considering that she is unable to have children, she wants to satisfy her husband by wronging herself with a default attitude, perhaps this can also save her husband's heart.
However, despite her repeated endurance, she did not win back any of her husband's sincerity. Even when attending the event later, Alan Tam carried his "assistant" Zhu Yongting by his side.
Yang Jiewei decided not to tolerate it anymore, she was dissatisfied with everything she did.
In the early days of her marriage problems, her husband handed over all his 1 billion assets to her unconditionally, and chose to see through the red dust and become a nun.
Alan Tam said angrily: "There are no nuns at home!."He said it after the news was ***.
However, the public still knows that the only difference is whether or not to shave their hair.
3. Alan Tam's children.
Alan Tam's son Tan Xiaofeng is 26 years old.
He graduated from Oxford University and inherited his father's excellent genes, which are not inferior in terms of appearance or talent.
He did not enter the entertainment industry like his father, but chose to become an engineer and work in large companies abroad, and his career gradually improved.
In an interview, Alan Tam said that his son is very good, has an independent mind, and he will not interfere too much in his children's lives.
All in all. The 73-year-old ** legend Alan Tam, who was once peerless, has created many eternal classics and left a rich ** legacy.
In his later years, he was criticized and spitted by netizens, and it was really not worth it to think about.
In his later years, he was exchanged for accusations and spittle from netizens, which is really not worth it when you think about it.
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In any case, we wish Principal Tan and his family happiness always.
I hope that Yang Jiewei can find peace in her inner pain in the future and live a truly happy life.