My husband is in his 30s and an adult, but he doesn't have any savings.
He even asked me for 30 dollars, which was amazing.
A few days ago, he received his salary, a total of 2,200 yuan, but he didn't even give me a penny.
He claimed to have used all the money to pay off his debts, and I don't know anything about it.
Since he doesn't give money, forget it, I can earn my own money anyway.
Last night, my husband suddenly asked me for 100 yuan, and he said that he had no money to eat for the past few days.
At that time, I didn't give it to him, because I felt that after he took the 2,200 salary, he should have seven or eight hundred yuan left.
So, when he asked me for 100 dollars, I turned him down.
Who told him not to give it to me when he had money?This is not the first time he has asked me for money, he has asked me many times this year, and each time it is thirty or fifty yuan.
A lot of times I give it to him, and sometimes I give him some extra money.
I think I've been very generous.
But yesterday, when he asked me for 100 dollars, I didn't give it to him.
This morning, my husband went to work and at ten o'clock he called me **, but I didn't hear it.
Because my phone is always on silent and I have a total of three phones, I can't pay attention to each phone for missed calls.
In the morning, I received a message from my husband, who asked me for 30 yuan.
I immediately called him ** and asked, "What do you want 30 yuan for borrowing money from me so early?"He replied, "I only have 4 yuan left on me, and I haven't eaten in the morning, can you transfer me 30 yuan?"At that time, when he mentioned that he hadn't eaten in the morning, my first reaction was not to feel distressed, but to ask, "Does it cost 30 yuan to have breakfast?"Do you want to eat abalone and lobster?Although I often settle breakfast outside, it usually only costs about 5 yuan, and I didn't expect my husband to borrow 30 yuan from me.
He then said, "Then I won't eat in the afternoon?".I didn't listen to him, so I hung up the **, and immediately transferred 30 yuan to him.
In fact, at first I was going to transfer an extra 20 yuan to him, and even considered transferring 50 yuan to him, but then I became sensible.
If I transfer an extra 20 yuan to him this time, he will definitely borrow it from me in the future, because he has tasted the sweetness.
So, I ended up only giving him 30 bucks.
After transferring 30 yuan, he immediately clicked to confirm the payment, and he should have gone to buy food immediately.
After giving my husband 30 yuan, I started to regret it a little.
Because usually I don't have 30 yuan for lunch and dinner combined, and he is now just an apprentice in water heater installation, and he doesn't even have a salary.
An apprentice would dare to take 30 yuan to eat Chinese food, which is too extravagant.
My husband is 34 years old this year, and he will be 35 after the Chinese New Year, and now he has no house, no car, and no savings (although he has a small car worth 200,000 yuan, but it is not a new car), and he owes more than 200,000 foreign debts.
I won't mention that he has no savings and no foreign debts.
An adult man in his 30s who doesn't even have 30 yuan on him is simply a joke.
Think about so many men in the country, how many of them don't even have 30 yuan on them?I probably can't find a second one like my husband.
The 30 yuan I gave my husband was not given to him, but lent to him.
When he pays his salary later, I will definitely get the money back.
My money will always be mine, and now that he is in trouble, I can transfer 30 yuan to him to solve the problem of eating, but when he has money, this money must be returned to me.
Sometimes I'm really speechless, other men in their 30s have houses, cars and money, even if he doesn't have a house, he can't get 30 yuan.
I don't know how embarrassed he was to ask me to borrow 30 dollars.
He probably knew I wasn't going to give him a hundred or two hundred dollars, so he wouldn't ask for that much.
I've never been generous, so I'm sure I won't give him one or two hundred dollars at a time.
I think it's good to give him twenty or thirty dollars.
Now, my husband has figured out my psychology.
Yesterday he asked me for 100 dollars, and I didn't give it.
He thought I should give him the money.
This time he guessed right, and I really gave him 30 bucks.
I think my husband is very talented.
He once told me that when he was young, he went to work and had no fare, and ended up at the station.
Later, he called his family to ask for money, and I heard that the fare was 80 yuan at that time, and my father-in-law sent him 100 yuan (these are all said by my husband himself).
Think about it, after getting married, what man doesn't have one or two hundred dollars on hand?Even if not particularly wealthy, there should be a few hundred.
And my husband, all his belongings are only four yuan, if I hadn't transferred 30 yuan to him, he might have starved to death today.
As the saying goes, the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring, and my husband now owes me a big favor.