Goethe described love this way:
"Your words are my bread, and your breath is my wine. ”When a man is emotionally attracted to a woman, he will show his love uncontrollably, which is a kind of fate. Before the relationship is clear, a man has these manifestations towards you, which is silently crushing on you.
I've heard this passage:
In a group of people, if you want to judge who likes whom, just observe who is looking at whom while everyone is laughing together.
Like a person, even if you don't say it explicitly, but there will be some subconscious behaviors.
If a man likes someone, he obviously behaves with the word initiative.
He will take the initiative to get involved in your life and keep a close eye on your every move.
Because he wants to know more about you and have the opportunity to have more intersections with you.
In "Love's Study Trip", He Youjun confessed that when he chased his wife Xi Mengyao, he spent a lot of thought and time.
After he failed to ask Xi Mengyao out many times, he happened to find out that Xi Mengyao would be on a love variety show.
So he immediately changed his work schedule and went to that show, deliberately creating opportunities to get along.
And he also made sufficient preparations, he confirmed that Xi Mengyao could not quit halfway, and then he went to carry out this plan.
A man who is attracted to you, as long as he can intersect with you, he will do everything he can to come to you.
Men may think in a big way, but that's the way they treat themselves.
Once you face someone you like, even if you are a straight man, you will change your habits.
A friend and the object have been in love for 3 years and successfully entered into marriage, in the wedding speech, she said:
"I want to thank the person next to me, who has taken care of me for the past 3 years, so that I have the courage to enter into marriage.Later, I heard that when the relationship was not yet confirmed, her object treated her like this, and she knew better than herself what she liked.He is a very critical person, but he is very generous to me, he rarely buys things for himself, but often gives me clothes, cosmetics and bags.
He was rough with himself, but very attentive to me, he could forget his birthday, but he always remembered every holiday, what I would like. ”
A man is never dull in the face of true love, he may not say things like "I like you" and "I love you", but he will definitely show it with actions.
Whether it is giving you a cup of milk tea you like, or inviting you to watch your favorite opera, it shows that he is thinking about the matter of liking you, not just a whim.
The more a man loves someone, the more he will suffer from gains and losses, and he is afraid that his recklessness will cause the other party to resent him.
Usually he thinks more than you do, and he cares more about whether it is good for you and whether you will be comfortable.
In the TV series "North and South", photographer Liu Liangzhou fell in love with the good-looking Dai Xiaoyu at first sight, and he expressed his heart after the two got along a few times.
Dai Xiaoyu was hurt at the time and didn't want to invest in a relationship again, Liu Liangzhou accepted it generously, and then stayed by Dai Xiaoyu's side like a friend, without making her embarrassed.
When a man is interested in a woman, he instinctively wants to possess it, but if he is really in love, he will take care of it carefully.
He will care about a woman's true thoughts, respect a woman's emotional needs, and will not ignore it, but just selfishly satisfy himself.
Some people say that a crush is a tragedy, because no matter how deep you love, it is a one-man show.
I think that crush is a kind of self-fulfillment, because no matter whether the other party cares about you or not, you still pay silently without regrets.
Perhaps, there is a kind of love that is only related to oneself and has nothing to do with others.
When a man has a crush on a woman, he will take the initiative to understand the other party, he will be patient and giving, and he will understand the other party.
This is a beautiful experience in life, but also a kind of self-growth.
Emotion