Did you know that marriage is like a long highway with scenery and potholes along the way. It was on this road that I came across a small episode. I am Li Xiao, with a four-year-old son, Niu Niu, and my husband Wang Jiahe, who works overtime all year round. My son was raised by my mother-in-law, and my husband and I were busy with work.
Recently, my husband jumped ship and went to the provincial capital, and at first he was full of confidence that he could take better care of us. And I, a little worried in my heart, after all, it wasn't me who changed jobs in the city. But I also support him, after all, the salary is really better over there. We met on a blind date, he went to university in Beijing, and I graduated from a university in the province. Compared to him, I am much inferior in the workplace.
After marriage, I gradually became more comfortable, which became the source of our petty disputes. After my husband went to the provincial capital, everything seemed to be fine, and we still kept ** talking. But slowly, he started to get busy and had less contact. I was a little apprehensive at first, but I also understood the pressure of his work.
Once, I took Niu Niu to the provincial capital to surprise him, only to find that he was with a female colleague named Mei Xiaoqi. She looked a lot like me when I was younger, and I couldn't help but feel a little fluctuating in my heart. But then I thought about it, maybe I thought too much. Jiahe explained that he just treated Mei Xiaoqi as a sister, and they really didn't have anything. I chose to believe in Him.
Our time in the provincial capital was very short, but it made me see the hard work of my husband. It is not easy for him to work in the field, and there are more gray hairs. My heart was filled with distress. When we got home, our contact became frequent again, and it felt like we were back in our newlywed days.
But I found some feminine products in the bathroom, all of which I hadn't used. This makes me a little suspicious. I began to think, what is the most important thing in marriage?I think it's trust and communication. Without communication, suspicions and misunderstandings grow like weeds. I decided that the next time we met, I would have a good talk with my family.
This little episode taught me a lot. In marriage, we are all growing and Xi how to be a better version of ourselves. We have to believe in love, but more importantly, we need to learn how to communicate and how to understand each other's hard work and dedication. Only in this way can we walk hand in hand and walk together on the uneven but loving path of marriage.