In 1985, our army was transferred to a central enterprise, and most of our colleagues after the transfer were from us at that timeComrades-in-arms。In this great wave of reform, I was with oneComrades-in-armsThe relationship is even deeper. His surname is Joe, and everyone calls him Little Joe. Compared with those who are good at words, Xiao Qiao is a person who is not very good at expression, but he always treats every colleague with a smile on his face, works hard, and is rigorous and meticulous. His dedication has not only been recognized by his leaders, but also won the respect of his colleagues.
In 1983, during the reform of the army, I spent 15 yuan to buy a brand new one in the logistics warehouse of the armyArmy coats, because in the winter of the Northeast, such a pieceArmy coatsIt is very important and precious. At that time, these price jobsArmy coatsThe number is very limited, a lotComrades-in-armsThey all look forward to it. However, it was in 1985Chinese New YearAs we were approaching, one evening, Little Joe invited me for a drink and made a request to me. It turned out that Little Joe was planning to go back to his hometown to visit his relatives in three days, and he wanted me to take my oneArmy coatsLend him clothes to wear. At that time, considering my plans to return to Yunnan, I decided to agree to his request without hesitation. Three days later, Little Joe put on mineArmy coatsI went back to Beijing to visit my family, and I didn't go back to Yunnan until a week later.
After a period of transition,Ruralalso began to have new job opportunities, so Xiao Qiao was transferred back to his hometown and worked in a county-run enterprise. However, time flies, and people are unsuccessful. According to thatComrades-in-armsTell me that Xiao Qiao's county-run business closed down soon after, and he could only use the money from buying out his seniorityRuralHelp my wife plantGreenhouse vegetablesto make ends meet. Living a difficult but largely stable life, Joe's daughter also graduated successfully and took up a teaching position at a local elementary school.
However, a year later, a chance encounter made me doubt Little Joe's request and my generosity. In oneComrades-in-armsDaughter'sWeddings, I met a fellow of Little Joe'sComrades-in-armsWe talked about Joe's current situation. According to him, when Xiao Qiao was transferred back to his hometown, his wife had written to the unit asking for relief. However, he didn't know if it really happened at Xiao Qiao's houseFire。This raises a lot of questions in my mind. of that eraCoatsIt's precious to me, and although it only cost me half a month's salary, the market ** is at least twenty yuan. Little Joe, on the other hand, received a donation from the sum of his salary for nearly three years, which solved a lot of problems for him.
I began to think that back then, Little Joe invited me to drink and borrowCoatsWhether the motive is really pure. Could it all be just an elaborate fraud?I never thought that a seemingly honest and kind person would have so many scheming hidden in his heart. But I still hope that the fire in Little Joe's house is real, and that the positive image I have always had of him will be perpetuated in my heart. If the fire in Xiao Qiao's house is just a lie, then I can only say, Xiao Qiao, you are really ruthless!
This experience reminded me of another question worth pondering. In our lives, we are always willing to trust the kindness of othersHumanitySee it as wonderful. However, the facts often ring alarm bells and make us realizeHumanityHow complicated and incomprehensible it is. Sometimes, we are deceived by the superficial kindness of others, but the true thoughts of our hearts cannot be perceived.
But how do we deal with such a situation?Should we be suspicious of the true motives of others?I believe that trust and sincerity are what we do, whether we treat others or ourselvesSocialize with peopleThe most important building blocks in . When we choose to trust others, we should also have a forgiving heart and give them the opportunity to mend their ways and make amends.
Looking back, although it was from that eraCoatsIt's a long way from us, but this incident has left a deep mark on my heart. It taught me how to understand and seeHumanityIt also made me deeply understand the importance of sincerity and trust. The loss of contact with Little Joe kept me from knowing his true motives, but it also taught me to stop believing what is on the surface and to find what is true inside. Perhaps it was because of this experience that I learned how to get along with peopleSocialize with peopleto maintain a peaceful and tolerant heart.
HumanityThe complexity of the mind makes it difficult for us to fully understand one's heart. In those days, there were many doubts and doubts between my help to Little Joe and his request. However, I chose to believe in his goodness and chose to believeHumanityof the good. The experience can be a puzzle, a puzzle that will never be answered. But at the same time, it was also an important lesson in how to genuinely trust and tolerate others.
HumanityBoth good and evil exist in our hearts, and we should have a tolerant and sincere heart for past experiences. Only then can we be thereSocialize with peopleto build real trust andFriendship。Although this experience made me rightHumanityThere are doubts, but I still believe that sincerity and tolerance areHumanityPart of the bright side.
Perhaps I will never know Little Joe's true motives, but this story has become an important chapter in my mind. It reminds me, no matter whatHumanityThe dialectical ending of good and evil.
Although the story is contradictory in Little Joe's behavior, the final ending leaves us room for reflection and reflection. Regardless of whether Little Joe's motives at the time were real or false, we should be rational about what this story conveysHumanityThe question of good and evil. InRelationshipsWe can't just use other people's faces as the only criterion for judging their intrinsic motivations, nor can we be too hasty with other people's requests and help.
Although Xiao Qiao is suspected of scheming and deception to a certain extent, at the same time, he also shows a conscientious and responsible work and kindness to others. His actions may have been motivated by a need to save himself from his predicament, which was in the days and ageSocialThe background is not unusual. This also makes us realize,HumanityGood and evil are intertwined, and it is impossible to judge a person's heart simply by its superficial image.
The lesson of this story is that we should be tolerant and sincere in our dealings with others, while also being rational and vigilant. HumanityGood and evil are complex, and they may exist in a person's heart at the same time. We cannot completely erase a person's good intentions and virtues because of their wrongdoing, nor can we ignore the purposes and schemes that a person may be hiding because of their apparent kindness.
InSocialize with peopleWe should learn to examine and uphold our own values, while also giving others the opportunity to make amends and undo their mistakes. We must uphold a kind and tolerant heart, and believe in the power of sincerity and kindness. HumanityThe complexity of the mind does not mean that we should be suspicious and wary of others, but rather that we should face them with reason and peace, and give them the opportunity to correct and grow.
HumanityThe question of good and evil is a complex and multifaceted one, and everyone has their own views and opinions. This story tells usHumanityThe good and the evil are intertwined, and a person cannot simply be measured in terms of good or evil. We can't judge a person's heart by their superficial behavior alone, but consider their behavior, behavior, mentality, and motivation.
In our dealings with others, we should remain rational and vigilant, not blindly believing in the appearance of others, but also not too suspicious and repulsive of others. Be sincere and kind to others and give them the opportunity to show their good side. At the same time, we must also learn to protect ourselves from being deceived and hurt by others.
HumanityThe question of good versus evil is an eternal topic and there are no easy answers. Everyone has their own debate about good and evil, and this story gives us a piece of the storyHumanityspace for thinking. In the face of this complex and ever-changing world, we must treat others with tolerance and sincerity, and at the same time, we must remain rational and vigilant to avoid being hurt by the deception and harm of others. In this way, we can build real trust andFriendshipLet the power of goodness and integrity be thereRelationships.