In this world, there is a language, it is tortuous and obscure, it is both a disguise and a reveal, it is a woman's duplicity. This kind of language confuses men and makes women themselves unable to fully understand. It is a labyrinth of emotions and a refuge for the soul.
You go, I'm fine. "It's a woman's smile squeezed out of pain, and she wants you to leave because she doesn't want you to see her vulnerability. However, she wants you to stay, because she longs for your comfort. Behind this sentence is a woman's contradictory struggle with independence and dependence.
I do not like you. "It's a lie that a woman tells when her heart is moving, and her eyes betray her true feelings. She was afraid of being hurt, so she chose to protect herself with indifference. However, her heart is silently expecting, hoping that you can see through her disguise and insist on approaching her.
You don't need to change for me. This is the opposite of a woman who is desperate to change you, who wants you to be able to be better for her, but who doesn't want to put pressure on you directly.
I'm fine, you're busy. The real meaning of this sentence may be: "I'm actually a little unhappy or need your attention, but I understand that you're also busy and don't want to cause you trouble." "Whatever you want. When a woman says this, she probably doesn't really want you to decide casually. She may want you to be more considerate of her feelings and needs, or she may want you to offer a solution that satisfies her.
You go and rest, I can handle it myself. The true meaning of this phrase may be: "I do need your help, but I also want you to get enough rest." If you can do both, I'd be very grateful. ”
I'm not hungry, I'm not tired. Sometimes, a woman may use this rhetoric to mean the opposite, such as she may want you to invite her to dinner, or she may want you to understand that she is actually tired.
Please note that these explanations are not expressed in this way by all women, and each person may express them differently.
In summary, women's language may be more tortuous and subtle than men's. They may use rhetoric, euphemism, or duplicity to express their feelings and needs. As listeners, we need to learn to listen and understand their true intentions, not just take them at face value.
A woman's duplicity is not only a means of self-preservation, but also a desire and expectation for emotion. They are afraid of being hurt, so they choose to use words to hide their true feelings. However, they also want to be understood, to see through their disguises, to see the fragility and truth of their hearts.
This kind of dulicitous language makes it challenging and confusing for men in the process of pursuing women. But if you're willing to listen and understand them with your heart, you'll find the soulfulness and authenticity behind the language. They're not deliberately playing with your feelings, they're trying to express their emotions and needs in their way.
So, when you encounter a woman's duplicity, don't give up or get angry easily. Try to understand their feelings and needs, and listen to their authentic voices. You will find that this understanding and tolerance will not only allow you to get to know them better, but will also make your relationship closer and more authentic.