For the sake of love, I have also changed myself, trying to become the way you like, but despite this, I have not been together. In the end, I realized that two people can't be together without feelings, even if I've become what you want to be, but those are just excuses.
Once, I saw your graceful manners, charming smile, like a blue butterfly, rippling a beautiful ripple in my heart. So, driven by the urge to pursue love, I thought I could change myself to become the person you liked. I've learned to dress appropriately, to speak and behave appropriately, and to learn some hobbies that you like, and hopefully to be able to share more common topics with you. I am willing to try to become the person you like for the sake of love.
I am deeply in love with you, and there is a gentle fluctuation in my heart. Every joy you see in your eyes is the goal you strive for day and night. However, no matter how much I change, even though I keep adjusting myself, I still can't tie your heart. In your eyes, I may just be a friend, someone to talk to. Or maybe you don't realize the changes I've made for you.
After thinking about it, I realized that pure feelings between two people are crucial. No matter how you change the way you are, if you don't feel good about me, we can't come together. Love is not an exchange, changing each other to win each other's favor does not guarantee ultimate happiness. It turned out that those changes were just an excuse for myself, and I was just looking for a reason to make myself better.
When I realized this, my heart sank. I once lost myself for love, abandoned my preferences and principles, and changed myself in order to meet the expectations of others. However, I have learned that true love should be two people who accept and appreciate each other as they are, and grow together in the process of falling in love.
Looking back now, I'm glad I didn't wait any longer, I didn't lose more of myself. After this relationship, I have a better understanding of my worth and uniqueness. I no longer seek the approval and liking of others, but pay more attention to my inner voice and pursue the things that really make me happy. I have learned to cherish myself and stop blindly chasing the love of others, but to wait for someone who truly knows how to appreciate me.
Love is not about changing yourself, but about growing up with your partner. In this silent friction, the two people run into each other, get to know each other, and finally find the point of convergence of each other's hearts. Only in this fit can we truly understand and accept each other, and go through the ups and downs of life together.
Even though I changed myself for you, trying to be what you liked, I understand now that those are just excuses. True love happens naturally, and you don't need to deliberately change yourself to please each other. Moreover, if a person does not love you, no amount of change will help. Therefore, I decided to put aside my past efforts and changes and find my own happiness again.
I no longer regret that I have changed myself for love, because that experience has made me more aware of the true meaning of life. Love happens spontaneously and naturally, and there is no need to force and change. Only after finding someone who truly knows how to appreciate and love you can we truly achieve happiness. Therefore, I will continue to be true to myself and believe that one day I will meet someone who knows how to appreciate me and truly spend my life with him.
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