Marriage inspection
Boys must exchange premarital physical examination reports and credit reports with girls, she can rest assured, you can rest assured, don't say more, understand everything.
2.CohabitationBefore deciding to get married, the old iron tried to live with the girl for a period of time, and many contradictions in living habits between couples could not be seen in daily life. Living together can help you quickly identify these problems, and you can judge in advance whether these problems can be resolved, and then decide whether you can spend the rest of your life together.
3.StrongIt's nothing in itself that a girl is competitive, but if she doesn't give you a little face in front of outsiders, then I advise you to communicate with her about it as soon as possible, if she refuses to communicate, and she loses her temper and feels that it is right, then you have to think about it.
4.propertyBefore marriage, you must discuss with the girl whether the money after marriage is managed by one person or the entire joint account, and it is clear that part of the money is used for emergency use. Oh, and if necessary, you can also have a prenuptial notarization.
5.KidsWhether you want children, how many you want, who will take them after you want them, and how to take them, it is best to have a plan in advance before marriage to avoid disputes after marriage.
6.Bride priceThe bride price must be determined, the dowry must also be determined, and how to use the amount should be determined.
7.ParentsMarriage is the union of two families, no matter how much you like this girl, if your parents strongly oppose it, you have to ask the reason before you act, after all, they will not harm you. If what they say makes sense, you consider the opinion;If you feel that it is wrong, then communicate well with the girl, strive to solve the problem together, and don't carry one-way communication alone.
8.careerMarriage is not the whole of life, boys must not completely sacrifice their careers and hobbies, the economic base determines the superstructure, this is not nonsense.
9.FamilyAfter marriage, you must distinguish between everyone and the small family, the extent to which both parents can meddle in the affairs of your small family, and how to tell your parents about the part that is not allowed to interfere, these need to be coordinated by the two of you.
10.CommunicationMarriage is not a playhouse, you must clarify the rules with girls before marriage, how to communicate if you quarrel after marriage, whether you want to save face in front of outsiders, whether you can take the initiative to resolve conflicts for the sake of a small family, these are all very important, quarrels will not destroy your feelings, and it is normal to have contradictions, but if you only vent your emotions, the ending will not be good.
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