Who understands the difficulties of being an only child!Faced with the four elderly people in my family who couldn't take care of themselves, I was simply helpless.
I am an only child, and I need to face the problem of providing for four elderly people. My father is in his 80s and is in good health and can take care of himself. However, my mother is 79 years old this year, has the sequelae of cerebral infarction, cannot take care of herself, has a very strange temper, and cannot leave people around her. In addition, my wife has a younger brother, but he was in a car accident in his 30s and is gone, and now my wife is also the only child in the family, and her parents are now unable to take care of themselves, and the family hires a nanny all year round. Now the two of us are facing four old people who can't take care of themselves, and we don't dare to have a headache and brain fever, otherwise the consequences will not be imagined. As an only child, my wife and I need to bear not only the pension of the four elderly, but also the pressure of work, life, family, children and other aspects. In the face of four old people, we dare not have the slightest slack, according to the different needs and personalities of the elderly, need to make different care programs, sometimes because of disagreement and always quarrel, lying in bed at night bones like falling apart, my wife and I have insomnia, tired to death during the day, and can't sleep at night, who understands this taste!I felt like I couldn't hold it anymore, and I couldn't get up that day when I lay down, and I was relieved!