Although Cao Guiren has a daughter, Princess Wenyi, and the child is also very fond of the emperor, as the princess's biological mother, Cao Guiren, has almost zero presence in the emperor. Is it because Cao Gui's family background is not good or is he ugly?Actually, it's not, what kind of woman does the emperor like?
The first type of woman that the emperor liked was the person the emperor loved. What the emperor likes, of course, is what he loves, and the typical representative of it is Zhen Huan, the main reason why Zhen Huan can be heart-to-heart with the emperor is that the two of them can resonate spiritually. We often say that there is no 100-day red flower, no matter how beautiful a person looks, even if you look at it for a long time, it will slowly lose its freshness, and there will be no difference from other people.
Between lovers, at first, honey blends oil, and after slowly getting acquainted, the passion will decline. At that time, some people may break up, and some people will stay together for a long time. And what is the main reason for the heating up of feelings?relies on the attraction of each other's personalities and the empathy of each other's thoughts, and in this regard, Zhen Huan is unique, she and the emperor share too many languages, he can read the emperor's meaning, and she can also understand the emperor's difficulties. Some people are restrained and afraid to speak in front of the emperor, but Zhen Huan can be very relaxed in the emperor's place. Even if there is a conflict between two people, they can get back together in the end. Zhen Huan has been out of the palace for so long, and the emperor's heart has never been able to let go, which is a heartbeat. Feelings like this are hard to come by.
And Cao Guiren is obviously not a person who has empathy with the emperor, Cao Guiren has not read for a few days, he does not understand everything in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and he is a layman in front of the emperor, so he can't talk about any common language. It is conceivable that Cao Guiren is not the type that the emperor likes.
The second woman the emperor liked was someone he respected. Although the relationship with the emperor is husband and wife, because there is no element of love, love turns into respect, which is actually a good thing. The typical representatives are Duan Concubine and Jing Fei.
The reason why Concubine Duan is respected by the emperor is because Concubine Duan sacrificed herself for the benefit of the emperor, and in order to be able to balance Concubine Hua's power, she took the blame and gave Concubine Hua ** the emperor once and for all. And he also made great sacrifices, and he was also very seriously hurt. So the emperor felt guilty about Concubine Duan, even in this case, Concubine Duan still had the emperor in her heart and thought about him everywhere. Therefore, although the emperor can't give Concubine Duan more favor, he has at least respect for her, and Concubine Duan came to the palace and the emperor directly said that he would be exempt from the courtesy and give her a seat immediately.
Concubine Jing is the same, Concubine Jing is obviously not the emperor's dish, but she knows who her leader is, before doing things, she will think of the emperor's opinion on this matter, and she will report to the emperor in time, which will shorten the relationship between her and the emperor, so the emperor also relies on her very much. If there is no love, only this kind of trust and respect can actually survive in the harem.
But Cao Guiren is obviously not respected by the emperor, she has nothing to be respected by the emperor, she has not sacrificed for the emperor, she has no broad mind, and she has no overall situation, on the contrary, she has done a lot of hurtful things with Concubine Hua, and the emperor cannot forgive her, let alone like her.
The third type of woman that the emperor liked was the one he favored. This pet is different from the love that pampers Zhen Huan, Zhen Huan's love is mutual, the emperor loves Zhen Huan, and Zhen Huan also loves the emperor. And this pet doesn't need much spiritual communication and communication, as long as the emperor likes it, such as Ying Guiren and Ye Lanyi. Especially Ye Lanyi, she was from a low background, and the Queen Mother said that she was not even as good as a palace maid.
You must know that the fourth elder brother's biological mother is a palace maid, and the emperor dislikes it so much that he almost doesn't recognize his son, but when he comes to Ye Lanyi, no matter how she behaves as a demon, the emperor likes it. Even Ye Lanyi has never given him a good face since she followed the emperor, even in the second half of the period, she is still the emperor's favorite concubine, and what Ye Lanyi said has always been very weighty in the emperor. Money is hard to buy for no reason, the emperor likes this taste, he feels that Ye Lanyi's temperament and personality are particularly convincing to him, so he is willing to make an exception for her. On the other hand, Cao Guiren, she is obviously not a person like Ye Lanyi.
Therefore, Cao Guiren is neither loved by the emperor, nor respected by the emperor, nor favored by the emperor, with an average appearance and family background, and Cao Guiren's biggest problem is that she has too many eyes, but her eyes are not great wisdom, but small cleverness. Compared with the emperor, she fell behind. So what she did, if she wanted to do something, she couldn't hide it from the emperor.
In addition, Cao Guiren has no self-knowledge, and always wants to use a little trick in front of the emperor, the emperor feels that it is too tiring to get along with such a scheming woman, and he has no good impression of Cao Guiren, let alone likes and loves.