Experiencing this funeral touched me very much.
My fourth grandfather is my grandfather's youngest brother, the oldest to live, eating and drinking all his life, free and open-minded, no matter whether he has money or not, he never goes to his heart in everything.
Before the epidemic was lifted, the old man could eat and drink every day, although he had basic medicine and did not leave his body, but his mind was still quite clear, and he still wanted to sprint to the centenarian in the family, after all, he was 96 years old, and the old man felt that he would take good care of it and live for another 4 years.
When the epidemic was just lifted, the family was yang one after another, the old man didn't know the power of the virus, and his ears were deaf, he didn't read the news or newspapers, he sat at the gate with the courtyard door open and watched people come and go basking in the sun, although he was wearing a mask, but he was also yang.
Strangely, he didn't have a fever, nor did he cough violently, but he was not in good spirits, and he was stunned. The most obvious symptom is drowsiness, after the sun, he no longer sits at the gate of the hospital, and sleeps in the house every day.
I don't eat anything, I rely on forced feeding.
Later, after feeling that he could not breathe, his family sent him to the hospital.
After arriving at the hospital for examination, I entered the ICU, had a tracheotomy, and was put on a ventilator with a tube.
Both lungs are white, and various organs are failing.
Even if the family is mentally prepared, they also know that the old man is also suffering now, he is old, and he has underlying diseases, and his physical resistance cannot withstand the attack of the virus.
The three children of the old man, after discussing with each other, reached a consensus: the old man was afraid that he would not be able to bear it, and then began to notify his relatives.
When we arrived at home, his three children told us in front of us that they planned to let the old man out of the hospital now and go back to his hometown directly.
After hearing this, everyone looked at each other.
Some relatives said: Since people have not swallowed their breath now, and the nutrient solution can also be infused, they must be able to stay up for a while in the hospital
There are also relatives who said: It's all caused by this virus, without this damn virus, the old man wouldn't be like this now!
Some relatives asked stupidly: Why didn't you go to the hospital earlier?
The eldest son of the fourth grandfather is also an old man in his 70s, and he coughed and waved his hand and said: Forget it, I am in charge of this matter, and I will die.
Then I went to the hospital to go through various procedures, contacted the car, and sent someone back to my hometown to make all kinds of preparations.
After the fourth grandfather with a ventilator bumped all the way back to his hometown, he opened his eyes, and then turned his eyes to look around, making sure that he had returned.
He couldn't speak, but he still had a trace of consciousness, and he was relieved to keep staring at the filial sons and grandsons beside him.
After less than two hours, the old man left peacefully.
These relatives who went to help were discussing the cause of the fourth grandfather's death, and everyone thought it was the new crown, saying that if this wave of the virus was not so ruthlessly released, the old man might really be able to reach the age of 100.
There are also distant relatives who muttered: I should stay in the hospital for a few more days, and I can't be pulled back so early.
This word reached the ears of the busy uncle, and he scolded loudly and said: Don't say it again!It's all something I know, do you have to take it out for recreation?If you want to stay, stay here, and if you don't want to stay, go home!
The uncle is also an old man in his 70s, wearing filial piety clothes and hats, and his health is not good.
Uncle said what can I do?The old man has been in the hospital for a few days, and he continues to stay at 8,000 yuan a day, who will give me money?My grandson is about to have a happy event, and he will give 180,000 yuan in the glorious gift money, and now there is a famine. Will it be that all the white and happy events will be squeezed into one day?
After saying that, he choked up, wiped a handful of tears, and returned to the mourning hall.
But not everyone understands him!
There are also relatives of the younger generation who whispered that it seems that the extubation joke on the Internet is not false at all, and there are really a few people who have pulled out the tube for their father after discussion.
It is said that in winter, it is difficult for the elderly to survive, and it is even more difficult for the elderly with underlying diseases. What's more, the sudden opening of the epidemic this time caught many young people off guard. The top three hospitals around the country are about to burst their warehouses, and all departments have to admit new crown patients in the respiratory department, at this time, there is no fatal disease, no one will go to the hospital to compete for beds, and the ICU is even more overcrowded.
Behind this phenomenon, it is conceivable that many ordinary families can only give up because they can't afford to be dragged down by high medical expenses and can't see any hope.
If the matter is not spread out on anyone, it is impossible to empathize.
Regarding the decision of my uncle and the others, morally speaking, it was their decision to end the life of my fourth grandfather in advance.
But humanly speaking, I understand and respect!