Master Zeng Shiqiang once warned us: Being a man is too real, and there will be no good end. So you have to remember, don't be too soft-hearted, don't be too accommodating, don't be too realistic. You always think about what others do, but you have wronged yourself, and after a long time, who will take everything you pay for granted.
Yes, this society is no longer that unpretentious era, people use their brains to take advantage of others in every possible way, behave unrealistically, and deceive honest people often occur.
A friend who has been running around all year round to do projects got up a little late one morning, and had no choice but to run to catch the high-speed rail.
When he got on the train out of breath, his back was soaking wet. I finally found my seat, and an old man was already sitting there.
Uncle, you're not this seat ticket, are you?”
Well, go in a hurry, buy a standing ticket. Let's catch up with which one will take a seat. ”
Uncle, where are you going to get off the bus?”
Not far, Shijiazhuang. Today I was lucky, the car was all driving, and no one had come to sit in this seat yet. ”
My friend wanted to say that this seat was mine, but after thinking about it, I stopped talking. Standing silently in the aisle, thinking that it would be better to let the uncle sit, so he stopped talking.
Perhaps, most people will think that the behavior of friends is a traditional behavior of respecting the old and loving the young, which deserves to be praised and advocated.
But from another point of view, this friend is so real that he even says, "This seat is mine." I don't want to say this, I am too wronged myself, this kind of person is destined to suffer in today's society.
I appreciate the saying, "You don't have to put yourself too low." What belongs to you, you must actively fight for it. If it doesn't belong to you, please give it up decisively. You don't have to force yourself to do what you don't want to do, and you don't have to endure what you have endured for a long time. ”
Self-esteem and self-love are the most important things in life. You can't let others trample on your bottom line, and you can't live in the eyes of others, wronged yourself, and fulfilled others.
Because life is not for compromise, the weaker you retreat, the less time you have to breathe, and the worse your days get;The more humble you behave, the more others look down on you, and the farther away happiness will be from you.