There are a lot of ** around the child, such as TV series, cartoons, mobile games, etc., which are all negative**. Negative ** refers to inducing the child to come out of the pain zone through something that makes the child very interesting and can bring the child an instant sense of happiness. When a child is in the trouble of learning Xi and feels painful, those anime TV that can make him laugh next to him, or those mobile games that can stimulate the sense of pleasure, are easy to ** him and hinder his learning Xi. Therefore, we must understand the negativity and find ways to help the child overcome the various negativity around him.
The core of the * is a sense of happiness, participation and achievement, no matter which **, as long as you give the child more experience in these three senses, it will make the child addicted. For example, cartoons, although there is no sense of participation and achievement, can bring a sense of happiness to children, make children happy and happy, make them feel humorous, fun, and have a sense of story, these are all happy elements. Mobile games can not only give children a sense of happiness, when the more points in the account are played, they can also be constantly upgraded, which can give children an unparalleled sense of achievement.
In addition, some games also require teamwork, and when children and friends cooperate to win competitors, this sense of participation and achievement, coupled with the joy of the game itself, can easily make children addicted. Some children become addicted to the game and immerse themselves in it without eating, drinking, or sleeping, and those who are very addicted may even become disrespectful and fight with their parents over their mobile phones.
In the eyes of many parents, children love games, but this perception is not correct. The truth of the matter is that children don't like to play games at all, what they like is the sense of happiness, participation, and accomplishment that comes from playing games. If you want to help children quit gaming, you have to find a way to destroy these feelings, and when they don't feel them in the game, they will naturally put down the mobile game.
There are many ways to solve playing mobile games, such as feeling destruction, getting tired of playing with your child, or helping your child find a greater pursuit in life. Either way, be sure to use it sparingly. Children follow their feelings, they don't follow their parents' commands.
Of course, there is also a good side to the game, that is, it can regulate people's mental state and exercise the flexibility of children's minds. Why do we want to help children quit gaming?Because games are easy to get addicted and out of control, they will disrupt the rhythm of children's learning and Xi, take up a lot of precious time, destroy children's motivation to pursue their life goals, and confuse children's direction, so we need to control the degree of children's games.