Eating in the restaurant, there was a boy next door with a bitter and hateful face, holding his mobile phone and frowning, and his chopsticks didn't move much. Listening to him talking to his friends, it seems that he has just added a girl's WeChat, but he doesn't know how to speak. His unreliable friend actually suggested that he send good morning and good night every day to brush up on his sense of existence, but this will only make the girl confused and disgusted!What a tragedy.
Adding to girls' WeChat is a moment of victory for many boys, but in fact, this is the first step in the long march. When I really wanted to chat with the girl, I found that I didn't know what to say, so I wrote and deleted, and finally only sent a "hi" word. What's even more tragic is that the girl replied with a "hi" and then there was no follow-up.
A good opening statement is important, and the wrong opening line will make the girl's first impression of you greatly diminished, and all the efforts after that are only to save the image and not the plus. So, what are the characteristics of a common false opening line?
First, expose the sense of need. For example, if you have nothing to say, ask the other party what they are doing, whether they have eaten, whether they can chat, etc. The subtext is that you are interested in her, want to flirt with her, and want to fall in love with her. But in the early stages of the relationship, this will only put you in an unequal position. So, make the chat right and find the right reason and time to start a chat with her.
Second, the opening statement is awkward. For example, when it rains outside, I feel sad, passing by a girl's house, etc. These awkward opening remarks will only make the girl not know how to respond to you. So, instead of asking why the girl doesn't reply to your messages, it's better to reflect on whether there is a problem with your opening statement.
Girls are emotional and rational creatures, they like to communicate, and if you can't talk or talk, you'll suffer. Even if you have other virtues, you can't shake a woman's heart. If you want to learn to Xi chatting, you can follow me to teach you!