Family management: the wisdom of getting along with siblings.
Introduction. 
In the journey of life, the affection between brothers and sisters is regarded as a precious treasure. The laughter of childhood, the companionship of adulthood, and the ups and downs experienced together constitute a beautiful picture. However, even if the family affection is deep, we also need to be soberly aware that family affection needs to be managed with heart. When getting along with siblings, you need to be measured and follow the principles of getting along, otherwise it may lead to tension and disharmony in the relationship. Let's learn to navigate the ocean of affection with the wisdom of sibling relationships.
1.Respect individual differences and don't interfere too much.
Between siblings, there are often very different personalities, interests, and ideals. Even if you are related by the same blood, you should not expect your siblings to be exactly the same as you. Liu Xing and Liu Beibei in "Family with Children" are such examples, the difference in personality makes them contradict each other in the process of growing up. However, by learning to understand and respect each other's differences, they eventually achieve harmony. Siblings, despite coming from the same family, each has unique preferences and Xi. Especially in adulthood, individual differences are more significant. We should respect the individuality of our siblings and appreciate their strengths rather than focus too much on their shortcomings. As Malcolm Forbes said, "Diversity is about understanding that each person is unique, and because everyone is unique, they all have value." "In getting along, we should take understanding as the premise, respect the individuality of our siblings, and do not interfere too much in each other's lives.
2.Be independent and don't rely too much on your siblings.
The relationship between siblings is not a substitute for an individual's independent life. We need to learn to think and live independently, while also respecting the independence of our siblings. As Albert Einstein said, "Everyone is independent, everyone has their own value, everyone has their own life." "No matter how close a relationship is, just because they are relatives should not be overly dependent on siblings and ignore the space they also need. Some people are Xi to relying on their siblings, and their first reaction is always to ask them for help, no matter what problems they encounter. Over-dependence can cause siblings to feel burdened and can end up ruining relationships. We need to remember that when we get along with our siblings, we must not only maintain our independence, but also respect and not arbitrarily affect each other's lives. Sibling relationships are like a rainbow, and the beauty lies in the harmony of colors. Maintaining individual independence and not being overly dependent can make the relationship stronger and more durable.
3.Learn to understand and accept.
As you get older, the way you relate to your siblings also needs to be gradually adjusted. No matter how good the relationship is, you also need to learn to understand and accept each other. The harmony of sibling relations is based on mutual respect and understanding. Everyone has their own life and develops independently. Between brothers and sisters, only on the basis of respect, to understand and accept each other with heart, can the relationship really go long-term. In getting along, don't stand on your own side and interfere too much in the lives of your siblings, but maintain a tolerant heart and build a stronger relationship with understanding and acceptance.
4.Hear the autumn voice.
On the road of life, it is a kind of happiness to be accompanied by brothers and sisters. However, no matter how good a relationship is, it needs to be constantly managed. As you get older, you need to quietly adjust your relationship with your siblings. Respecting differences, maintaining independence, understanding and acceptance are the keys to building a harmonious sibling relationship. Instead of expecting brothers and sisters to be exactly the same as themselves, it is better to cherish each other's differences and create a colorful family picture together. In getting along, we must not only learn to maintain our independence, but also use a tolerant heart to understand and accept the differences of siblings in order to achieve a harmonious and long-lasting relationship.
end - About the author:
Smell the sound of autumn and make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.