A precious memory - the emotional story of the inheritance of relics after the death of the old man.
Time flies, time flies, and when a loved one passes away, the relics left behind become the only link to pass on the memories to future generations. These relics may seem ordinary, but they contain deep emotions and precious memories. Let's go into a few families, listen to their stories, and feel the heartfelt emotion.
The precious** of the old**
After the death of an old birthday star in the village, Uncle Zhang, his family was faced with one choice after another. Uncle Zhang was industrious and simple all his life, and lived to be 105 years old, with a full house of children and grandchildren. It stands to reason that he should hold his ** before his death and remember it, but the Zhang family chose to burn all the ** of his life on the day of Uncle Zhang's burial, leaving not even a single shadow.
They believe that the portrait of the elder will bring infore to people, ** can be said to be the most important carrier of memory, especially the memory of a centenarian. However, this approach is obviously too simplistic, because it is not only a portrait of the deceased, but also a true portrayal of the ancestors and an important way for future generations to remember their ancestors. The portrait can't be placed in a conspicuous position for a long time, but it would be too extreme to burn all the ** of the old man before his death. The best way is to properly preserve the precious ** of the old man before his death, and choose a suitable time to take it out and revisit, so as to avoid excessive "seeing things and thinking about people" in daily life.
The old man's life ** carries too many family memories, we should not be easily burned, as a representative of future generations, the carrier of these memories will be properly preserved, in order to commemorate the old man, miss the deceased. At no time should we make a decision to regret our lives because of a momentary bias.
The preciousness of the diary**
Mrs. Wang lives in a community in the county seat, her children have all started a family, and she usually depends on her wife for her life, she is eighty years old, her body is still quite strong, and she still maintains the Xi of writing a diary. Those diaries record the details of her life for 70 years, including her love for her family, her feelings about social changes, and her perception of life circumstances.
Her diary is like a living history of her life, bearing witness to the stories of her time. However, after Mrs. Wang died, her daughter went back to her hometown to clean up her relics and found more than ten of her mother's diary notes at the bottom of the shoe cabinet.
The handwriting was a little blurry, and the paper was yellowed, but the words revealed the mother's emotions, and the daughter couldn't help but have red circles under her eyes. She carefully put away the diaries and decided to keep them, not only as a memory of her mother, but also as an important testimony to future generations about the old man's life.
When we sort out the relics of the elderly, we can't dispose of their books and notes at will, these seemingly ordinary things record the bits and pieces of the old man's life. They carry not only words and knowledge, but also the emotions and memories of the elderly, and we should use a nostalgic mood to organize and treasure.
The preciousness of the collectible**
Some of the old people's pursuit of cultural antiques, paintings, calligraphy and paintings, these things, whether valuable or not, have condensed the old man's preference for these items. If the children and grandchildren are not carefully kept, or they are greedy for small profits and pawn and sell, they will not only fail the elderly, but also ruin the opportunity for family inheritance and development.
For example, my grandfather loved to collect all kinds of antiques, calligraphy and paintings, and he spent his whole life gathering them, just to be able to appreciate them when he woke up, and he could still look back at them after he lay down. It wasn't until he passed away, remembering the joy he had seen for each new work, that it dawned on me that this was his joy in life and the memories he left us.
As the descendants of the elderly, we should not dispose of or burn these things just because they are "worthless" or "take up space". What's more, the value of these things is far more than money, whenever we see these objects, we will think of all kinds of anecdotes of the old man's life, and every time we touch these collections, it is as if we are talking to the old man.
Therefore, we should take good care of these relics, not only for the elderly.
Hobbies also extend their lives, so that the spirit of the ancestors will remain in the hearts of our descendants.
The preciousness of the quilt**
The people who lived in ancient times can be said to live very simply, and making a quilt can be said to be time-consuming and laborious, and in winter, it is a necessity for many people to keep warm. If the old man in the family dies, the quilt cannot be burned, but should be left for the use of children and grandchildren, the ancients believed that the essence of the user will be retained in the daily necessities, and the wisdom and blessing of the owner will be accumulated.
In some places, after the death of an old man, children and grandchildren will keep their favorite quilt in a paper box or cloth bag, and hang it on the wall or beams. This is a kind of silent thought, but also a kind of silent protection, this quilt is like the shadow of the old man, still protecting his children and grandchildren.
In some areas, there is a folk legend that the quilt of the ancestors can be used to sleep peacefully, which can eliminate disasters and solve problems, seek wealth and make fortunes, and be auspicious for generations. This is a kind of secular spiritual sustenance, and perhaps because of this, the traditional Xi rarely burns the old man's quilt, but carefully preserves and passes it on.
Among them, the homonym between the quilt and "life" adds a beautiful expectation, hoping that the blessing and blessing of the old man can accompany the family "for a lifetime". However, in today's society, these traditional ideas have been slowly forgotten, however, some elderly people still retain a sense of reverence for relics.
For some relics left by the elderly, we should properly dispose of them, after all, it can bring us memories and memories of our loved ones, so we should cherish these relics even more. Perhaps when we are faced with these relics, we will inevitably look at things and think about people, and we can place these objects in a suitable place. When we miss our loved ones, we can take it out and look at it to relieve our lovesickness.
Whether it is an old **, a diary, a collection or a quilt, they all carry the life of the elderly, the witness of memory, the continuation of emotion, and the bond of inheritance. While cherishing these relics, we are also cherishing our own family history and cultural traditions. Let us pass on these relics with gratitude, so that the spirit of the elderly will always exist in our lives.